Nervous to go to a gay cruise bar in Paris for the first time


  • Jul 16, 2015 12:11 PM GMT
    Dears,

    I live in helsinki and I'm traveling to Paris this weekend and stay there for couple of days,

    I heard a gay cruise bar there called L'impact and I like to go there. In their website they mentioned that it's a complete naked bar. I'm bottom only and a bot nervous of going there as it will be my first time in a gay cruise bar.

    I do not know any one to come with me as well.

    How should I behave there? how the tops approach and how they know that I'm bottom.

    let me know your ideas and experiences.

    thx
  • Destinharbor

    Posts: 4432

    Jul 16, 2015 3:43 PM GMT
    I've never been to an all naked bar but I have been to naked beaches and clothing-optional pools. I was nervous to go each time but once there, found everyone was cool and fun. There is nothing you can do to keep from being nervous so embrace it as part of the fun and just go. As to the top/bottom identifier, you and they will figure it out. Don't worry. Have fun!
  • Destinharbor

    Posts: 4432

    Jul 16, 2015 7:42 PM GMT
    Ah, checked it out. It is half bar/dance club, half sex club. Just carry your own condoms and lube (though most of these places have both readily available), and if possible be on Prep. Usually these places don't really end up being as great as you hope they'll be, but they can be fun. Just participate if you feel like it or just watch. There's no pressure.