Black/East Asian Men do you feel

  • Matthew56

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    Aug 03, 2015 11:01 AM GMT
    That you have to work very and so extremely hard just to impress and attract white/caucasiod men. Do you also feel sexually validated if one is attracted to you and compliments you on you're appearance

    I feel so just wondering if other Black/East Asian men feel they have to validate their gay existence
  • mystery905

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    Aug 03, 2015 11:40 AM GMT
    No, I believe it's only you.
  • roadbikeRob

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    Aug 03, 2015 11:47 AM GMT
    The OP has a horrific inferiority complex as evidenced by his bitter self loathing. Keep hating on yourself and on other black men bunky. You will succeed in making yourself a pariah, a person to completely avoid.
  • Matthew56

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    Aug 07, 2015 5:54 PM GMT
    Any others
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    Aug 07, 2015 6:07 PM GMT
    I have no clue what are you talking about icon_lol.gif
  • tj85016

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    Aug 07, 2015 6:52 PM GMT
    man, this guy just doesn't stop
  • metta

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    Aug 07, 2015 7:15 PM GMT
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  • metta

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    Aug 07, 2015 7:19 PM GMT
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    Aug 07, 2015 7:37 PM GMT
    No.

    However i notice Asian men have
    this complex bad.
  • Zigs_01

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    Aug 07, 2015 7:37 PM GMT
    You might have a distorted view of reality to think that. Nobody works out for the sole reason to impress a white guy. None of what you said is true. I'm less cornered on what you said but rather on the intent behind this message.
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    Aug 07, 2015 7:43 PM GMT
    I smell a fake profile catfish.

    27 year old Black men don't have
    wrinkled faces. Barely any wrinkles
    at all if any. icon_lol.gif
  • Matthew56

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    Aug 09, 2015 5:35 AM GMT
    [quote][cite]Zigs_01 said[/cite]You might have a distorted view of reality to think that. Nobody works out for the sole reason to impress a white guy. None of what you said is true. I'm less cornered on what you said but rather on the intent behind this message. [/quote


    You"ll be surprised
  • Zigs_01

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    Aug 09, 2015 5:45 AM GMT
    Matthew56 said[quote][cite]Zigs_01 said[/cite]You might have a distorted view of reality to think that. Nobody works out for the sole reason to impress a white guy. None of what you said is true. I'm less cornered on what you said but rather on the intent behind this message. [/quote


    You"ll be surprised


    Why don't you explain on your viewpoint as if you were a social scientist.
  • Oceans_of_Flo...

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    Aug 09, 2015 6:27 AM GMT

    If you want a good one, it is my belief, you'd work hard to impress any man that interested you. This belief by people that hard work at anything on the part of a black person is to impress white people is false and white people will be the first to tell you that. White people don't go around looking to validate other races and rarely even seat themselves high enough to presume they could. Other races tend to appoint them to do this work. Its all mixed up and I pay it no mind, its a comedy of errors. Just looking, you look great, that's not validation, but it is my personal opinion, the same thing you'd get from a white man, an opinion. See, its a tad funny to think it would ever be considered anything else.

    ........................................

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    Aug 09, 2015 8:52 AM GMT
    You come across uglier and uglier not because of the colour of your skin but because of your incessant need to create threads like these that in essence just reiterate, like the most annoying broken record in the world, how much you worship white men.
    It's quite pathetic.

    You always say "this is just how I feel" but that will not change what it ACTUALLY communicates to another person.
    Ugly desperation and extreme insecurity.
    Those two things are BY FAR wayyyyyy uglier than what the colour of your skin could ever be.

    If you're going to be a broken record, then I will too.
    YOU ARE BLACK, GET THE FUCK OVER IT BECAUSE IT'S FINE.
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    Aug 09, 2015 10:24 AM GMT
    DryMoan saidYou come across uglier and uglier not because of the colour of your skin but because of your incessant need to create threads like these that in essence just reiterate, like the most annoying broken record in the world, how much you worship white men.
    It's quite pathetic.

    You always say "this is just how I feel" but that will not change what it ACTUALLY communicates to another person.
    Ugly desperation and extreme insecurity.
    Those two things are BY FAR wayyyyyy uglier than what the colour of your skin could ever be.

    If you're going to be a broken record, then I will too.
    YOU ARE BLACK, GET THE FUCK OVER IT BECAUSE IT'S FINE.

    I really believe he is just a troll who isn't even black.
  • Matthew56

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    Aug 09, 2015 2:21 PM GMT
    DryMoan saidYou come across uglier and uglier not because of the colour of your skin but because of your incessant need to create threads like these that in essence just reiterate, like the most annoying broken record in the world, how much you worship white men.
    It's quite pathetic.

    You always say "this is just how I feel" but that will not change what it ACTUALLY communicates to another person.
    Ugly desperation and extreme insecurity.
    Those two things are BY FAR wayyyyyy uglier than what the colour of your skin could ever be.

    If you're going to be a broken record, then I will too.
    YOU ARE BLACK, GET THE FUCK OVER IT BECAUSE IT'S FINE.



    It's not since I am second down to white men in the gay racial hierarchy
  • roadbikeRob

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    Aug 09, 2015 3:31 PM GMT
    Matthew56 said
    DryMoan saidYou come across uglier and uglier not because of the colour of your skin but because of your incessant need to create threads like these that in essence just reiterate, like the most annoying broken record in the world, how much you worship white men.
    It's quite pathetic.

    You always say "this is just how I feel" but that will not change what it ACTUALLY communicates to another person.
    Ugly desperation and extreme insecurity.
    Those two things are BY FAR wayyyyyy uglier than what the colour of your skin could ever be.

    If you're going to be a broken record, then I will too.
    YOU ARE BLACK, GET THE FUCK OVER IT BECAUSE IT'S FINE.



    It's not since I am second down to white men in the gay racial hierarchy
    You are a lost cause.icon_mad.gif
  • mystery905

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    Aug 09, 2015 4:48 PM GMT
    __morphic__ said
    DryMoan saidYou come across uglier and uglier not because of the colour of your skin but because of your incessant need to create threads like these that in essence just reiterate, like the most annoying broken record in the world, how much you worship white men.
    It's quite pathetic.

    You always say "this is just how I feel" but that will not change what it ACTUALLY communicates to another person.
    Ugly desperation and extreme insecurity.
    Those two things are BY FAR wayyyyyy uglier than what the colour of your skin could ever be.

    If you're going to be a broken record, then I will too.
    YOU ARE BLACK, GET THE FUCK OVER IT BECAUSE IT'S FINE.

    I really believe he is just a troll who isn't even black.


    + 1
  • Eli_jah

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    Aug 10, 2015 5:49 AM GMT
    Black & East Asian men are almost at an equal level in the gay community, black men may have the upper hand due to the "mandingo" fetish. Who knows? Just be yourself and fuck that noise.
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    Aug 10, 2015 6:10 AM GMT
    Matthew56 saidBlack/East Asian Men do you feel
    I "feel" any guy who has a body that "feels" good. The pigmentation they're born with (or have acquired) doesn't matter.
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    Aug 10, 2015 6:16 AM GMT
    Mulignan saidBlack & East Asian men are almost at an equal level in the gay community, black men may have the upper hand due to the "mandingo" fetish. Who knows? Just be yourself and fuck that noise.
    You just inadvertently "made" me search for the mandingo fetish.

    This is what my search result found: icon_lol.gif

    http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Mandingo+Party
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    Aug 11, 2015 1:56 AM GMT
    Matthew56 saidThat you have to work very and so extremely hard just to impress and attract white/caucasiod men. Do you also feel sexually validated if one is attracted to you and compliments you on you're appearance

    I feel so just wondering if other Black/East Asian men feel they have to validate their gay existence


    Not at this. This is a personal problem lol
  • Matthew56

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    Aug 12, 2015 12:30 AM GMT
    [quote][cite]Mulignan said[/cite]Black & East Asian men are almost at an equal level in the gay community, black men may have the upper hand due to the "mandingo" fetish. Who knows? Just be yourself and fuck that noise.[/quote

    Sorry that is not a good thing being desired for being well endowed is not something to be proud of as that means black men are nothing more than just a dirty fetish. That is just there to be played with when no one is looking
  • BloodFlame

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    Aug 13, 2015 5:33 AM GMT
    Matthew56 saidThat you have to work very and so extremely hard just to impress and attract white/caucasiod men. Do you also feel sexually validated if one is attracted to you and compliments you on you're appearance

    I feel so just wondering if other Black/East Asian men feel they have to validate their gay existence


    No and it's mainly because I'm attracted to all races. I personally believe that if you exclude yourself to only dating a specific race, it's your choice but seems awfully limiting in this day and age.

    I really wish you'd see that not everyone cares about race and if they do, oh well.