post here if you're incapable of love

  • ZakSayWhat

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    Jun 20, 2015 4:35 PM GMT
    go
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    Jun 20, 2015 4:52 PM GMT
    Im incapable of loving you.
  • ZakSayWhat

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    Jun 20, 2015 5:49 PM GMT
    duh who isnt
  • mybud

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    Jun 20, 2015 5:50 PM GMT
    You're capable...he hasn't crossed your path yet...awe fuck bye
  • metta

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    Jun 20, 2015 6:01 PM GMT
    Zak, counseling is your friend. Please go get some!
  • ZakSayWhat

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    Jun 20, 2015 8:26 PM GMT
    why? im normal, dick.
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    Jun 21, 2015 3:02 PM GMT
    I once met a guy on line who claimed he couldn't feel any emotion. How sad.

    Love is the only thing that makes life worth living.
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    Jun 21, 2015 10:42 PM GMT
    metta8 saidZak, counseling is your friend. Please go get some!


    +1
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    Jun 22, 2015 12:59 AM GMT
    MuchMoreThanMuscle said
    UndercoverMan saidI once met a guy on line who claimed he couldn't feel any emotion. How sad.

    Love is the only thing that makes life worth living.


    Just wanted to chime in and say that love isn't an emotion.

    Feelings are emotions, like happiness, joy, anger, elation, jealousy.

    People think the opposite of love is hate but it's not. Hate is an emotion. Love is affinity and it serves as a facilitator for the exchange of all your feelings plus so much more.

    The opposite of love, by the way, is indifference.




    Love isn't a feeling? One doesn't feel love?
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    Jun 22, 2015 2:00 AM GMT
    I think a lot more people have this issue than they realize. It's not that they can't love, it's that they can't form the relationships and keep them for it to really happen.

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    Jun 22, 2015 4:23 AM GMT
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    Jun 23, 2015 3:38 AM GMT
    Isn't the idea of love a product of evolution?
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    Jun 23, 2015 3:50 AM GMT
    soulman1969 saidIsn't the idea of love a product of evolution?
    No, it's a product of Hallmark.
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    Jun 23, 2015 4:09 AM GMT
    ^ I've always loved R. Kelly's music. He's a lyrical legend!

    But I still like EDM more. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jun 23, 2015 5:30 AM GMT
    "...Love in the Buddhist tradition means finding peace through reintegration in the ground of our own existence and offering that pathway to all beings who are ready to open to it..."


    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Brahmavihara
    The brahmavihāras (sublime attitudes, lit. "abodes of brahma") are a series of four Buddhist virtues and the meditation practices made to cultivate them. They are also known as the four immeasurables...

    ...These virtues are also highly regarded by Buddhists as powerful antidotes to negative mental states (non-virtues) such as avarice, anger and pride...

    ...Other translations:
    English: four divine abodes, four divine emotions, four sublime attitudes....

    ...The four immeasurables are:

    1.Loving-kindness (Pāli: mettā, Sanskrit: maitrī) towards all: the hope that a person will be well; "the wish that all sentient beings, without any exception, be happy."[11]

    2.Compassion (Pāli and Sanskrit: karuṇā): the hope that a person's sufferings will diminish; "the wish for all sentient beings to be free from suffering."[11]

    3.Empathetic joy (Pāli and Sanskrit: muditā): joy in the accomplishments of a person—oneself or another; sympathetic joy; "the wholesome attitude of rejoicing in the happiness and virtues of all sentient beings."[11]

    4.Equanimity (Pāli: upekkhā, Sanskrit: upekṣā): learning to accept loss and gain, good-repute and ill-repute, praise and censure, sorrow and happiness (Attha Loka Dhamma),[12] all with detachment, equally, for oneself and for others. Equanimity is "not to distinguish between friend, enemy or stranger, but regard every sentient being as equal. It is a clear-minded tranquil state of mind—not being overpowered by delusions, mental dullness or agitation."


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    Jun 23, 2015 5:32 AM GMT
    pazkilimanjaro said
    paulflexes said^ I've always loved R. Kelly's music. He's a lyrical legend!

    But I still like EDM more. icon_biggrin.gif


    but the real question is when you're about to fuck somebody, would you play this
    I don't work for the IRS and I'm not a supervisor, so I have no reason to fuck someone. icon_cool.gif
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    Jun 23, 2015 5:43 AM GMT
    pazkilimanjaro said
    paulflexes said
    pazkilimanjaro said
    paulflexes said^ I've always loved R. Kelly's music. He's a lyrical legend!

    But I still like EDM more. icon_biggrin.gif


    but the real question is when you're about to fuck somebody, would you play this
    I don't work for the IRS and I'm not a supervisor, so I have no reason to fuck someone. icon_cool.gif


    you sound like a straight up slut.
    If it walks like a duck and talks like a duck, then I'm probably a slut.