what do you say to a partner not putting out

  • Apparition

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    Jul 28, 2015 5:16 AM GMT
    what do you say to a partner not putting out
    so if you are not putting out, and not interested in breaking up, what do you want the partner to say to prevent that, and what is going to change the situation.

  • mybud

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    Jul 28, 2015 5:23 AM GMT
    If he's not putting out, and you continue to say nothing,he thinks you're o k on the status quo.
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    Jul 28, 2015 6:16 AM GMT
    Apparition said
    what do you say to a partner not putting out

    "Good-bye"
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    Jul 28, 2015 1:16 PM GMT
    Art_Deco said
    Apparition said
    what do you say to a partner not putting out

    "Good-bye"

    This.
    The main reason I am into someone is because I want to be in them, not with them. People who play games with sexual frequency may as well have a vagina. The joy of dating and fucking men is we know who we are dealing with, game playing dopes are a complete waste of time.
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    Jul 28, 2015 1:42 PM GMT
    Define 'not putting out'- today? This week? At all?

    Even another man isn't going to feel sexual all the time. If he's not in the mood today I suck it up because probably tomorrow he'll feel like it. I'm not always in the mood either. Sometimes the mood is induceable and sometimes not. But tomorrow is another day.

    If he is turning me down most or all the time then it's a problem. There are many reasons this could be- stress, depression, medication, etc. It's an opportunity to work on the relationship. If he's a good partner he will be willing to talk about it and work on it. If I'm a good partner I'll already have an idea what's going on.