First Date Went Well; Ambiguity About 2nd Date Though

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    Jun 25, 2015 5:39 PM GMT
    I went on a first date that went really well (lot's of shared interests, grew up in the same city, natural conversation flow, etc) It's been months since I've been on a date that good.

    As it winded down and we were walking from dinner there was that window for setting up a second date which I took. I asked what he was doing this weekend and he said he's working Sat but free Sunday. Good sign... I think.

    "So, let's tentatively say Sat night or Sunday to do something then?" I offered

    "Sure, let's check in with each other later on and see what we're up to" was what he said.

    Is that a good sign that he want's to go on a 2nd date? I'm thinking of texting him today for something more concrete if he wants but don't want to seem like I'm pestering him/ desperate. Maybe he want's to but isn't sure who should plan it, we kind of mutually planned the first date so it might be somewhat ambiguous.

    What do you guys think?
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    Jun 25, 2015 5:49 PM GMT
    Text something like "how do you feel about a movie for Sunday?", or some other activity.

    You are checking in, as agreed, and offering a very loose plan.

    if he doesn't bite, it's not worth perusing.
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    Jun 25, 2015 6:05 PM GMT
    It does sound ambiguous ... but you should still at least give it a shot and see what happens.
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    Jun 26, 2015 12:57 AM GMT
    Well, just texted him offering to see each other again this weekend, going on 3 hours ago No response.

    Was worried this might happen... now I'm going to wondering "Uh oh, what did I do or not do/ say or not say?" icon_neutral.gif
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    Jun 26, 2015 1:12 AM GMT
    OMG it's been 3 hrs and no response? Wow, your dating life is over!

    #sarcasm

    I don't remember the last time I responded in less than 6 hrs to a text unless it's an urgent work message or a message confirming location to arrive at an event. That said, I often forget to respond to text messages too. icon_lol.gif