I think it's over, Could you guys share your opinion on that?

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    Jun 25, 2015 2:17 PM GMT
    You remember me saying here about my bf and that we argued a lot, 2 days ago e argued again and yesterday it was gonna be quite good, I was sitting on him he started to play and tease me like we were pushing our hands on eachother, he was smiling and kind of happy, I started ti tickle him slowly ( he doesn;t like it , me neither but we were plying like this many times before) but yetreday he started to squizze me really hard though I stopped tickleing him... he grabbed my hand tightly as I said ' lemme go' it hurts... his eyes were monster like frustrated.

    I was shocked, beeieve me guys ... I was sitting there and ...
    I said my arm hurt and he said he didnt give a f** bout this yelling at me cuz I tickled him..

    then I started to cry cuz I ve had a panic attack ( I suffer from Anxiety disorder)I gt reaally scared of him I told him that all I wanted to is to get closer to him as recently we'd been reallly distant, and didn't notice he wasn't feeling good about it.

    Recently he 'been doing judo and the gym and taking all these BCAA creatine and proteins. I feel like I don't know him...
    He is too tired to have sex
  • DJEsco_

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    Jun 25, 2015 3:36 PM GMT
    Ahh the good ol too tired for sex. That is my boyfriend's excuse most of the time, it really sucks to hear.. I don't get it even if I'm tired and know I should go to sleep I always have energy in my reservoir for sex. I might beat myself up the day after but hey had sex lol. I can't offer any other info but saying you have to talk to him.. Communication is key
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    Jun 25, 2015 9:08 PM GMT
    sqwatz saidA volatile short fused kung fu practitioner for a boyfriend.

    You sure now how to choose them.icon_rolleyes.gif
    sorry I don't understand
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    Jun 25, 2015 9:16 PM GMT
    I used to know a whole lot of disrespectful Polish jokes, but after meeting a whole lot of really cool people from Poland I forgot most of the jokes.

    Now I'm starting to remember a few. icon_lol.gif
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    Jun 25, 2015 9:29 PM GMT
    I broke up with him today, we've been together for 3 months and 50% of that was arguing. We're too different. He was always so damn official, ALWAYS. when he was mad when he was happy he talked almost the same way. ALWAYS so officialy,

    One time he asked me NOt to take photos by his camera ( I wanted to check his camera that he does not use at all)because cameras have limited number of photos that can be done.

    I accepted a lot but still we couldnt get along. There was always something wrong ( with me, with his car - which worked great ),

    He uses a cellphone too frequently
    Last time he was at my home my mama asked him something and all he did was texting with his female friends...

    He was always jealous and asked many times about one man and I always expained to him everything but when I asked him twice about one boya was jealous of ( and asked him in a joke like way) he pushed the brakes in immiedietly and I had no seatbelts on and almost landed on a front window pane. ( we were going by car then, he was driving)


    Sorry guys for taking that much about my problem but I have no one to talk about it with icon_sad.gif I fell in love and so quickly it ended up... icon_sad.gif
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    Jun 25, 2015 9:31 PM GMT
    paulflexes saidI used to know a whole lot of disrespectful Polish jokes, but after meeting a whole lot of really cool people from Poland I forgot most of the jokes.

    Now I'm starting to remember a few. icon_lol.gif


    why do u think I'm not cool?
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    Jun 25, 2015 10:20 PM GMT
    Sounds like the relationship fizzled out for good reason. It's time to get back on your feet, dust yourself off and move on. Another BF will come along and hopefully it will be a better match.
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    Jun 25, 2015 11:01 PM GMT

    Recently he 'been doing judo and the gym and taking all these BCAA creatine and proteins. I feel like I don't know him...
    He is too tired to have sex
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    He's not into you anymore and the sooner you realize that the safer you will be.


  • Webster666

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    Jun 26, 2015 4:46 AM GMT
    Run.
    I'm serious.
    Get out of there.
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    Jun 26, 2015 12:35 PM GMT
    Webster666 saidRun.
    I'm serious.
    Get out of there.

    Why do u think so??
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    Jun 26, 2015 1:16 PM GMT
    Webster666 saidRun.
    I'm serious.
    Get out of there.

    Agree. I had a BF become violent like this, and I dropped him immediately.
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    Jun 26, 2015 1:38 PM GMT
    i am usually the last one to say it but its over. Dont be the 90's gay all emotional. This man failed for you where he was in his life. The next person you meet you might be the aggressor.

    be careful, every little bit matters so think through ALL the details.
    -the basics, you will need food clothing and a place to stay. have a plan to execute these needs.
    -in any break up it takes a while to when you can think for your self so look for things to do, people to see. A good time to volunteer read that book, learn a new programing language whatever. IT IS NOT EXPECTED YOU SHOULD BE EVEN A TINY BIT DEPRESSED.
    -have a plan, think it through, dont anything out side of the plan.

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    Jun 26, 2015 3:24 PM GMT
    justasking said
    pellaz said... he didnt beat me up .. I'd like to stay all over again with him
    well have a plan, dont think outside the plan.

    self help plan
    write down what are your expectations for the relationship. Give the list to your GF and discuss it. Think in terms of what if he cant understand anything you feel absolutely essential for your self love.

    the a professional plan (no shame here):
    consider couples counseling (hopefully you can get a gay bias), with every life change not a bad idea. Nothing here lazer science. Both of you in attendance.



    not everyone is in the same space at the same time. I know you want him to think like you do but he might not be able to. Just because he dosnt want to.
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    Jul 14, 2015 5:35 PM GMT
    Well, I broke up with him but I told him I loved him and we got back together and after a week he said his feeling dimmed a bit bcause I did this.

    We had a conversation last saturday and he said I was too changable ( I postponed a meeting with my friend two days later) and I'd been crazy when I'd gotten my salary ( which wasn't much) because I had no prioritets ( I had to go to the dentist etc) though we didn't live together and he never wanted me to give him no money for eg eating at his.

    He cried during this conversation and said he loved me still but not that much and I pushed him into breaking with me. and he got nervous and did it. But then he texted ' the fuck it shouldn't have looked like that' and he said he was a starnge type of person and he felt really bad about this but for me it'd be better off without him. He felt like he'd been hurting me...

    it's been 3 days now and he doesn't call nor text. I won't do this as first..