Jul 15, 2015 8:39 PM GMT
An acquaintance of mine, H, recently introduced me and another frd S to his new frd B, whom H wants to date. S then started chatting with B on jackd, then started a Facebook group chat to organize something for B's bday. H is grumbling about this on another group chat but doesn't have the balls to say something to S, reasoning that he rather have S hang out with B with him there than some other time when he's not around. Thing is S is a whole league up in looks and charm so B has zero chance. As S's frd I feel like I need to tell him to give B a chance to reject H first, so to not be such a dick while doing this dick move...it seems so uncharacteristic of him. H isn't such a great guy himself and will likely do the same thing if he was good looking enough, but I'm so disappointed in S and want him to do right. Thoughts?