Very confused

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    Jul 14, 2015 8:47 AM GMT
    Right now I am so confused. This is my first post so I'm going to start from the beginning ish, hopefully it doesn't become to long.
    Last week a friend and I decided we would go and see a friend that lives some way away. She has a new bf and we thought it would be a good idea to go and meet both of them. We didn't know where we were going so after calling and getting directions to them. My friend who was on the phone to the other friend told me to look up. As i did I saw the biggest dick I have ever seen. Bear I mind though I dont really see very many dicks so. So that's kinda how the day went. Being flashed at by an attractive guy with a huge cock. Although there were women in the room all of it was aimed at me. Another thing that caught me off guard is that he was staring at me, like all the time. When it was time to go home we all walked to the bus stop, he would either beside or in front of me. I did feel genuinely upset that I had to go.
    Yesterday I learnt about his past. Some of it does sound and seem bad. But it doesn't bother me in the slightest, everyone has a past. But within his past it is known that he has had sex with other guys. So I asked him if there is any truth in that, through a facebook message. Now I'm starting to regret asking him.
    I've been through a lot in my life. Relationship wise I'm not for everyone. I talk with a slight stutter that gets worse when I'm nervous. My last partner ridiculed me in front of friends and his family because of this. Because it gets worse when I'm nervous, it makes dates and meeting new people really difficult. I've been told it isn't pronounced, but I know that it is. Last year a friends boyfriend played a cruel joke that lasted 6 weeks, he messaged me pretending to be a guy I fancied, he basically went on saying how much he liked me, then he fell in love with me. I found out in the end and I was pretty destroyed over it. Now I don't tell any of my friends anything to do with dates or who I fancy. All of this makes it really hard for me to talk about anything. Which is why I've turned to a forum for advice I quess. I just don't know what to make of the whole situation.
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    Jul 15, 2015 8:15 AM GMT
    If you want to simplify your life, unfriend on FB and be done with it. Life is too short for such drama. There's really nothing confusing about it, unless you want to be confused.
  • Coast

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    Jul 15, 2015 10:04 AM GMT
    The whole thing sounds quite cruel and like the poster above me, just un-friend the people who really aren't worth your time or the drama they bring.

    If your so-called "friends" are that cruel then it's seriously not worth it.

    That said, good and genuine people are truly hard to come by these days.
  • venue35

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    Jul 15, 2015 11:39 AM GMT
    That was hot !
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    Jul 18, 2015 11:59 AM GMT
    I would say it was hot at the time. Now its just confusing as fuck.