Ive never been with a guy

  • johnnyqhomo7

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    Jul 07, 2015 12:11 AM GMT
    There is this guy I want to be with, ive never been with a guy though. He's ok that im a virgin, but I am kinda concerned. Does anal sex hurt?
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    Jul 07, 2015 12:13 AM GMT
    Yes
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    Jul 07, 2015 12:18 AM GMT
    It's extremely painful, so I don't recommend trying it.
  • mystery905

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    Jul 07, 2015 2:41 AM GMT
    Why anal? You can just do oral.
  • Apparition

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    Jul 07, 2015 9:53 PM GMT
    Doesnt hurt a bit.

    Just use lots of lube.

    And lots of fingers to warm up.

    And if he crys, take shorter strokes.

    Being the TOP rocks.
  • venue35

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    Jul 07, 2015 10:07 PM GMT
    James_Thunder_Early saidIt's extremely painful, so I don't recommend trying it.

    what kind of advice is that???
    He says he's a gay black bottom looking for a gay white top. Maybe he should find someone average sizewise...
    just don't sit on him.
  • PRDGUY

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    Jul 07, 2015 10:12 PM GMT
    Mainly a top here so if he does it right it shouldn't hurt that bad... only bottomed for two people and both worked it in slow and easy... at most it was uncomfortable at first but then wow it was great!
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    Jul 07, 2015 10:23 PM GMT
    johnnyqhomo7 saidThere is this guy I want to be with, ive never been with a guy though. He's ok that im a virgin, but I am kinda concerned. Does anal sex hurt?


    Your not missing anything.
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    Jul 07, 2015 10:51 PM GMT
    You're a big guy.
    You big guys have a hard time
    just finding guys that will top you.
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    Jul 07, 2015 10:55 PM GMT
    venue35 said
    James_Thunder_Early saidIt's extremely painful, so I don't recommend trying it.

    what kind of advice is that???
    He says he's a gay black bottom looking for a gay white top. Maybe he should find someone average sizewise...
    just don't sit on him.


    He's going to have a hard time being queer
    and sexually active because of his size,
    looks and preference. I don't see black bottom
    for him.
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    Jul 07, 2015 10:55 PM GMT
    venue35 said
    James_Thunder_Early saidIt's extremely painful, so I don't recommend trying it.

    what kind of advice is that???
    He says he's a gay black bottom looking for a gay white top. Maybe he should find someone average sizewise...
    just don't sit on him.


    It was an honest answer. Perhaps I shouldn't have suggested not trying, but if one has a low threshold for pain, it's not a pleasant experience.
  • venue35

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    Jul 07, 2015 11:47 PM GMT
    If it is such an awful experience why do so many people do it then??icon_rolleyes.gif