Infatuation

  • giodude

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    Jul 22, 2015 7:21 PM GMT
    i get infatuated on the regular.

    I meet guy, think i like them and then two days afterwards sit myself down and ask myself what on earth i like about them and can't come up with more than three things. My feelings fade less than a day later.
    I however, haven't found a person who i really resonate with and know enough about to honestly say that i have some amount of attraction towards.
    AT times i get lonely - really lonely - and a bit fed up of having to hear about my friends' hook p and dating stories. But on the other hand i can never let my feelings settle because i always stop liking someone because it think they'll reject me or, and most frequently, it's a two or three day obsession and then I'll forget them.

    I struggle to tell whether I'm really just a person who has multiple short-lived romantic interests or whether I've hardwired my mind for rejection so much that i reject myself on other people's behalf before they even get the chance to do so themselves.

    On the one hand i really haven't found anyone gay men i get along very well, or am interested in conversing with for lengthy periods of time

    But alternatively, when i like someone i always ask myself what that person would possibly see in me and just continue with mt life

    My mind is a messy place
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    Jul 22, 2015 11:25 PM GMT
    both boys have to really really want the relationship for it to work. For the men you have dated what have you learned about your self?

    hang in there and enjoy life, no big rush
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    Jul 23, 2015 2:01 AM GMT
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    Jul 23, 2015 2:35 AM GMT
    Infatuation, love, and lust are totally different things, although the emotional response is similar for all three.

    You're feeling lust.
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    Jul 23, 2015 5:05 AM GMT
    giodude said...
    My mind is a messy place


    No argument here.
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    Jul 23, 2015 5:28 AM GMT
    I think you should write a stream of consciousness novel.
  • Oceans_of_Flo...

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    Jul 23, 2015 10:48 PM GMT

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