Ex Posted a "Sextape" of me

  • Chastize

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    Jul 01, 2015 5:25 PM GMT
    This is my first topic post and it's pretty much what the subject says.

    This year curiosity got the best of me and I decided to explore my sexuality and have some fun. icon_wink.gif

    I go to a military college where being gay is not something you want to announce. I felt alone so I took to online messaging and video chatting.

    March of this year and I've been messaging this person back and forth, video chatting and the like. The person would get nude for me (which I enjoyed) and would always ask me to do the same. I was always hesitant (not only because I have a roommate, but just the act itself) It "wasn't fair" that they showed their body and I didn't reciprocate.

    So, I ended up masterbating on camera a few times (it was fun) and then we stopped talking for a while.

    A month later a friend of mine told me she had stumbled across a video with me jerking off. I didn't believe it until she sent me the link. I didn't even watch the video yet and I could see clearly that it was me. I contacted the person I used to cam with (I had no idea they were recording me) and they took all the videos down, but they were each downloadable and now there are videos of me across porn sites and it makes me sick.

    Of course, if someone asks me about it, I will deny it but at the same time I can get expelled from my college and now people can see my body without my permission. icon_sad.gif
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    Jul 01, 2015 6:02 PM GMT
    That is unfortunate, it's sad that you weren't aware of being recorded.

    Be wary to who are you showing your body to, sometimes the victims get scammed and blackmailed.

    While it is possible to take this incident to the court. I believe it's not gonna have much effect, once it goes to internet nothing I stopping it from getting shared.

    Feel better soon buddy and be extra careful.
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    Jul 01, 2015 8:44 PM GMT
    I wanna see the video. icon_biggrin.gif
  • Destinharbor

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    Jul 01, 2015 9:08 PM GMT
    Ya, that's pretty low of the guy. But it's done and there's no way of getting it back. You can try to contact the site your friend saw but my guess is you're better off just letting it go. If anyone else sees it and comments, just bop your forehead and say you were young and dumb. It isn't a great shameful sin. Don't feel fear and don't let anyone else use it to gain an advantage. Just own it if it ever comes to light. I know your college and even though the military colleges are still backward on these matters, remember the US military isn't and you should take the offensive if someone there tries to abuse you because of it. Forget about it but be prepared to fight back if necessary.
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    Jul 01, 2015 10:53 PM GMT
    paulflexes saidI wanna see the video. icon_biggrin.gif


    ^^^ THIS!!! ^^^
  • BossTanaka

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    Jul 01, 2015 11:29 PM GMT
    What a fucking asshole he is for posting it online. I guess the best you could do OP after this is just own up to it. There is no point in denying really so be like yeah I fucking did it what ya'll got? nobody got shit on you or can judge you for it anyways
  • highforthis

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    Jul 03, 2015 5:23 AM GMT
    lol a contract?? Well that's a boner killer. I only expose myself in person icon_lol.gif
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    Jul 03, 2015 7:23 AM GMT
    pazkilimanjaro saidAs unfortunate as that sounds, you gotta take some responsibility. You put yourself in the situation by giving that person permission without any obligations they have to follow in regards of the footage containing you having sex. Next time someone offers to film you having sex, either say no or make then sign a contract promising legal action if the footage goes online or to anywhere except you and that person that taped you.


    True that.
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    Jul 04, 2015 9:58 AM GMT
    I take it you go to the Citadel. I'm from the Charleston area and I seriously doubt your "sextuple" is the worst "scandal" that has happened in the school.

    Edit…oops, meant to say "sextape". Damn auto correct!
  • Chastize

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    Jul 05, 2015 2:32 PM GMT
    Sextuple?

    Thanks guys, after reading the comments and thinking about it a bit more. I'm learning to accept it. I'm still not too happy about it, but it is what it is and there's no point in worrying about something that's already done.

    On another note the video itself is very amateur so if there's ever a next time (who knows???) I'd definitely want it high quality and professional... with some studio (just kidding icon_smile.gif... sort of)

    Anyway, thanks again for the responses. I appreciate all the feedback I've received. icon_cool.gif
  • Buddha

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    Jul 05, 2015 5:07 PM GMT
    Honestly, everyone who's victim-blaming can seriously fuck off.



    Look at it about 10:25 minutes in.

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    Jul 07, 2015 10:24 PM GMT
    I am so curious how your girl friend `stumbled' across the video of you jerking off...
  • ImBlackYall

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    Jul 07, 2015 11:33 PM GMT
    It's 2015, expect your video messaging to possibly be recorded lol
  • Beeftastic

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    Jul 08, 2015 9:57 AM GMT
    I'm guess I'm just glad I'm not hot enough for anyone to bother recording or posting me on the Internet lol. Or that anyone on the Internet would bother watching!
  • Zigs_01

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    Jul 14, 2015 2:21 AM GMT
    You can just contact the admins of the site to take off the videos for you.
  • sc_xnxx

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    Jul 14, 2015 1:35 PM GMT
    I saw the vid, and I was like, holy fuck, this sexy mofo has balls. After reading this, I feel bad for ya. On the other hand, if you ever need a local bro to give you a hand.... ;)
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    Jul 14, 2015 5:18 PM GMT
    Chasgay saidI saw the vid, and I was like, holy fuck, this sexy mofo has balls. After reading this, I feel bad for ya. On the other hand, if you ever need a local bro to give you a hand.... ;)


    No link?!???? icon_evil.gificon_evil.gif
  • interesting

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    Aug 08, 2015 4:35 AM GMT
    I have a friend that would skype with guys and they would jo together on cam, and my friend would always record these sessions. I asked him what does he intend to do with them, and he said that he just likes to watch them some time again as jo materials, and I also asked would he ever posted them to sites and he said he would never do that.

    I believe him, and so far I only saw one of his recording, and haven't seen it anywhere else. And after knowing him for quite a while now, I don't think he would do this to anyone, but that's my fear about caming with another guy, and it gets to that, I would be completely mortified! I'm glad you finally made peace with it though! This is what is stopping me from going naked or even touch myself on camera lol.

    BTW, uhmm I was perusing last night on porn sites, and I stumbled on your vid op, it was so weird watching it and then realizing this guy looks familiar!
  • SilverRRCloud

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    Aug 12, 2015 8:52 AM GMT
    Guys masturbate all the time. This is a well-known fact.

    Sure, what's done is both unfortunate and cannot be undone, but the fact that you masturbated, and that this was recorded and shared is not the end of the world.

    I would simply put this behind me, learn a lesson, and move on.

    If anyone raises this, say, 'yeah, it was me. Why are you interested?'


    SC