Ideal gay man

  • Tropicalcium

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    Jul 26, 2015 5:53 AM GMT
    http://www.theguardian.com/science/blog/2015/jul/24/gay-genes-science-is-on-the-right-track-were-born-this-way-lets-deal-with-it

    Do you have an ideal gay man?

    Mine looks 6 foot tall. Brown eyes. Smooth. 7 inch dick. Dark skinned.
  • AMoonHawk

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    Jul 26, 2015 6:06 AM GMT
    My ideal man is the one that is true to me and loves me and whom I can relate with in such a way that sometimes it feels like we are one. icon_smile.gif
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    Jul 26, 2015 6:07 AM GMT
    Chulo ideal man has big penis.

    That is all.
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    Jul 26, 2015 6:14 AM GMT
    Chulo saidChulo ideal man has big penis.

    That is all.


    Too long can be painful. I can't take it. 8 inches is enough for me. Can you take it?
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    Jul 26, 2015 6:15 AM GMT
    SpinnerMuscle said
    Chulo saidChulo ideal man has big penis.

    That is all.


    Too long can be painful. I can't take it. 8 inches is enough for me. Can you take it?


    Chulo bum hole endless pit of pleasure.

    Chulo can take anything.
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    Jul 26, 2015 6:16 AM GMT
    Chulo said
    SpinnerMuscle said
    Chulo saidChulo ideal man has big penis.

    That is all.


    Too long can be painful. I can't take it. 8 inches is enough for me. Can you take it?


    Chulo bum hole endless pit of pleasure.

    Chulo can take anything.


    10 inches you can take. Massive cock needs lube?
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    Jul 26, 2015 6:17 AM GMT
    SpinnerMuscle said
    Chulo said
    SpinnerMuscle said
    Chulo saidChulo ideal man has big penis.

    That is all.


    Too long can be painful. I can't take it. 8 inches is enough for me. Can you take it?


    Chulo bum hole endless pit of pleasure.

    Chulo can take anything.


    10 inches you can take. Massive cock needs lube?




    Chulo says the bigger the better.

    Chulo nickname in high school was Ch-HOLE. icon_twisted.gif
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    Jul 26, 2015 7:50 AM GMT
    I've taken some time to think about this. I personally identify demisexual, but I think I'm more drawn to men if only because I take a lot of liking to more alpha personality types. I have issues with trust, but I really find myself more drawn to them and able to trust them with intimate details. Women could be this as well, but I personally see this kind of attitude more in another guy...


    Anyway, so here it is- I like taller, and leaner/stocky. Taller is easier to hold onto and rest on, and leaner means they take care of themselves. Stocky would be the same thing, only a bigger guy, which is fine. As long as they aren't carelessly overweight, or straight up ripped. The former makes me think they don't feel highly enough to try to take care of themselves, and the latter is just plain frightening. I would never want to be near a pissed off ripped guy. Even if he's just as soft as a teddy bear, even if he's not angry at me... a ripped guy is just terrifying to think of as angry at all.

    Not hairless, but I don't want them even remotely to a bear. Not that much a fan of hair not on the head, but if it does grow, as long as they trim it should be fine. The last physical traits that really matter to me is body health. Smokers and piercings scare me away. My family has a bad history with smoking and health, and it's something I hate worrying about. And piercings, well. I can tolerate ear piercings and nose studs. Once I start seeing rings not on the ears, or holes in other places, rings, and ESPECIALLY stretchers, I cringe horribly. I can't deal with seeing things like that- they look too excruciatingly painful, and I will have to keep thinking about it like that. Tattoos and inkings are okay, but not piercings.

    But now comes the important stuff. He should be about my age, and if not, not too far off. He needs to be patient, gentle, understanding, yet assertive. Someone who gets that I like to talk and think things over quite a bit, but can remind me to get my head out of the clouds when I need it. Aggressive or dominating as traits don't quite fit. I don't like being demanded to do something. Instead, I like discussing why something is logical to do. Someone who can think from the angle where everyone benefits, instead of their own agenda. Basically, I like direction, not walled paths. A gentle push, not a forceful shove. I like the thought of giving the power of choice to my lover, while being able to have enough override control to veto something that makes me uncomfortable.

    In short, someone who I can trust more than anyone else, someone I have zero doubt will not abuse or walk away from the trust I give to them.

    Of course, this is just me dreaming away at the thought of my oh-so-perfect man. icon_smile.gif
  • mar0302

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    Jul 26, 2015 8:21 AM GMT
    It's hard to describe, but more a feeling.. like the Supreme Court said about obscenity, I might not be able to describe him, but I'll know it when I see it.
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    Jul 26, 2015 9:27 AM GMT
    The ideal man is someone who makes everything feel right.
    Checklists are totally irrelevant...
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    Jul 26, 2015 1:45 PM GMT
    There is no such thing. We are all defective in some ways.
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    Jul 26, 2015 1:47 PM GMT
    Hmmm well if I was looking for a gay role model, i'd like a gay version of Michael Straham. Very great guy overall.
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    Jul 26, 2015 6:13 PM GMT
    [quote][cite]Tropicalcium said

    Do you have an ideal gay man?

    Mine looks 6 foot tall. Brown eyes. Smooth. 7 inch dick. Dark skinned. [/quote]

    Sounds good to me...! But my fiance is Balkan/Eastern European. Brown-haired, hazel (blue/green) eyes. About 6 foot. Lean, defined, smooth. 8 inches uncut. Versatile-top. And his personality is very loving, romantic and adorable. icon_wink.gif
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    Jul 26, 2015 8:43 PM GMT
    Hm, topic kinda shallow lol but I like it. Looks wise, cute, tall, tan, 6'0 feet brown hair, brown eyes, smooth/a little hairy, average hung lol, about 32-39, half-Italian/Irish. (Similar like my ex). Good guy, kind, good personality, sweet, charming, romantic, not mean, like to travel and try new food I guess lol...etc. Celeb wise crush I have at the moment, I really like James Marsden (X-Men Cyclops) also from The Best of Me. icon_redface.gificon_razz.gificon_cool.gif
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    Jul 27, 2015 4:06 AM GMT
    Very odd conversation
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    Jul 27, 2015 4:07 AM GMT
    Tropicalcium saidDo you have an ideal gay man?
    Yeah. I can't wait to get back to Miami to have sex with him (err, them) again. icon_cool.gif
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    Jul 27, 2015 4:08 AM GMT
    Chulo saidChulo ideal man has big penis.

    That is all.
    So you like to get fucked by sperm whales? icon_eek.gif
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    Jul 27, 2015 4:12 AM GMT
    paulflexes said
    Tropicalcium saidDo you have an ideal gay man?
    Yeah. I can't wait to get back to Miami to have sex with him (err, them) again. icon_cool.gif


    you old man. you pay for sex.icon_lol.gif
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    Jul 27, 2015 4:20 AM GMT
    Chulo said
    paulflexes said
    Tropicalcium saidDo you have an ideal gay man?
    Yeah. I can't wait to get back to Miami to have sex with him (err, them) again. icon_cool.gif


    you old man. you pay for sex.icon_lol.gif
    You're more than welcome to believe that. I won't hold that back from you. But I'm the one who just bought a Mercedes this week...cash.

    Now you can decide who gets paid for sex. icon_wink.gif
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    Jul 27, 2015 4:33 AM GMT
    paulflexes said
    Chulo said
    paulflexes said
    Tropicalcium saidDo you have an ideal gay man?
    Yeah. I can't wait to get back to Miami to have sex with him (err, them) again. icon_cool.gif


    you old man. you pay for sex.icon_lol.gif
    You're more than welcome to believe that. I won't hold that back from you. But I'm the one who just bought a Mercedes this week...cash.

    Now you can decide who gets paid for sex. icon_wink.gif


    This makes no sense. Either....

    a) you fulfill the stereotype of the rich, old dude therefore have enough money to but escorts...


    b) or you just outed yourself as an escort by being to buy your new car...in cash..icon_neutral.gif
  • buddycat

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    Jul 27, 2015 9:30 AM GMT
    One that gives expensive jewels.

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    Jul 27, 2015 2:00 PM GMT
    Tropicalcium saidhttp://www.theguardian.com/science/blog/2015/jul/24/gay-genes-science-is-on-the-right-track-were-born-this-way-lets-deal-with-it

    Do you have an ideal gay man?

    Mine looks 6 foot tall. Brown eyes. Smooth. 7 inch dick. Dark skinned.


    Are we looking at one night stand or long term relationships?
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    Jul 28, 2015 10:33 PM GMT
    Tall - over 6 feet, slim, smooth chest.
    Looks me into my eyes and assures me that everything will be okay, and our friendship secure.

    He does not pursue me for sex, in fact he prefers to keep his trousers buttoned up, but he is fond of giving me hugs.
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    Jul 28, 2015 10:43 PM GMT
    Ideal gay man? That's easy, ripped, wealthy, good hearted, intelligent, humble, reserved, classy, loyal and patient and polite.



  • Eli_jah

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    Jul 29, 2015 1:42 AM GMT
    To me, there is no ideal gay man. I just like men.