I want a hot older man

  • Musicman91

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    Jul 23, 2015 7:40 PM GMT
    I really want a hot older boyfriend. I know it probably sounds shallow but I do. I am sick of the area I live in because there is nobody around. My area is infested with bitchy high school and college guys who think because they are mildly attractive they are God's gift.

    Then all the older guys are either married and in the closet or obese. I am not an ass and I always respond to people who message me on apps like Grindr, Scruff ect. but these guys are normal for 2 seconds and then become creeps. And they send me picks of their beer guts with their penis sticking out, barely visible. Ughhh.

    It's annoying to go on Scruff and see so many hot guys all over the place and I am trapped in Shitville with nobody. Sorry I needed to rant. Enjoy pics of hot older men I wish I could date.

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    Jul 23, 2015 7:42 PM GMT
    you can have all of them icon_lol.gif

    although they do look good
  • Musicman91

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    Jul 23, 2015 7:45 PM GMT
    Bonaparts saidyou can have all of them icon_lol.gif

    although they do look good


    Thanks for your approval Prancer.
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    Jul 23, 2015 8:22 PM GMT
    Why do you think they'll want you back? Those are some good looking men. An average older guy looks nothing like them. Having a high standard when you yourself can't match it is going to lead a very disappointing life for you. Be reasonable, not like a teenage kid who just wants the shiniest thing in the store. I thought as a grown up adult you should have realized that by now.
  • Musicman91

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    Jul 23, 2015 8:50 PM GMT
    __morphic__ saidWhy do you think they'll want you back? Those are some good looking men. An average older guy looks nothing like them. Having a high standard when you yourself can't match it is going to lead a very disappointing life for you. Be reasonable, not like a teenage kid who just wants the shiniest thing in the store. I thought as a grown up adult you should have realized that by now.


    So are you saying I am ugly? Cool thanks icon_biggrin.gif
  • Suetonius

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    Jul 23, 2015 9:12 PM GMT
    Musicman91 said
    __morphic__ saidWhy do you think they'll want you back? Those are some good looking men. An average older guy looks nothing like them. Having a high standard when you yourself can't match it is going to lead a very disappointing life for you. Be reasonable, not like a teenage kid who just wants the shiniest thing in the store. I thought as a grown up adult you should have realized that by now.


    So are you saying I am ugly? Cool thanks icon_biggrin.gif

    I think he is implying that at 5'9" and 190 pounds, unless you have a very muscular build, that the guys in the pics you posted have much better bods than you, and are likely to be attracted to guys (of any age) with similar bods.
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    Jul 23, 2015 9:14 PM GMT
    The Depressed Brazilian looks like the guys you posted.

    He's a sexy mofo...icon_twisted.gif
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    Jul 23, 2015 9:15 PM GMT
    Chulo saidThe Depressed Brazilian looks like the guys you posted.

    He's a sexy mofo...icon_twisted.gif

    Then he would be older than Mr. X?
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    Jul 23, 2015 9:16 PM GMT
    Try looking on silverdaddies.com
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    Jul 23, 2015 9:18 PM GMT
    Musicman91 saidEnjoy pics of hot older men I wish I could date.

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    It's not as if your expectations are unrealistic. Just remember I'm ahead of you in line.
  • mystery905

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    Jul 23, 2015 11:24 PM GMT
    I like your taste in daddies!
  • venue35

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    Jul 23, 2015 11:28 PM GMT
    Well the op is 24 so he has that in his favour..
    I do agree that those guys look hawt however
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    Jul 23, 2015 11:35 PM GMT
    You aren't going to run into too many men that look like models, especially not on the apps. You don't have to lower your standards to zero, just don't total base the on how airbrushed models look.
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    Jul 23, 2015 11:41 PM GMT
    Um....on those pics posted....the first and the last guy, definitely yes!!
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    Jul 23, 2015 11:47 PM GMT
    WISE my son!! lol
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    Jul 23, 2015 11:50 PM GMT
    So, I did go on Grindr and well, it's overwhelming filled with so many young, hotties and the sad thing is.....I still haven't replied to most of them......icon_rolleyes.gificon_rolleyes.gificon_rolleyes.gif
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    Jul 24, 2015 1:00 AM GMT
    Suetonius said
    Musicman91 said
    __morphic__ saidWhy do you think they'll want you back? Those are some good looking men. An average older guy looks nothing like them. Having a high standard when you yourself can't match it is going to lead a very disappointing life for you. Be reasonable, not like a teenage kid who just wants the shiniest thing in the store. I thought as a grown up adult you should have realized that by now.


    So are you saying I am ugly? Cool thanks icon_biggrin.gif

    I think he is implying that at 5'9" and 190 pounds, unless you have a very muscular build, that the guys in the pics you posted have much better bods than you, and are likely to be attracted to guys (of any age) with similar bods.

    Actually, it may surprise you, but the guy in the last pic lives here in Dallas and is a FB friend. His Bf is about 25ish and looks nothing like him.... also a FB friend. To see the 2 together you'd never think they were a couple. Not all couples looks a like nor do they look for partners their same age or looks.
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    Jul 24, 2015 1:11 AM GMT
    HikerSkier said
    Chulo saidThe Depressed Brazilian looks like the guys you posted.

    He's a sexy mofo...icon_twisted.gif

    Then he would be older than Mr. X?


    No mr. X is a few years older.
  • Musicman91

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    Jul 24, 2015 2:41 AM GMT
    Suetonius said
    Musicman91 said
    __morphic__ saidWhy do you think they'll want you back? Those are some good looking men. An average older guy looks nothing like them. Having a high standard when you yourself can't match it is going to lead a very disappointing life for you. Be reasonable, not like a teenage kid who just wants the shiniest thing in the store. I thought as a grown up adult you should have realized that by now.


    So are you saying I am ugly? Cool thanks icon_biggrin.gif

    I think he is implying that at 5'9" and 190 pounds, unless you have a very muscular build, that the guys in the pics you posted have much better bods than you, and are likely to be attracted to guys (of any age) with similar bods.


    Well my stats haven't been updated in awhile nor have my pics. I have been busy and haven't had time haha. I also hate the way I look in pics. It takes me forever to decide on a pic I kind of like.

    I am mostly muscle but I need to work a bit harder on my mid section.
  • BloodFlame

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    Jul 24, 2015 5:15 AM GMT
    I can see where you're coming from OP but the others are kind of right. Most older "daddies" don't look like the guys you posted and if they do, they are mostly taken. But that doesn't mean there aren't a few out there who you may be able to meet.

    I see keep trying but yes, some older men can look quite appealing. The guy in the last pic is my fave icon_smile.gif
  • hebrewman

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    Jul 24, 2015 7:26 AM GMT
    when i was a young lad in my mid 30's, i was on vacation in palm springs, california. i met a man from australia at one of the gay resorts. he was 62. his name was ian. we met for dinner and then a night of full on m2m sex. this man was incredibly sexy and stayed hard as a rock for literally the whole weekend. (pre viagra days boys) he was built, furry and had an incredible scent. he was sexy, and man, did he know how to push buttons i never knew i had. from then on it was men in their 50's on up for me. woof. i still remember this man and it's been nearly 20+ years. so yeah. go for it.
  • FRE0

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    Jul 24, 2015 7:28 AM GMT
    Considering that the op weighs 190# and is 5'9", probably he is far less fit than the daddy pics he has posted. I'm older and fit, but probably too olde for him anyway.
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    Jul 24, 2015 7:40 PM GMT
    I think you might have daddy issues complex. lol jk, well what's wrong with dating guys your age? I mean, When I was 20, 21, I dated guys in their early 20s. icon_redface.gificon_wink.gif Move to a bigger city.
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    Jul 24, 2015 9:33 PM GMT
    My dad's 78 and hot headed all the time. Would you like to date him? My mom will appreciate you taking him off her hands.
  • FRE0

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    Jul 25, 2015 2:12 AM GMT
    UndercoverMan saidMy dad's 78 and hot headed all the time. Would you like to date him? My mom will appreciate you taking him off her hands.


    How can we answer that without seeing pics of him?