Yoooooooo um I couldn't get hard tonight

  • NYC_BOI

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    Jul 31, 2015 2:38 AM GMT
    So I couldn't cum the past few times me and this boy had sex. I would get hard but just wouldn't be able to cum. People told it's because I've been jerking off so much, which I'm going to stop doing TONIGHT.

    Anyway ummmmmmm I just tried hooking up with the boy that I couldn't cum with and MY FUCKING DICK COULDN'T EVEN GET HARD WHAT THE FUCK IM 20 YEARS OLD WTFFFFFFF IS GOING ON
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    Jul 31, 2015 5:36 AM GMT
    You aren't relaxing and now you're worried about everything.

    Cease that.
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    Jul 31, 2015 5:47 AM GMT
    AIDS. You have AIDS.

    Next question.

    /thread.
  • bobbobbob

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    Jul 31, 2015 5:48 AM GMT
    Brain cancer.
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    Jul 31, 2015 8:02 AM GMT
    ignore the morons, and see a doctor.
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    Jul 31, 2015 9:56 AM GMT
    Mind is powerful : it can get it up just by daydreaming about a hot stud, or completely turn it off if it's stressed out ! I'd say erection and cuming is at least 75% mind.
    It takes only one little bump on the road (lack of juice 'coz you jerked off too much for instance), to mess the whole thing up !


    Well, 1st of all, go see a doctor, just to be sure there are no medical condition behind all this (chances are, there's none).


    Then... well... get out of your head !!! The more you'll focus on it, the worse it'll get, typical vicious circle here ! Easier said than done, I know... Here's some tricks you could try :

    - start any date / hook up by telling the guy you won't get far in any sex activity, even forbid him to touch you in any arousing way, just focus on having a good moment, talking, getting to know each other...

    Chances are, it will help you lower your stress level, and you could end up having sex without any trouble after all ! But you have to trick yourself : trully believe NOTHING would happen, just have a good moment with the guy, and see where things go. If nothing, well... you said it from the start ! No big deal !

    - identify exactly the context of your problem : can you get it up when you're alone ? What kind of stuff turns you on (so you can picture it in your mind when you're with someone, to warm things up)

    These are typical tools / advices a sex-therapist would give, enjoy it, it's free ! :p
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    Jul 31, 2015 10:55 AM GMT
    JackBoneTX saidYou aren't relaxing and now you're worried about everything.

    Cease that.

    He's right... You're probably too hung up on your lack of cumming that you're stressing yourself out.

    Stop thinking about what might not happen and focus on what's happening.

    If I were your partner, I'd take it as a challenge and do everything in my power to make you have the gasm you crave...

    But that's just me..icon_lol.gif
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    Jul 31, 2015 9:36 PM GMT
    Forget about it for awhile. Be the hot stud bottom who services that hard cocked stud!

    Explore your bottom side, or let someone else do it for you icon_biggrin.gif
  • Apparition

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    Aug 01, 2015 7:22 AM GMT
    face it, you are straight.