Situation on realjocks forum

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    Jul 26, 2015 5:23 PM GMT
    Hi, My name is Bonaparts, at least that is how you know me here, I made this topic because I have something to say and I feel like It has to be said, Approximately 6 months I self deleted my profile, there were too many fights going on and I was just tired of constant insults and fighting with people and frankly did not see any purpose of that any more, it was useless, so I decided to delete my profile

    after 6 months I came back just staying positive, giving advises and having a good time here.
    And how to bring this up, there are provocateurs here that humiliate and degrade people, make lies, terrible humiliating and destructive lies which for some reason just go unnoticed by the administrator, people David666k and Fguy57 claimed that I am HIV positive and that I keep escaping mental institution and called me other names like they do here to many people, for some maybe it is considered an entertainment, but I don't think it's funny, David666k should have been banned long time ago, because of him many conflicts happen and people leave RJ, I cannot call what he does to others any other than online harassment yet for some reason it goes unnoticed, mostly because of his victims get provoked and they fight back and often get banned because of that. It's sad that this forum has become place where people get bullied, harassed and humiliated

    I deleted my profile after I was laughed about having HIV positive status, a claim which is not based on anything, although what was said was hurtful, I decided to come back and ask administrator to ban fguy57 and david666k for online harassment and bullying

    It doesn't take courage or intellect or decency to harass people online, everybody can do that, I choose not to, so why owner of this forum promotes online bullying and humiliation, degrading people? Why can't this place be where people support one another and learn new things and be positive ?

    theantijock said
    David666k said
    Bonaparts said
    flguy57 said
    Bonaparts said
    flguy57 said

    Amen! And Mr Antijock you started this. You came into my thread and threw the first stone. So get off your high horse. I've seen you go after other people multiple times.
    Well you can target me all you want but just know, if you keep it up I won't back down from your insults. It's up to you. It's funny to me that the insane people all stick together. Like you running to pazzys defense and bonashart chiming in. I expect Art_Deco's stalker 43shitforbrains to show up any minute. icon_rolleyes.gif



    how positive icon_lol.gif


    Sorta like your HIV status, eh. icon_lol.gif


    BRAVO icon_lol.gif465.gif


    So that's why you were defending MMTM youre bug buddies.


    I can't even believe I just read that.

    .......Sorry that is so long
    Anyway, I am leaving this place, at least for a while, this environment is too toxic and I don't see any reason to stay here

    Thank you for you attention and all the best :-)
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    Jul 26, 2015 5:36 PM GMT
    http://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/how-successful-people-handle-toxic-people-fiff/

    As in real life, on the RJ forums you cannot control other people's words and actions, only your own.

    I have been glad to see what I believe is greater success on your part handling some of the hostilities this time around. I recall last time you had a difficult time not becoming an active agent in that ecosystem, and appreciate the discipline and focus you've shown in the last few weeks.

    I hope one of these times you find a positive, sustainable balance; for now, if it is not yet clear how to do so on the RJ forums, then I think you are making the right decision. Best wishes for your health and continued growth in the mean time.
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    Jul 26, 2015 6:14 PM GMT
    LOL. I hope this is a troll thread. You playing the poor innocent lamb don't go with your style, psycho.

    Also I didn't claim shit, Flyguy made a joke and I continued it, I accept my joke was a bit borderline, but still, you're too stupid if you're gonna take that seriously and make a whole thread about it.

    You're the guy that publicly says that "often think of hitting people in the head with hard objects" and many times have expressed very violent and sick thoughts, and unlike me, you're not joking. So you might as well save your ridiculous rant.

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    Jul 26, 2015 6:20 PM GMT
    David666k saidLOL. I hope this is a troll thread. You playing the poor innocent lamb don't go with your style, psycho.

    Also I didn't claim shit, Flyguy made a joke and I continued it, I accept my joke was a bit borderline, but still, you're too stupid if you're gonna take that seriously and make a whole thread about it.

    You're the guy that publicly says that "often think of hitting people in the head with hard objects" and many times have expressed very violent and sick thought, and unlike me, you're not joking. So you might as well save your ridiculous rant.


    I don't understand how is this ok?
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    Jul 26, 2015 6:24 PM GMT
    Many people are toxic here. For example, Chulo and racism
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  • Suetonius

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    Jul 26, 2015 6:46 PM GMT
    Use the ignore button - it's there for a reason. There are a number of toxic posters on RJ, and some that are just plain annoying or always boring. I used to have a lot of guys on ignore (including you - under your various spellings of bonapart), but now there are fewer, because a lot of them have left (along with some of the most interesting posters. So I rarely had to be assualted with what David3k, Pazzy, Chrisatic, infinitefriend, hentail-something or other, mathew#, fuzzypecs, bigmachodude, dayum, or a number of others whose names I can't remember. If you ignore David and don't fight with him, your life on RJ would be easier (if you can miss the excitement of fighting with him).

  • tazzari

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    Jul 26, 2015 6:54 PM GMT
    I use the ignore button. I have no use for the insults or the cat fights, and even some of our best guys get dragged into those. When they start, I don't view the thread any more. Ditto the long, long harangue with large caps that some resort to.

    Having done that, I enjoy RJ for the news, the wisdom and experience of some members, and some interesting and valuable off-site conversations that have come up.

    It's like walking down the street. There are bound to be some things I don't like, but the choice is to ignore them, or stay inside and never go out.

    And there are some great people here, and some great news items, thanks to Metta, that the mainstream media never pick up. Heck, I even learn from some of the folks I disagree with!
  • Zigs_01

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    Jul 26, 2015 6:57 PM GMT
    The thing about insulting people is that it usually has to be justified. You would insult somebody who stomped on your foot. However, you wouldn't go and insult people who never do anything to you. Just going around calling people the N word is like getting a sludge hammer to destroying a brick wall with the purpose of being physically violent. Imagine people go here and do this every day destroying a brick wall.
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    Jul 26, 2015 6:58 PM GMT
    Zigs_01 saidThe thing about insulting people is that it usually has to be justified. You would insult somebody who stomped on your foot. However, you wouldn't go and insult people who never do anything to you. Just going around calling people the N word is like getting a sludge hammer and destroying a brick wall with the purpose of being physically violet. Image people go here and do this every day and destroy a brick wall.


    I've blushed for some stupid things I've done, but I've never gone violet. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jul 26, 2015 7:00 PM GMT

    I've blushed for some stupid things I've done, but I've never gone violet. icon_biggrin.gif[/quote]

    fixed grammar
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    Jul 26, 2015 7:02 PM GMT
    I blocked most of the posters I found to be toxic. The atmosphere is much better. Way less bullshit to deal with lol.
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    Jul 26, 2015 7:03 PM GMT
    tmac saidI blocked most of the posters I found to be toxic. The atmosphere is much better. Way less bullshit to deal with lol.


    +1! Only I call it the asshole/bore button.
  • 1AlanZSky

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    Jul 26, 2015 7:07 PM GMT
    Or just ignore them. Do not take it personally.
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    Jul 26, 2015 7:09 PM GMT
    Ignoring someone doesn't really solve the problem, people still get harassed and bullied and environment still stays toxic icon_sad.gif and people still leave
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    Jul 26, 2015 7:28 PM GMT
    Do not engage toxic people and stay out of their fights. The less you deal with them, the easier it is to ignore their petty infighting.
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    Jul 26, 2015 7:38 PM GMT


    Old man lying
    by the side of the road
    With the lorries rolling by,
    Blue moon sinking
    from the weight of the load
    And the buildings scrape the sky,
    Cold wind ripping
    down the alley at dawn
    And the morning paper flies,
    Dead man lying
    by the side of the road
    With the daylight in his eyes.

    Don't let it bring you down
    It's only castles burning,
    Find someone who's turning
    And you will come around.

    Blind man running
    through the light
    of the night
    With an answer in his hand,
    Come on down
    to the river of sight
    And you can really understand,
    Red lights flashing
    through the window
    in the rain,
    Can you hear the sirens moan?
    White cane lying
    in a gutter in the lane,
    If you're walking home alone.

    Don't let it bring you down
    It's only castles burning,
    Just find someone who's turning
    And you will come around.

    Don't let it bring you down
    It's only castles burning,
    Just find someone who's turning
    And you will come around.
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    Jul 26, 2015 8:45 PM GMT
    Excuse me??? You were the one who started with me in that thread. So don't play the victim card. You kept harassing me so I said that. I put a smiley face at the end and said, eh? It was a joke. I don't know or care what your status is. When David made his post I made another one that told him to not go there. You failed to mention that didn't you. The only time I harass people is when they insult me or start crazy threads saying they are going to kill people (Stuart). So, run away again. I for one will not miss you. You came here the last time and were a horrible little troll. Now you want to change your stripes. We all know that's not gonna happen. You are still the same person you were before.
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    Jul 26, 2015 9:05 PM GMT
    bonaparts saidHi, My name is Bonaparts, at least that is how you know me here, I made this topic because I have something to say and I feel like It has to be said, Approximately 6 months I self deleted my profile, there were too many fights going on and I was just tired of constant insults and fighting with people and frankly did not see any purpose of that any more, it was useless, so I decided to delete my profile

    after 6 months I came back just staying positive, giving advises and having a good time here.
    And how to bring this up, there are provocateurs here that humiliate and degrade people, make lies, terrible humiliating and destructive lies which for some reason just go unnoticed by the administrator, people David666k and Fguy57 claimed that I am HIV positive and that I keep escaping mental institution and called me other names like they do here to many people, for some maybe it is considered an entertainment, but I don't think it's funny, David666k should have been banned long time ago, because of him many conflicts happen and people leave RJ, I cannot call what he does to others any other than online harassment yet for some reason it goes unnoticed, mostly because of his victims get provoked and they fight back and often get banned because of that. It's sad that this forum has become place where people get bullied, harassed and humiliated

    I deleted my profile after I was laughed about having HIV positive status, a claim which is not based on anything, although what was said was hurtful, I decided to come back and ask administrator to ban fguy57 and david666k for online harassment and bullying

    It doesn't take courage or intellect or decency to harass people online, everybody can do that, I choose not to, so why owner of this forum promotes online bullying and humiliation, degrading people? Why can't this place be where people support one another and learn new things and be positive ?

    theantijock said
    David666k said
    Bonaparts said
    flguy57 said
    Bonaparts said
    flguy57 said

    Amen! And Mr Antijock you started this. You came into my thread and threw the first stone. So get off your high horse. I've seen you go after other people multiple times.
    Well you can target me all you want but just know, if you keep it up I won't back down from your insults. It's up to you. It's funny to me that the insane people all stick together. Like you running to pazzys defense and bonashart chiming in. I expect Art_Deco's stalker 43shitforbrains to show up any minute. icon_rolleyes.gif



    how positive icon_lol.gif


    Sorta like your HIV status, eh. icon_lol.gif


    BRAVO icon_lol.gif465.gif


    So that's why you were defending MMTM youre bug buddies.


    I can't even believe I just read that.

    .......Sorry that is so long
    Anyway, I am leaving this place, at least for a while, this environment is too toxic and I don't see any reason to stay here

    Thank you for you attention and all the best :-)


    David is an unfortunate creature. Even if you block him he reappears under a different profile....David3K among others. It's like blocking a whack-a-mole.

    There was one thread so bad that the whole thing got deleted....thanks to Art Deco, David and a couple of others. It was absolute libel. Why? Because I am HIV positive and I was speaking up for HIV rights.
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    Jul 26, 2015 9:28 PM GMT
    The problem on the forums won't go away. Lack of moderation and the fact that some/most people find the trolls more entertaining than the people that try to engage in actual discussion.
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    Jul 26, 2015 9:48 PM GMT
    Just block and ignore them. Your experience will be much better. Just think of it like Facebook, if your friend keeps sending annoying game request, lol block them. icon_razz.gif
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    Jul 26, 2015 10:52 PM GMT
    anotherphil saidhttp://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/how-successful-people-handle-toxic-people-fiff/

    As in real life, on the RJ forums you cannot control other people's words and actions, only your own.

    I have been glad to see what I believe is greater success on your part handling some of the hostilities this time around. I recall last time you had a difficult time not becoming an active agent in that ecosystem, and appreciate the discipline and focus you've shown in the last few weeks.

    I hope one of these times you find a positive, sustainable balance; for now, if it is not yet clear how to do so on the RJ forums, then I think you are making the right decision. Best wishes for your health and continued growth in the mean time.


    Thanks, that was nice icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jul 26, 2015 11:24 PM GMT
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    flguy57 saidExcuse me??? You were the one who started with me in that thread. So don't play the victim card. You kept harassing me so I said that. I put a smiley face at the end and said, eh? It was a joke. I don't know or care what your status is. When David made his post I made another one that told him to not go there. You failed to mention that didn't you. The only time I harass people is when they insult me or start crazy threads saying they are going to kill people (Stuart). So, run away again. I for one will not miss you. You came here the last time and were a horrible little troll. Now you want to change your stripes. We all know that's not gonna happen. You are still the same person you were before.


    He is spot on about you being a bully-

    You told a mentally ill guy (Stuart) here on RJ to kill himself-
    You bullied the antijock
    and there are others--

    You seem to enjoy attacking mentally unstable men--



    I knew you would show up with your lies. I guess you're one of those people that think insane killers that murder people at movies and churches and kill our soldiers are all cool people. You'd invite them into your house wouldn't you. I bet you think Charles Manson was a pretty cool dude. You are a creepy STALKER and if anyone is disgusting it's you. Now go stalk art deco. He just started a new topic. People like you are the reason this country is going to shit. You are pathetic.
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    Jul 26, 2015 11:30 PM GMT
    flguy57 saidExcuse me??? You were the one who started with me in that thread. So don't play the victim card. You kept harassing me so I said that. I put a smiley face at the end and said, eh? It was a joke. I don't know or care what your status is. When David made his post I made another one that told him to not go there. You failed to mention that didn't you. The only time I harass people is when they insult me or start crazy threads saying they are going to kill people (Stuart). So, run away again. I for one will not miss you. You came here the last time and were a horrible little troll. Now you want to change your stripes. We all know that's not gonna happen. You are still the same person you were before.


    Someone started with you or you were the one who started with the entire forum?

    You were the OP, the Original Polluter of the forum who started that toxic thread set out to bash not just some defenseless guy, but an indefensible guy not even here to defend himself. You're like some little snot pulling the wings off a fly that already had its legs busted. That you'd call anyone else a troll? You are the mother troll. Own it.

    You stepped on some guy not just with loads of personality problems, not just down on his luck, but tossed out of the forum; you stepped on him to try and make yourself look taller. How'd that work for ya?

    Only you don't get to piss on the guy--who by the way I couldn't give a flying fuck about--with impunity. Gee, it's almost as if this was the internet or something. Your getting called out is not someone "starting with you" as you've said more than once while you accuse others for playing the victim. So. full. of shit.

    And now you are even going to claim home free all on yourself for using HIV to bash a guy but you were "only kidding". Like when a bus driver runs ya over and he says: only kidding. Oh but no, you say, you really were just joking with the guy who you were being so shitty to and we should know this because you think you get to claim the high road on a thread you made to step on another guy when he was down? You wanna rethink that horseshit?

    Because it seems you've placed your integrity in question.

    And here you are again, some guy relating to the forum his feelings and what do you do? What did you do the last time you saw someone down and out? You just now tried stepping on him too, didn't ya? Well, at least you are consistent.

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    Jul 26, 2015 11:50 PM GMT
    43rueperronet said
    flguy57 said
    43rueperronet said
    flguy57 saidExcuse me??? You were the one who started with me in that thread. So don't play the victim card. You kept harassing me so I said that. I put a smiley face at the end and said, eh? It was a joke. I don't know or care what your status is. When David made his post I made another one that told him to not go there. You failed to mention that didn't you. The only time I harass people is when they insult me or start crazy threads saying they are going to kill people (Stuart). So, run away again. I for one will not miss you. You came here the last time and were a horrible little troll. Now you want to change your stripes. We all know that's not gonna happen. You are still the same person you were before.


    He is spot on about you being a bully-

    You told a mentally ill guy (Stuart) here on RJ to kill himself-
    You bullied the antijock
    and there are others--

    You seem to enjoy attacking mentally unstable men--



    I knew you would show up with your lies. I guess you're one of those people that think insane killers that murder people at movies and churches and kill our soldiers are all cool people. You'd invite them into your house wouldn't you. I bet you think Charles Manson was a pretty cool dude. You are a creepy STALKER and if anyone is disgusting it's you. Now go stalk art deco. He just started a new topic. People like you are the reason this country is going to shit. You are pathetic.



    Nice try--
    You need to be banned--
    Harassing mentally unstable guys is pathetic--
    You are the perfect example of a bully


    You should crawl back under your rock. Admin can go back and read every one of my posts and if he feels I should be banned, so be it. I can tell by how sensitive you are towards the mentally deranged that you probably fall in that category as well. You should get help and maybe you would stop stalking Art-Deco. Maybe Admin needs to know how you follow Art around and harass him at every turn. Maybe it's you who should be banned. You should go back and read some of the antijocks work. Oh, you can't because he is a hidden pussy so his harassment of others can't be found. I think he should be banned as well. Maybe Admin needs to know about him too.