Dudes on grindr/jack'd are weird & flakey

  • zelon1

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    Jun 26, 2015 7:25 AM GMT
    It's like, why do you message me....then don't say shit or try and keep the convo going.

    Guy: hey
    Me: hey wassup
    Guy: nothin
    Me: oh so you live in the city. How's ya night
    Guy: good

    Literally every dude on these apps cannot hold a fucking basic conversation. And it's like I have my face pic, they message me first. I don't message anyone first
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    Jun 26, 2015 7:28 AM GMT
    #1stWorldGayProblems
  • e2ksj3355

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    Jun 26, 2015 7:36 AM GMT
    Yeah the guys on grindr are pretty much like that. I don't even know why I still have it.
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    Jun 26, 2015 9:14 AM GMT
    @TomSOCAL Well... What do you expect? That's an app purely for hookup! lol I wouldn't be surprise if they were typing with their cocks. lmao
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    Jun 26, 2015 9:49 AM GMT
    TomSOCAL said
    MasterOfTheDomain said@TomSOCAL Well... What do you expect? That's an app purely for hookup! lol I wouldn't be surprise if they were typing with their cocks. lmao


    Actually, not always, there is an option to put down "your interests" i.e. everything from "Friends, dates, chat, networking, relationship, unspecified, and Right Now."

    Personally, none of these appeal to me with the personalities of the southwest. No interest in anyone here, and nobody has expressed interest in me - anywhere in Southern CA or Arizona.

    Colorado? That was another story when I visited a few years ago.

    Those of us from near the Canadian Border are conversationalists. That's how we get to know people. We don't "read" people that well.


    Yes but most people right there don't read that part and they often send people with their cock pics as if their cock was their face. Hence the notorious name 'hookup app'.

    RJ, while not as active as before, is more reliable than that app. lol
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    Jun 26, 2015 10:04 AM GMT
    I joined this March, so I don't know much.

    As far as I gathered: Some members said the chat function is no longer available. Secondly bad experience with RJ, I guess that is dramas and flamewars, funnily I got one message who called me a 'loser' not so long ago. icon_lol.gif Thirdly some guy are only into hookup and people with fake profile, resulting the erosion of RJ. So the regulars too, are slowly disappearing as a result.

    I believe I missed a lot of points, since I'm still relatively new here.
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    Jun 27, 2015 12:13 AM GMT
    zelon1 saidDudes on grindr/jack'd are weird & flakey

    Well, you're on there too, so I guess you're weird and flakey. icon_wink.gif
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    Jun 29, 2015 5:18 AM GMT
    These apps suck. I just use it to look at the eye candy. Unless you're smoking hot, you won't get anywhere.
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    Jul 01, 2015 3:06 PM GMT
    It's because you're not their type and they don't want to be mean or make an effort. They will make an effort and try to meet if they're into you.
  • Orland23

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    Jul 02, 2015 4:32 AM GMT
    TomSOCAL saidWhy is REAL JOCK not as active as before, I am new as of August or Sept of last year, and it looks fine with me, several people are complaining on several threads tonight about RJ - why ?


    I joined back late 2014 and according to the numbers on the website, the numbers online went down a bit since December, but the forums seems to be about as active, maybe slighly less, there might be fewer people on Real Jock since it is summer in North America, Europe and Asia so more people are outside and hanging with friends since the weather is nice.

    More people might join in Fall or Winter since it is the time which people think about workouts as the Holiday weight gain and the spring season is inching closer.

    Real Jock won't see millions of people and tens of thousands of people online since it caters to gay men interested in fitness.

    Let's see if the site picks up a bit in late autumnicon_question.gif
  • zelon1

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    Jul 02, 2015 5:01 AM GMT
    LAXWill10 saidIt's because you're not their type and they don't want to be mean or make an effort. They will make an effort and try to meet if they're into you.


    If I'm not their type then why do they message me first?
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    Jul 13, 2015 2:39 AM GMT
    OMG what exactly is the green eyed monster of hate? Sounds like an std
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    Jul 13, 2015 3:23 AM GMT
    Seriously OP! Your expectations of guys from a hookup app are way too high!