What draws you to another guy... whether gay or str8

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    Jun 30, 2015 6:55 PM GMT
    What makes you drawn to, or turned on by another guy? Whether gay or str8.... makes you burn for him, love him, wanting him....
    Me... Definitely his personality. Sometimes his looks...
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    Jun 30, 2015 7:12 PM GMT
    It does start with superficial aspects like face, body etc. But if his personality is shit, my attraction will go away quite fast. I appreciate guys who treat people with respect, are kind, have humility, and don't take themselves very seriously.
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    Jun 30, 2015 8:05 PM GMT
    By sight that would be the vision of him. But just because I had sex with you once doesn't mean I'll have sex with you again. I have my standards, ya know.

    I've been attracted to intelligence and talent, very much a turn on. But I think what I home into most is a guy's humor and just a general connection. If a guy gets me without me having to explain myself and I relate well to him, that's the total turn on. I might sleep with him a second time.
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    Jul 01, 2015 3:41 AM GMT
    It's always going to be based on looks. It's not like you see a random guy and say to yourself.. Oh that guy has a such a hot personality. I must have him! icon_lol.gif
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    Jul 01, 2015 3:43 AM GMT
    Looks draw me in, common hobbies/interests keep me interested, positive outlook on life (even during bad times) tells me he's motivated to succeed, and overall personality seals the deal.
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    Jul 01, 2015 4:09 AM GMT
    Him having a personality that for some reason attracts me to him in a sexual way. Body language plays a part on that.
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    Jul 01, 2015 5:57 AM GMT
    Personality, that's how I fall for people.

    Good looking people are only good for the eyes. icon_lol.gif
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    Jul 01, 2015 6:00 AM GMT
    MasterOfTheDomain saidPersonality, that's how I fall for people.

    Good looking people are only good for the eyes. icon_lol.gif
    Does this mean you'd date this guy if he had a personality you like?
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    Jul 01, 2015 6:05 AM GMT
    pazkilimanjaro said
    paulflexes said
    MasterOfTheDomain saidPersonality, that's how I fall for people.

    Good looking people are only good for the eyes. icon_lol.gif
    Does this mean you'd date this guy if he had a personality you like?
    A-Cute-Monkey-Man-The-Ugliest-Man-In-The



    Well.... if his personality is all good then why not. He looks like he would give a good blow job. Think it would be better if he lost that tooth though. I'm afraid of it cutting my dick.
    What if he used a file to sharpen it? icon_eek.gif
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    Jul 01, 2015 6:17 AM GMT
    pazkilimanjaro said
    paulflexes said
    pazkilimanjaro said
    paulflexes said
    MasterOfTheDomain saidPersonality, that's how I fall for people.

    Good looking people are only good for the eyes. icon_lol.gif
    Does this mean you'd date this guy if he had a personality you like?
    A-Cute-Monkey-Man-The-Ugliest-Man-In-The



    Well.... if his personality is all good then why not. He looks like he would give a good blow job. Think it would be better if he lost that tooth though. I'm afraid of it cutting my dick.
    What if he used a file to sharpen it? icon_eek.gif


    What file? You mean like the manilla ones that people use to put the papers in? Wouldn't he give himself paper cuts?
    You claim to be "masculine" and don't even know what a file is? icon_lol.gif

    I've worked in construction since practically birth (and still do it for fun). A file was one of the first tools I used. icon_wink.gif
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    Jul 01, 2015 7:57 AM GMT
    Jas0nSawy3r saidWhat makes you drawn to, or turned on by another guy? Whether gay or str8.... makes you burn for him, love him, wanting him....
    Me... Definitely his personality. Sometimes his looks...



    1. A nice spewing cock would be nice.
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    Jul 01, 2015 8:11 AM GMT
    paulflexes said
    MasterOfTheDomain saidPersonality, that's how I fall for people.

    Good looking people are only good for the eyes. icon_lol.gif
    Does this mean you'd date this guy if he had a personality you like?
    A-Cute-Monkey-Man-The-Ugliest-Man-In-The


    This is the second time you did this, get creative. icon_wink.gif

    Next.
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    Jul 01, 2015 9:18 AM GMT
    At first, when you don't know the person, you don't have anything but his appearance to define if you're interested or not. Online, you can try to also base on the things he wrote on his profile, but mostly, it's his physical attributes that will influence your judgment. Pretending otherwise would be completely hypocrite.

    In my case, a charming face is the true basic, soft hands, abs and veiny arms are a huge plus. But in the end, what really matters, is that he has a sence of humor (a little bit crazy even), kindness, free and open mind. Someone I can share silly inside jokes AND intellectual conversations. I want a good sexual chemistry obviously, but in my case, it's intertwinded with emotional connection.
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    Jul 01, 2015 1:24 PM GMT
    MUSCLE!!!
    Well defined, delineated, with each muscle clearly isolated… A classical looking physique... Whether young and lean, or a little older and competition sized, it's always been and always will be... muscle!
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    Jul 01, 2015 2:19 PM GMT
    A good ass to bury my face and XXX in.
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    Jul 01, 2015 8:21 PM GMT
    Aside from physical attributes, which vary...

    Confidence, good sense of humor, and goes out of his way to help people with no expectation of a reward (especially if it is sticking up for someone)
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    Jul 01, 2015 8:53 PM GMT
    MasterOfTheDomain said
    paulflexes said
    MasterOfTheDomain saidPersonality, that's how I fall for people.

    Good looking people are only good for the eyes. icon_lol.gif
    Does this mean you'd date this guy if he had a personality you like?
    A-Cute-Monkey-Man-The-Ugliest-Man-In-The


    This is the second time you did this, get creative. icon_wink.gif

    Next.
    I coulda posted a pic of my face, but that wouldn't be fair.
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    Jul 01, 2015 9:26 PM GMT
    Clearly it is the body and the way the guy presents himself grooming-wise to start, but ultimately the personality has to attract as well. The gym is the perfect example. I can lust over some guy for months only to then hear him talking to a friend and realize "This guy is a moron" or worse. No matter how buff, I instantly lose interest. Another example, going to the grooming part (still a visual), two guys equally beautiful and buff, one with long hair, the other short, I will feel nothing towards the long-hair guy but drool over the military haircut guy. But again, the personality has to be there, too, and a level of education and curiosity.