Meh there's nothing special about men like him, though they are all sad. there are always people out there who do some pretty wacky/sick stuff, and hide behind something to justify their behaviors because they are cowards, whether it be some guy doing some grotesque piece of work, and saying its "art", or someone who uses religion to justify the evil they do to others, or use it to condemn the lives of others, because they're living with the guilt themselves, and hate themselves for it, so they want to attack, and or try to make the lives of others hard, or feel the guilt they do.
Men like him don't know anything about god (their actions, or words show/tell that). God doesn't hate anyone who is gay, and after hearing a friend's whole story on how he felt growing up, and being attracted to men, its clear some people are just born that way, and trying to pray that away would be like being born with a birth defect, and trying to pray that way, it can't be done. The only people who say stupid crap like that, are people who don't truly understand/know god. It doesn't matter what position you are in the church, I don't care if you're the pope himself, that doesn't mean they know god more than anyone else, or better. They're just men, and all men are imperfect, which is why you ask for forgiveness when you do mess up, and god is very forgiving, and all about the love. The only people god rejects, are people who strongly reject him, and or harm, or wish to see harm come to the people who care for him.
What this guy did that was wrong, was sneaking other men in his home or whatever, wherever on his wife, that's just pretty gross, and then lying about it, and condemning others (which I'm sure he did) who were gay. Nothing is wrong with being attracted to another man, or wanting love from another man, nothing's wrong with that, or new about it, the abnormalities of it come in when you start wrapping yourself in the whole gay world/life style, and or trying to get married and all to appear one way, only for it to get put on blast later on, embarrassing, and hurting your family, and yourself