Would you date a man with ED if he was open minded and was a bottom?

  • reed1993

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    Jul 11, 2015 7:28 PM GMT
    Just curious if you think its possible for a man with ED to get into a good look term relationship? Especially if he is open to being a bottom and would be willing to communicate to try other things.

    Would this be a deal breaker, or do you think there would be a chance?

    Also when do you think would be best to discuss this with a prospective partner?
  • HottJoe

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    Jul 11, 2015 7:38 PM GMT
    It wouldn't work out with just anyone. You have to find the right person. Obviously that would be someone who's interest is in being a top.

    I would mention it when things are progressing towards intimacy. If the guy is right for you, then it won't be a problem.
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    Jul 12, 2015 5:02 AM GMT
    You recently I realized as a bottom I'd be totally ok being with a guy who couldn't get it up to fuck me. There are dildos and strap ons. As long as he is willing to explore with me and find ways to sexually please each other I'd be all for it. Sometimes you find better solutions when you keep an open mind and don't let limitations hold you back.
  • AMoonHawk

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    Jul 12, 2015 5:17 AM GMT
    As long as he gets into the sex it shouldn't really matter, but if he's just faking it and not really into sex ... well that's a whole other thing
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    Jul 12, 2015 11:15 PM GMT
    Should he not work on finding a possible treatment for his ED?
    Regardless if he's a bottom and enjoys it as it is, it shouldn't be a problem for the other as long he's a top ,ver or a open minded to other paths bottom...the problem it still there and it should be worked on a solution for the ED individual be more fuffiled and happy about himself I think...complex question for my naive mind I guess xD
  • reed1993

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    Jul 16, 2015 4:58 PM GMT
    nelo_angelo saidShould he not work on finding a possible treatment for his ED?
    Regardless if he's a bottom and enjoys it as it is, it shouldn't be a problem for the other as long he's a top ,ver or a open minded to other paths bottom...the problem it still there and it should be worked on a solution for the ED individual be more fuffiled and happy about himself I think...complex question for my naive mind I guess xD


    I was more so thinking of the scenario where he sought treatment with limited results or was unsuccessful. But I mean I never thought it would be mush of an issue myself... gay men have the advantage of being so versatile ahaha. I just wanted to see what people thought on it ;p