Why are Asian men so rude?

  • dilfforrent

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    Jul 21, 2015 1:38 AM GMT
    On Saturday night I was with my friends at a gay club and complimented a few Asian guys for their looks. The responses I get range from a condescending "uh ok.. thx buddy" to actually no response. They act as if I'm not there... it's like grindr playing out in real life! Where are everyone's manners these days?? icon_neutral.gif
  • FuerteC

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    Jul 21, 2015 1:43 AM GMT
    All Asians are rude?
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    Jul 21, 2015 1:50 AM GMT
    Statistically you're probably one of those cliché old men looking for younger, and have to resort to capitalizing on racial hierachy... and none of those men you hit on were born yesterday.
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    Jul 21, 2015 1:56 AM GMT
    Stupid thread, not all asians are rude, actually the stereotype is theyre VERY polite. You probably hit on one out of youre league got rejected and now got all butthurt about it.
  • you_know_Its_...

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    Jul 21, 2015 2:34 AM GMT
    OP, perhaps you are too forthcoming with your compliments; it speaks of desperation. Hold your head up high, and project confidence. Try talking about other things. Maybe buy them a drink or two. The rejections will be much gentler, trust me icon_smile.gif
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    Jul 21, 2015 3:18 AM GMT
    What sort of compliment? How did you give this compliment? Were you sloshed? Were the Asian dudes sloshed?

    Clubs aren't exactly the same thing as an ice cream social. Every guy including yourself is out to hookup or at least get some touchy feely action in a place like that.

    Also, from your profile..

    "Attractive, masculine, fit dad with blue eyes. Used to have blond hair. Always enjoy the company of men. I spend my free time fixing my boat and 2 cars. No problems with travel, or paying for someone to travel to me. Am very generous, WITHOUT expecting anything in return. Men between age 18 and 60 preferred "

    I suspect that you were being creepy. And young Asian dudes are accustomed to creepy older guys hitting on them. So they smelled you from a mile away.
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    Jul 21, 2015 3:29 AM GMT
    David666k saidStupid thread, not all asians are rude, actually the stereotype is theyre VERY polite. You probably hit on one out of youre league got rejected and now got all butthurt about it.


    My thoughts exactly.

    And hey, at least they didn't give the OP some vulgar remarks. 'Uh okay... Thanks buddy', is a gentle to mild kind of rejection in my opinion.
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    Jul 21, 2015 3:32 AM GMT
    Also, I'm trying to figure out who that is in the OP's profile pic. It's obviously photoshopped. icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Jul 21, 2015 3:37 AM GMT
    First thing I thought reading this post was the OP was probably being too forward and/or creepy about it.
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    Jul 21, 2015 3:40 AM GMT
    I think I would have reacted the same as the Asian guy.


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    Jul 21, 2015 3:50 AM GMT
    dilfforrent saidOn Saturday night I was with my friends at a gay club and complimented a few Asian guys for their looks. The responses I get range from a condescending "uh ok.. thx buddy" to actually no response. They act as if I'm not there... it's like grindr playing out in real life! Where are everyone's manners these days?? icon_neutral.gif


    And yet Asian women are so nice. Especially to black men. Lol its so funny.
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    Jul 21, 2015 3:54 AM GMT
    xrichx saidAlso, I'm trying to figure out who that is in the OP's profile pic. It's obviously photoshopped. icon_rolleyes.gif

    How do you know its photoshop? Both guys look like shit.
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    Jul 21, 2015 4:19 AM GMT
    David666k said
    xrichx saidAlso, I'm trying to figure out who that is in the OP's profile pic. It's obviously photoshopped. icon_rolleyes.gif

    How do you know its photoshop? Both guys look like shit.

    Appears to be a sharp facial shadow on the subject's left side, when they're no close background to create one. And is he wearing a white collar & necktie, but not white sleeves, along with that off-road bike armor and Camebak drinking device? I never heard of anyone doing off-road riding that's rugged enough to require armor and when it's sufficiently hot to require a drinking device to rehydrate, while wearing a buttoned-up white shirt and tie.
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    Jul 21, 2015 4:43 AM GMT
    MuchMoreThanMuscle said
    David666k said
    xrichx saidAlso, I'm trying to figure out who that is in the OP's profile pic. It's obviously photoshopped. icon_rolleyes.gif

    How do you know its photoshop?



    LOL, it's obviously photoshopped. Art did a good job explaining what is plainly photoshopped in that photo that you apparently can't see.

    Coming from you, a guy who can't work with Photoshop for shit has to ask given his severe lack of artistic talent.

    Is it too late to ask for a refund for your Photoshop software? icon_lol.gif


    Dude do you have to harass me in EVERY fuckin thread?

    And as if knowing how to use a stupid computer program equals how much creative or artistic one person is. I make music and I can draw, that's more than can be say about you rubber doll icon_cool.gif
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    Jul 21, 2015 4:53 AM GMT
    MuchMoreThanMuscle said
    David666k said
    A rubber doll, huh? I'm not even going to ask what that's supposed to mean.

    They're prettier than you, I know. Just keep injecting yourself with steroids and you will be there soon. Good night.

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    lol this one looks particularily like you:
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    Jul 21, 2015 5:00 AM GMT
    Not all of us are rude im nice and loving tooicon_biggrin.gif hehehe.
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    Jul 21, 2015 5:12 AM GMT
    MuchMoreThanMuscle said
    David666k said

    They're prettier than you, I know. Just keep injecting yourself with steroids and you will be there soon. Good night.


    Always accusing me of taking steroids. I'll take that as a compliment.

    If you spent a fraction of the time you spent here in the RJ forums working out or actually actively playing a sport I bet you would have a decent body too.

    Snorting white lines of powder and guzzling beer every night are two habits that are not going to magically help you acquire a nice body. Just sayin'....


    I'm not accusing you of anything, you have said many times you've been taking steroid drugs on and off since you were young (as if that wasn't obvious). You are the one plainly lying about me doing cocaine though.

    Btw you said you were going to bed yet kept replying to me icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Jul 21, 2015 5:48 AM GMT
    I am Asian, and I am not rude
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    Jul 21, 2015 8:08 AM GMT
    You prob hit on guys who are out of your league and feel mad about it now. Race really has nothing to do with it. I've seen guys of all background acted very douchy in gay bars and believe me, saying *thanks buddy and ignoring are nice enough gestures. You really don't want a scene when a guy publicly reject you where all other guys can see.

  • Wonderboywill

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    Jul 21, 2015 10:34 AM GMT
    Hmm, weird. The ones I hit on usually end up in my bed, or at least making out somewhere. Maybe you're doing it wrong icon_smile.gif
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    Jul 21, 2015 4:45 PM GMT
    Asian men are wack.
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    Jul 21, 2015 5:39 PM GMT
    dilfforrent saidOn Saturday night I was with my friends at a gay club and complimented a few Asian guys for their looks. The responses I get range from a condescending "uh ok.. thx buddy" to actually no response. They act as if I'm not there... it's like grindr playing out in real life! Where are everyone's manners these days?? icon_neutral.gif


    "First location: West Hollywood, California, United States"

    We're likely talking about the same bars, etc. I sure never had any trouble. I don't want to cum off as a two bit whore or anything icon_rolleyes.gif, but I had plenty of fun and ran into very very little attitude. Now that I'm so stinkin old it would probably be different.
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    Jul 21, 2015 6:53 PM GMT
    pazkilimanjaro saidI like how some of these smart dumb fuckers in here like to generalize a certain group of guys for something that people do in general. You can tell the people in here who never really interact with the general public.


    Some generalizations are truth just
    like there are stereotypes that are indeed
    true.

    Nice try Tyrone.

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  • giodude

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    Jul 21, 2015 6:59 PM GMT
    maybe you need to learn how to handle rejection better?

    I wasn't there personally and i know an :uh ok . . . thanks buddy" can be about as offensive as a 'fuck off' if said with enough condescension.

    I'm sure it isn't all asians. i know two asians who are painfully polite and well mannered to the point where i feel like some sort of cave person in their presence. Don't let one bad experience ruin your perception of a diverse and otherwise pleasant group of people
  • venue35

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    Jul 21, 2015 10:53 PM GMT
    Asians are now rejecting advances???
    Finally the world is changing