Why are most Asians bottoms ?

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    Jul 09, 2015 9:37 PM GMT
    Top here, just wondering
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    Jul 09, 2015 9:38 PM GMT
    Asians make up the vast majority of the world's population.

    Just sayin'.
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    Jul 09, 2015 9:48 PM GMT
    Because they're naturals at it.
  • Orland23

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    Jul 09, 2015 9:59 PM GMT
    Some of the reason is in gay porn, Asian guys are shown as more "effeminate" and submissive so in porn they are mainly bottoms.

    Even outside of porn many people think Asians are more submissive and less "masculine".

    Some of the reasons are stereotypes of Asians, in a different forum on another site, an Asian man said "he get a lot of guys who want a submissive Asian bottom". Art imitates life and sometimes the other way around.
  • tj85016

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    Jul 09, 2015 10:40 PM GMT
    China
  • Orland23

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    Jul 09, 2015 10:43 PM GMT
    paulflexes saidAsians make up the vast majority of the world's population.

    Just sayin'.


    Han Chinese is the world's largest ethnic group/tribe.
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    Jul 09, 2015 10:59 PM GMT
    most asians are heterosexual
  • EagerHawaii

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    Jul 09, 2015 11:02 PM GMT
    Don't know about "most" - but the ones I know including my best buddy enjoy topping more - even using some domination.
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    Jul 10, 2015 1:37 AM GMT
    Lol. This thread.
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    Jul 10, 2015 1:43 AM GMT
    xrichx saidLol. This thread.

    Shut up and get on your four.
  • LostSailor

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    Jul 10, 2015 1:51 AM GMT
    For me, there is no other race of man that gets me hard.
    If the guy isnt Asian, I dont even look at him.
    They're not ALL bottoms either--but yeah...LOTS of em are.
    Lucky me!
  • venue35

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    Jul 10, 2015 2:52 AM GMT
    Because its the law of natureicon_lol.gif
  • you_know_Its_...

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    Jul 10, 2015 4:05 AM GMT
    Uh not in Asia icon_twisted.gif

    Or even Europe, but not as much, due to North American cultural influence. I read that the myth of the fem Asian started when the Chinese migrated to North America to build our railways. Only the men came, which meant extra competition for the women, so in the interest of the white male majority, the Asians were labeled as effeminate to deter white women from them.

    In the same way, black women in colonial America (whom their white masters often slept with) were labeled by white women as "too masculine" in order to deter men from them. Today, black women are statistically the least desired of all races and genders.
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    Jul 10, 2015 4:27 AM GMT
    you_know_its_true saidI read that the myth of the fem Asian started when the Chinese migrated to North America to build our railways. Only the men came, which meant extra competition for the women, so in the interest of the white male majority, the Asians were labeled as effeminate to deter white women from them.

    So they were forced to act as their women, that's kinda hot icon_twisted.gif
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    Jul 10, 2015 4:50 AM GMT
    Yeah I heard about that. That stereotype seemed to be fading in a decreasingly-white America, until the totally-white gay culture brought it back, ugh.
  • SilverRRCloud

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    Jul 10, 2015 8:02 AM GMT
    IMHE, the asian dudes I have hooked up all wanted to bttm except for one. Now, concluding that all asians or that most asians would want to bottom for anyone and everyone would be both wrong and patently stupid.

    Every dude here can only share his experience.

    I have no doubt that cultural conditioning must have played an important role in designating asians as being submissive, bottoms, etc.

    Another factor here may have been the usual NSA default when it comes to sex roles. Small(er) body frame may suggest a smaller size equipment. When the two dudes hook up for sex, and none of them has a very strongly defined sexual role (top/bttm), the default is that the 'bigger' dude tops. No doubt, there are exceptions. But the default is here, nonetheless.

    SC
  • Buddha

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    Jul 10, 2015 10:41 PM GMT
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  • takashi

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    Jul 11, 2015 11:12 PM GMT
    Well, I am an asian bottom.
    Short, thin, small in everyway...
    The stereotypical asian guy.

    I always had problems with my sexuality.
    When I was in high school, everyone was so much bigger than me.
    The guys had beards, muscles. The girls wore make-up and had huge breasts.
    Boyfriend and girlfriends hold hands and openly kiss in the corridors.
    I was an effeminate, frustrated boy.
    No one was interested in me, boy or girl.
    When I was living in Asia, I was not so conscious of my sexuality, I was just regular. I did not particularly feel gay. That changed dramatically when I moved to the States.

    I guess in the States there may be more asian bottoms to asian tops but I don't know of any statistic that would back that up. If you were to go to Asia, there's an abundance of both top and bottoms.

    I do love my men to be big bear-like men. So nice...
    I guess I fit the stereotype, so sue me.
  • EagerHawaii

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    Feb 14, 2016 7:57 PM GMT
    I live in Hawaii, where many from the Asian area live (including my best buddy, with whom I may often spend two days without sleep pleasuring and challenging each other. He's Okinawan, definitely more the top (and I enjoy it), and in the past few months, has started letting me see his dominant and sadistic side, which has brought out a submissive and masochistic response in me. Gave him flogger for Christmas, not not sure who is getting the most out of the present. He gets excited starting easy and building up to as hard as he can, slogging me. I see him excited, and it challenges me to provide him what he wants, and meeting that challenge in turns drives me higher
  • EagerHawaii

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    Feb 14, 2016 7:57 PM GMT
    I live in Hawaii, where many from the Asian area live (including my best buddy, with whom I may often spend two days without sleep pleasuring and challenging each other. He's Okinawan, definitely more the top (and I enjoy it), and in the past few months, has started letting me see his dominant and sadistic side, which has brought out a submissive and masochistic response in me. Gave him flogger for Christmas, not not sure who is getting the most out of the present. He gets excited starting easy and building up to as hard as he can, slogging me. I see him excited, and it challenges me to provide him what he wants, and meeting that challenge in turns drives me higher
  • ManHunt

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    Feb 17, 2016 2:46 AM GMT
    I actually wonder the same question. For me, I am versatile, but I prefer to top my guy to make him feel good. If he wants to switch around, I am up for that too. icon_twisted.gif
  • jlars12

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    Feb 17, 2016 4:51 AM GMT
    I'm mostly top, but the only time I was with an Asian, he was the top in the relationship icon_confused.gif He was a few years older though.

    Lol Takashi, is that a real profile? "small in every way just like the stereotype, so sue me" lol who says that about themselves
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    Feb 20, 2016 4:15 AM GMT
    paulflexes saidAsians make up the vast majority of the world's population.

    Just sayin'.


    He's obviously referring to East Asians, and they don't make up the vast majority of the world population.

    East Asian population - 1.5 billion
    White population - 1.2 billion

    Not a big gap.
  • JayRVA

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    Feb 20, 2016 4:37 AM GMT
    Read the tread because I'm an Asian bottom, haha.

    I think I prefer to bottom because I was a top during my first gay experience and let's just say that things got really messy with that bottom. I'll still top every once and a while but most of my exes had bad experiences bottoming so they only want to top. Guess it just worked out that way but everyone's different.
  • takashi

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    Feb 20, 2016 8:20 PM GMT
    jlars12 saidI'm mostly top, but the only time I was with an Asian, he was the top in the relationship icon_confused.gif He was a few years older though.

    Lol Takashi, is that a real profile? "small in every way just like the stereotype, so sue me" lol who says that about themselves


    Hi jlars12,
    I know pathetic...but unfortunately true. I am 5'3", 125 lbs, tiny cock, bottom for sure! I had a tough time in high school as I didn't fit in anywhere. I had friends but no boy or girl friends.
    My world changed when I was taught to be a bottom.