Edging, cum control, multiple orgasms training

  • DancerJock

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    Jul 27, 2015 4:07 AM GMT
    Anyone here train for cum control or for multiple orgasms, as described in The Multiorgasmic Man (by Mantak Chia)?

    Any advice to share? It's been slow progress for me. I got there one time with the help of an erotic hypno session over skype...
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    Jul 27, 2015 4:17 AM GMT
    I don't train for it, but I do masturbate/cum on average about 2-3 times a day...sometimes less, sometimes more.

    As for multiple back-to-back orgasms, I might do that once a week or so...usually twice a month or less. It's fun but I simply don't have time with other stuff going on in life (work, downhill mountain biking, sleep, lather, rinse, repeat, and especially repeat the downhill mountain bike part...and work).

    Simply put, I'm a year older than you (going by RJ profile text) and still wake up with a super-stiff boner every day just like a frat bro.

    Any other questions should be directed to my staff. icon_wink.gif
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    Jul 27, 2015 4:33 AM GMT
    Haven't seen that book, but it's pretty straightforward to take bottoms through multiple orgasms.
  • DancerJock

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    Jul 27, 2015 4:40 AM GMT
    Here's a summary of the info in the book by a dude who's training with it:

    http://www.menprovement.com/multi-orgasmic-man/
  • DancerJock

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    Jul 27, 2015 4:43 AM GMT
    Main reason for wanting to train for this is to be a better top. I want to be able to go as long and hard as the bottom can take it. I love being able to wear a bottom dude out from sheer pleasure overload
  • DancerJock

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    Jul 27, 2015 4:47 AM GMT
    paulflexes saidAs for multiple back-to-back orgasms, I might do that once a week or so...usually twice a month or less. It's fun but I simply don't have time with other stuff going on in life (work, downhill mountain biking, sleep, lather, rinse, repeat, and especially repeat the downhill mountain bike part...and work)


    Thanks for the reply - sounds like a great routine, especially the daily loads and downhill!

    When you go for back-to-back orgasms, do you shoot a load both times, or do have a non-ejac type of orgasm?
  • bobbobbob

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    Jul 27, 2015 4:47 AM GMT
    I think I'm too old to worry about that. I'm at the age where I'm quite happy with sex being a non issue. New fangled sex options boggle my mind.

    However, my grandson and his boyfriend (ages 22 and 24) say they do it all the time. They refer to it as MMOs and do it with prostate massages and yoga.

    I'm just getting up to speed with security cameras on my fathers day iPhone and acting like I don't wish I had my antique flip phone back.
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    Jul 27, 2015 4:55 AM GMT
    I don't have time for all that, I just do it and go to sleep.
  • DancerJock

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    Jul 27, 2015 5:09 AM GMT
    bobbobbob saidmy grandson and his boyfriend (ages 22 and 24) say they do it all the time. They refer to it as MMOs and do it with prostate massages and yoga.


    Thanks for posting - this sounds great! I'd love to join in the party!
  • bobbobbob

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    Jul 27, 2015 7:21 AM GMT
    DancerDC said
    bobbobbob saidmy grandson and his boyfriend (ages 22 and 24) say they do it all the time. They refer to it as MMOs and do it with prostate massages and yoga.


    Thanks for posting - this sounds great! I'd love to join in the party!


    They just came in from a weekend trip and I asked about the forum they're in about it.... http://www.malemultiple.org/

    Knock yourself out and good luck.
  • DancerJock

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    Jul 27, 2015 8:13 AM GMT
    Thanks!
  • DancerJock

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    Jul 27, 2015 8:15 AM GMT
    MuchMoreThanMuscle saidAs I top I take a very long time to cum as it is.


    Any idea how I can develop that ability like you? I'd love to be able to wear a bottom out
  • DancerJock

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    Jul 27, 2015 8:16 AM GMT
    I just realized this thread may be in the wrong spot - anyone know how I can move it over to the Sex forum?
  • bobbobbob

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    Jul 27, 2015 8:18 AM GMT
    Probably too late for that.
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    Jul 27, 2015 11:32 AM GMT
    DancerDC said
    MuchMoreThanMuscle saidAs I top I take a very long time to cum as it is.


    Any idea how I can develop that ability like you? I'd love to be able to wear a bottom out


    Sex is like jumping off a mountain, if you're going to do it you may as well jump from the top.

    Switching up positions to be more focused on their pleasure points can work to lengthen it out. It also helps them too since they get to experience more of what you're like.
  • DancerJock

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    Jul 27, 2015 11:59 PM GMT
    Sparks said

    Switching up positions to be more focused on their pleasure points can work to lengthen it out. It also helps them too since they get to experience more of what you're like.


    I like switching up positions, especially when I keep my cock inside and turn him over or on his side to keep going
  • DancerJock

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    Jul 28, 2015 12:01 AM GMT
    bobbobbob said
    DancerDC said
    bobbobbob saidmy grandson and his boyfriend (ages 22 and 24) say they do it all the time. They refer to it as MMOs and do it with prostate massages and yoga.


    I asked about the forum they're in about it.... http://www.malemultiple.org/


    Thanks again for posting that link. That looks like a good community for learning. Does your grandson have any advice on how he and his man got started and were able to learn together?
  • bobbobbob

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    Jul 28, 2015 1:13 AM GMT
    Ha ha ha!

    I'm pretty sure they've talked about it in some detail but I'm pretty good at acting interested while someone's telling me things I intend to forget faster than I hear it.
  • DancerJock

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    Aug 27, 2015 5:54 AM GMT
    Bump?
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    Aug 27, 2015 6:02 AM GMT
    You can have multiple orgasms during foreplay. I unforunately reach the point where I can't hold back. It does not have to stop after ejaculation, you can continue reaching orgasms afterwards.
  • 6packabs

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    Aug 29, 2015 8:51 AM GMT
    There is a ton out there that is to be discovered, that I keep reading about. I was added to a spirituality group on Facebook and most of those people are straight, but some of the threads have been about multiple male orgasms, and my word, I was shocked to see these straight guys talking about getting dildo's to practice with, something to do with the prostate massage. I think I need to take time to go back and look up their comments.

    My first time at a bathhouse was 3 years ago. I was totally seduced by an ad featuring guys lifting weights in nothing but a towel. "I'm doing that" I thought, no way I could pass it up. I went, and for the first 3 hours sat and lifted, did my normal routine, in as much as was possible with a smaller range of equipment that my gym has. Then I began to venture out to see what all those other men were into. Obviously, lifting weights was not their thing, at least in that space. I walked up on a plank and had a very handsome guy at my groin level who gave me an outstanding BJ as I turned my stiff manhood his direction. I felt I was going to blow, so I withdrew, and apologized for it, but I didn't want to risk losing that energy so quickly. Back to the weights I went. Later, I went again, same thing, and a gorgeous, tall, dark, and handsome guy worked me over. I couldn't stop and pull back. I just gave in to all his magnificent beauty and his passion for working my shaft over so good. I blew hard and he swallowed it all down.

    Well, my stamina, I especially learned there, was way better after that first ejaculation. The rest of the night I began to be revered like a porn star, and I fucked like one. I would concentrate not to get too excited when fucking and focused on my shaft being less sensitive. I could pound a guy (with an audience gathered around watching) until he couldn't take it any longer. I was always happy to wear him out, then go shower, then select my next sexy guy wanting the same. As I'd pound, I'd have guys chanting: "Please fuck me, please fuck me, please save some for me."

    Talk about an ego boost. Anyway, I was able to pound guy after guy after guy, and I suppose the excitement of such a place which was new to me kept me stiff and able to perform. I was fairly new to sex after a conservative and religious upbringing, and so much of this was a new discovery to me. I'd never had the option to pound one guy after another and just keep going.

    I later discovered that certainly the more frequently I was having sex, the better my stamina would become.

    I should start doing some downhill biking though, like PaulFlexes and see if that will give me a stiffy every morning like I was a frat boy. Exercise surely aids as key in that, followed by diet.
  • DancerJock

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    Sep 15, 2015 9:37 AM GMT
    thanks for telling us about your excellent adventure, 6packabs. I too want to be that stud who tops every ass in the room and wears one out after another. That chanting is incredible - what a rock star!
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    Sep 15, 2015 11:48 AM GMT
    DancerDC saidthanks for telling us about your excellent adventure, 6packabs. I too want to be that stud who tops every ass in the room and wears one out after another. That chanting is incredible - what a rock star!


    If you like the idea of that, you should check out the Fickstutenmarkt in Berlin - otherwise known as the Horsemarket.

    It involves bottoms ('mares') going in first and being blind folded and tied up, then the tops ('stallions') are released and can fuck as many of the mares as they like.
  • DancerJock

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    Sep 17, 2015 12:42 PM GMT
    What a party! Those mares won't even see what's coming!
  • kyle777

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    Sep 23, 2015 5:04 AM GMT
    My partner and I learn how to edge each other from Here. The orgasm is pretty intense. icon_cool.gif