Dear Straight Men, Come Out Already

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    Jul 31, 2015 6:45 AM GMT


    http://www.huffingtonpost.com/mason-hsieh/dear-straight-men-come-out-already_b_7899674.html

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    Apparently, they called it a "bro-job," which referred to the oral sex the male rowers occasionally engaged in with one another in the showers back in high school. Or at least that's what my friend told me. Neither he nor any of the other guys on the team identified as gay, but according to his reports, they would often hook up post-practice, but "like bros, you know? Not in a gay way."


    This locker room pic is somewhat dated, like mid 70's, today everyone, young, does towel dancing icon_lol.gif

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    Jul 31, 2015 6:55 AM GMT
    You're just now learning this?
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    Jul 31, 2015 7:28 AM GMT
    paulflexes saidYou're just now learning this?



    What? I suck cock but I'm not really gay? bro icon_lol.gif


    The amount of 'outness', out a little, out a lot icon_question.gif

    As the article stated,
    "straight"= in the closet, remaining there, lives a heterosexual life
    "gay"= out of the closet, proud to be, lives a homosexual life
    "Bro" "Bi"?= lives a heterosexual life, maybe confused but has homosexual sex, to a point


  • hebrewman

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    Jul 31, 2015 8:51 AM GMT
    so THAT'S what it was called after wrestling practice. i often wondered about that. now i know...........
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    Jul 31, 2015 11:35 AM GMT
    Call and be what you are and what you like....I know that I LOVE to give and get oral.....Willie doesn't care if that mouth is attached to a limp-wristed, lisping sashay or Mr macho with the deep booming voice and is mega-muscular....it still feels good, regardless of how you identify. NOTHING about the fluidity of where anyone is on the Kinsey scale at any given moment, has anything to do with what feels good or how receptive and open-minded a person is.

    As a species that has sex as "recreation", why would a "bro-job" be any more defining of ones identity than say working on cars, playing hockey or sewing or cooking of knitting? It's recreation and stress relief and simply fun....icon_cool.gif
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    Jul 31, 2015 11:55 AM GMT
    The Etoro, or Edolo, are a tribe and ethnic group of Papua New Guinea. Their territory comprises the southern slopes of Mt. Sisa, along the southern edge of the central mountain range of New Guinea, near the Papuan Plateau. They are well known among anthropologists because of ritual homosexual acts practised between the young boys and men of the tribe. The Etoro believe that young boys must ingest the semen of their elders daily from the age of 7 until they turn 17 to achieve adult male status and to properly mature and grow strong.

    The Etoro believe that they each contain a certain amount of life force, the highest concentrations of which are contained in semen. This life force passes to others through sexual relations. Women are seen to waste the life force if they do not get pregnant after sexual intercourse. As people get older, and their bodies weaken, this is attributed to a depletion of their life force.


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    O'Neil and Kottak agree that most men marry and have heterosexual relations with their wives. The fear that heterosexual sex causes them to die earlier and the belief that homosexual sex prolongs life means that heterosexual relations are focused towards reproduction.
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    Jul 31, 2015 12:29 PM GMT
    ELNathB said
    everyone, young, does towel dancing


    I haven't noticed young guys towel dancing more than older guys. It's usually the nerdy looking ones that do that.

    I only towel dance if the man/men in my immediate vicinity are gross or if I'm having a day where I'm feeling extremely down on myself. It happens.


    But a lot of guys I know who did major team sports have said this kind of thing happened.

    Seems it was common in wrestling, swim, water polo, lacrosse and rugby (the two most bro of major bro sports) and cross-country.
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    Jul 31, 2015 2:42 PM GMT
    Who cares? Not everyone wants to identify with outdated labels, that often time diminish the level of focus that should remain on one's character. Do you know how many girls have hooked up with girls and probably enjoyed it, but are completely straight? I think Gay guys trying to fulfill their obsession with making the rest of the world gay isn't doing much right.

    Lots of guys experiment with other men out of curiosity, but their main sexuality is toward women, so regardless of how many brojobs they partake in, they're predominately whatever they choose to be, and people should fuck off with the labels; you sound like a gossipy teenager when this is what you choose to focus on.
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    Jul 31, 2015 3:06 PM GMT
    That's why the Kinsey scale is such a good tool. The bottom line is, men know what men want and sometimes will seek out another man to play around with. Plus, the forbidden factor makes it even more exciting. Not all men are fluid enough to do this, though and that is why I mentioned the Kinsey scale.
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    Jul 31, 2015 4:25 PM GMT
    ELNathB said... in the showers back in high school


    things have changed over the last 5 years, the well adjusted Joe knows who he is and dosnt care about you.

    being gay is more than a blow job. Its about if your more compatible with a wife or a husband.
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    Jul 31, 2015 5:04 PM GMT
    Fantasy designed to sell papers?

    I'll believe it when I see the wounds.
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    Jul 31, 2015 5:07 PM GMT
    HikerSkier saidFantasy designed to sell papers. I'll believe it when I see the wounds.


    +1
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    Jul 31, 2015 5:19 PM GMT
    ELNathB said"straight"= in the closet, remaining there, lives a heterosexual life
    "gay"= out of the closet, proud to be, lives a homosexual life
    "Bro" "Bi"?= lives a heterosexual life, maybe confused but has homosexual sex, to a point


    Maybe all of these terms and conditions are incorrect. Perhaps there is no such thing as "gay"..."straight" or "bisexual", that we are all JUST people with the capacity to be attracted to, to love, and be intimate with ANYONE at any given time.
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    Jul 31, 2015 5:38 PM GMT
    FitBlackCuddler said
    ELNathB said"straight"= in the closet, remaining there, lives a heterosexual life
    "gay"= out of the closet, proud to be, lives a homosexual life
    "Bro" "Bi"?= lives a heterosexual life, maybe confused but has homosexual sex, to a point


    Maybe all of these terms and conditions are incorrect. Perhaps there is no such thing as "gay"..."straight" or "bisexual", that we are all JUST people with the capacity to be attracted to, to love, and be intimate with ANYONE at any given time.


    You could be right - just takes a little Ecstacy.
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    Jul 31, 2015 5:51 PM GMT
    James_Thunder_Early saidThat's why the Kinsey scale is such a good tool. The bottom line is, men know what men want and sometimes will seek out another man to play around with. Plus, the forbidden factor makes it even more exciting. Not all men are fluid enough to do this, though and that is why I mentioned the Kinsey scale.

    ^^^^^^^^This
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    Jul 31, 2015 10:49 PM GMT
    I've heard about locker-room & team sports shenanigans all of my life, dubiously reported by someone who claims to have been the recipient of the horseplay.

    To this day I don't believe it.

    Every person I've heard these boasts from has been an unreliable narrator. And gay. None of my straight male sports friends have any recollection of this stuff. So I guess they have selective memories?
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    Jul 31, 2015 11:29 PM GMT
    The complexity of bisexuality, neither straight or gay, but bisexual. Just as a gay man would never dive on pussy, a straight man would never such cook either.
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    Aug 01, 2015 2:20 AM GMT
    mickeytopogigio saidI've heard about locker-room & team sports shenanigans all of my life, dubiously reported by someone who claims to have been the recipient of the horseplay.

    To this day I don't believe it.

    Every person I've heard these boasts from has been an unreliable narrator. And gay. None of my straight male sports friends have any recollection of this stuff. So I guess they have selective memories?


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    Aug 01, 2015 4:20 AM GMT
    Some men and women are truly bi, it's not denial. It's like apples and oranges. You can like both, they are different. You may like one a little better than the other but liking apples doesn't mean you can't like oranges. This discussion gets tiring.
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    Aug 01, 2015 4:28 AM GMT
    sucking dick is not gay as long as you are straight icon_biggrin.gif

    I remember a couple of "straight guys" way back when I was in high school, the story was that one would suck the other off, but they were both straight. The one doing the sucking did it because he wanted the extra protein to keep in shape. The one that was getting sucked off is a grand dad with a bunch of grand kids now and the other guy ... well he passed on ... HIV ... but kept claiming to be straight, even when I would see him at the gay bars all the time. People are weird.
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    Aug 01, 2015 12:26 PM GMT
    TO23 saidWho cares? Not everyone wants to identify with outdated labels, that often time diminish the level of focus that should remain on one's character. Do you know how many girls have hooked up with girls and probably enjoyed it, but are completely straight? I think Gay guys trying to fulfill their obsession with making the rest of the world gay isn't doing much right.

    Lots of guys experiment with other men out of curiosity, but their main sexuality is toward women, so regardless of how many brojobs they partake in, they're predominately whatever they choose to be, and people should fuck off with the labels; you sound like a gossipy teenager when this is what you choose to focus on.









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    Aug 01, 2015 9:17 PM GMT
    It's funny you're saying this - I recently read an excerpt in Max - um .... Men's Health that included an excerpt from a real straight men giving his two cents on Gay Life.


    Dear, gay men, please come clean. All you do is hang out with girls. You call them fag hags, but please, I know its probably a front to get them to let down their defenses. You see them in various stages of undress and have them over all night to watch Sex in he City, yeah right. You gay guys see more twat than a gynecologist and then you wanna say hey I dress up like women and think that absolves you. The best hair bands from the 80's did the same thing and got more Snatch than Bieber's straight body guards.

    You gay guys probably just snap your fingers, roll your heads like black women, and the whole nine just to repulse other men away. That leaves you with all the women. Very slick, gay guys, very slick.

    Then you're good cooks. Its true, as I can attest, the best way to a man's heart is through his stomach. Well, females like to eat too. What a sly move turning the tables to actually treat another how you like it, such as the way she dawns a jersey and goes to games with straight guys but they can't go shopping with her.

    Gay guys, you want punani so bad you actually pretend to hate sports and go shopping with her - help her pick out outfits that make her look and feel like a sexy woman - so you can capitalize later right?

    Then you tell her looks don't matter, but in the meantime, you're working out in the gym six times a week and hiding your exquisitely etched physiques under mesh and sparkly fabric to throw everyone off.

    And when you're bored, you get out your power tools, fix old houses, and your cars are more souped up than Transformers.

    Sure, but you have sex with men, yet every "gay" man I know says they don't even get any from men.

    Give it up gay men, you're the ultimate studs: buff, sensitive, considerate, attractive, not to mention crafty. You're stealing all of the vulnerable ones with issues who put out away from the rest of us.

    Bro, not cool.