bro4bro saidThe moral goes something like this: Maybe if you'd got off your fat ass and put the work in when you had the chance, you could have had a nice piece of cake now.
Yes, if you obsess about yourself and spend all your time at the gym, selfishly ignoring everyone and everything else, you too can be a prick!
No, you're looking at the small percentage of guys that look great and yes, many work hard to establish that look (no doubt about that) but you may be fishing in the wrong pond for someone that is truly your type. Remember, the 6 pack will eventually turn to a keg and the pecs will begin to sag. Evaluating someone for who they are, how they treat you and others and how they got to where they are are much better qualities than just based upon a hot body.
True attraction is well beneath the 6-pak! Now in all fairness to bro4bro (despite his rude comment), caring for yourself, including working out and watching your diet, will generally result in more attention. Your single picture however does not allow for a true assessment of how you look. Good luck.