Why Straight Men Have Sex With Each Other

  • metta

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    Aug 09, 2015 4:46 PM GMT
    Why Straight Men Have Sex With Each Other


    http://nymag.com/scienceofus/2015/08/why-straight-men-have-sex-with-each-other.html?mid=fb-share-scienceofus
  • mystery905

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    Aug 09, 2015 4:56 PM GMT
    I knew it!
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    Aug 09, 2015 5:14 PM GMT
    metta8 saidWhy Straight Men Have Sex With Each Other


    http://nymag.com/scienceofus/2015/08/why-straight-men-have-sex-with-each-other.html?mid=fb-share-scienceofus


    If you took this seriously of course you would be an idiot, but also you would have to accept that many gay men are not gay but bi-sexual. I'm sure the many gay men out there who get off on this Bull shit would be jumping for joy. They can continue to feel like they don't have self loathing as a reason for being attracted to "straight men".

    Historically many gay men got married to women and had children and it was out of social and cultural obligation. Many self labeled gay men pass off Sex as inconsequential and separate from intimacy and love yet they are openly gay. The evidence is all around us with the rates of monogamy or even monogamish style relationships in the minority these days, proving that men are capable of feeling distinct with where a sexual and emotional boundary is and how to keep them separated.

    This sort of article is just a light hearted exploration of what happens in a minority of heterosexual identifying men experience and if taken at face value potentially more harmful to men in general than helpful
  • wellwell

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    Aug 09, 2015 7:20 PM GMT
    STR8 Men have NO INTEREST in homosexuality! That is the biggest desuetude of this language.
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    Aug 09, 2015 7:22 PM GMT
    wellwell saidSTR8 Men have NO INTEREST in homosexuality! That is the biggest desuetude of this language.


    Exactly. Even if a man never acts on it, the moment a man has a desire for another man, he's no longer straight. Words and definitions mean nothing if we don't adhere to them.
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    Aug 09, 2015 7:36 PM GMT
    wellwell saidSTR8 Men have NO INTEREST in homosexuality! That is the biggest desuetude of this language.


    Wrong word: disuse ≠ misuse
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    Aug 09, 2015 7:38 PM GMT
    Some str8 guys love to suck cock. They seem to need it. They can't get it from a pussy. They get the emotional lovey, dovey crap with their wife, but need the physical aggression from or with a dude.....So, sex is an aggressive maneuver actually and extreme behavior.
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    Aug 09, 2015 7:59 PM GMT
    2Bnaked saidSome str8 guys love to suck cock. They seem to need it. They can't get it from a pussy. They get the emotional lovey, dovey crap with their wife, but need the physical aggression from or with a dude.....So, sex is an aggressive maneuver actually and extreme behavior.


    Speak for yourself buddy sex is not an extreme behaviour for most people and the other shite is not even worth acknowledging. If the idea that str8 men like cock makes you feel like more of a man by virtue of thinking 'I'm not a fag, every guy sucks dick'. No wonder we still cop discrimination. People like you invite it with this kind of attitude
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    Aug 09, 2015 8:08 PM GMT
    I've said it before and I'll say it again, the Kinsey Scale is a useful tool.
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    Aug 09, 2015 8:15 PM GMT
    Sydneyrugbyjock73 said
    2Bnaked saidSome str8 guys love to suck cock. They seem to need it. They can't get it from a pussy. They get the emotional lovey, dovey crap with their wife, but need the physical aggression from or with a dude.....So, sex is an aggressive maneuver actually and extreme behavior.


    Speak for yourself buddy sex is not an extreme behaviour for most people and the other shite is not even worth acknowledging. If the idea that str8 men like cock makes you feel like more of a man by virtue of thinking 'I'm not a fag, every guy sucks dick'. No wonder we still cop discrimination. People like you invite it with this kind of attitude


    Calm down!

    It's not that serious, really. I just knew of a str8 guy that liked to be with a guy for that reason. It had nothing to do with me. I don't play the gay games and all that master stuff anyway. So no offence. I just see it like that because of how it was told to me.
    Straight men are not cock suckers in general I would guess? One of my psychology professors told me that some people like doing risky things even though they are not totally interested in the "lifestyle". Just another opinion.
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    Aug 09, 2015 8:23 PM GMT
    If a guy gets hard thinking of a man then he's not straight icon_cool.gif
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    Aug 09, 2015 8:27 PM GMT
    Ok buddy I'll take you at your word and give you the benefit of the doubt but even if you don't believe in that kind of philosophy their are many who do and I do believe they invite discrimination by living up to every negative stereotype that heterosexuals have of gays. Their message to heterosexuals is don't discriminate we want you to respect my sexuality but i don't have to respect yours.

    Sexuality can change in someways but mostly it's a matter of acting on what they had already thought about. I also notice not much talk of men identified as gay wanting to try being with women. Why would it only work in one direction?? The answer is that it's not a gay mans fantasy
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    Aug 09, 2015 8:27 PM GMT
    David666k saidIf a guy gets hard thinking of a man then he's not straight icon_cool.gif


    Exactly!!

    Shock treatments for ALL here.....LOL

    hahaha
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    Aug 09, 2015 8:48 PM GMT
    David666k saidIf a guy gets hard thinking of a man then he's not straight icon_cool.gif
    Thank you.
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    Aug 09, 2015 9:13 PM GMT
    Animal instincts urges lol, you can easily see these *Straight guys on gay for pay porn sites. Not that I know of.. lol icon_redface.gificon_razz.gificon_lol.gif
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    Aug 09, 2015 11:58 PM GMT
    David666k saidIf a guy gets hard thinking of a man then he's not straight icon_cool.gif


    Thankfully, you've never been to prison for a long stretch. However, if a man is not in prison, then I agree with your statement.
  • BuddhaLing

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    Aug 10, 2015 12:14 AM GMT
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    David666k saidIf a guy gets hard thinking of a man then he's not straight icon_cool.gif


    Thankfully, you've never been to prison for a long stretch. However, if a man is not in prison, then I agree with your statement.



    I have never been to prison . . . and furthermore, I do not want to go there. But, it is a known fact that sex is going on! 'nuf said!
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    Aug 10, 2015 12:21 AM GMT
    Who the fuck came up with that stupid rule, that every man who touched another man's we-we once is gay?

    If it was gay activists, that back-fired splendidly. We're missing out on lots of hetero-flexible dick
    If it was right-wingers, that back-fired as well. All those closeted republicans are a ticking time bomb.

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    Aug 10, 2015 12:40 AM GMT
    David666k saidIf a guy gets hard thinking of a man then he's not straight icon_cool.gif



    So if a guy does not get hard thinking of a women then he's not straight icon_idea.gif

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    Aug 10, 2015 1:35 AM GMT
    well i used to have gf which i fucked but im not interested with girls anymore. so i dont think you can just say who is gay by whether they fuck girls.
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    Aug 10, 2015 1:59 AM GMT
    metta8 saidWhy Straight Men Have Sex With Each Other


    "When heterosexual women make out with one another at a bar or party, it’s generally understood that they’re simply playing around for attention, or exploring the fluid space that is female sexuality. When heterosexual men hook up with each other, on the other hand, it’s seen either as an act born of desperation — think men who are locked up — or an indication that while they may claim to be straight, they really aren’t — think disgraced GOP members of Congress. When straight women hook up with other straight women, no real explanation is required; when straight men hook up with other straight men, it’s a different story."

    WHY? WHO has decided that one is "permissible" but not the other?

    "This divide stems from a common understanding of human sexuality: The female variety of it is more malleable, more inherently open to experimentation and variety, than the male variety."

    Common to WHO? This is a generalized claim with NOTHING in life to support it. Perhaps if humans got out of each other's way, removed the bigoted social/emotional factor of ostracism, there would be complete "fluidity" regardless of gender.

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    Aug 10, 2015 3:27 AM GMT
    BuddhaLing said
    UndercoverMan said
    David666k saidIf a guy gets hard thinking of a man then he's not straight icon_cool.gif


    Thankfully, you've never been to prison for a long stretch. However, if a man is not in prison, then I agree with your statement.



    I have never been to prison . . . and furthermore, I do not want to go there. But, it is a known fact that sex is going on! 'nuf said!


    WTF does that mean? It's a well know fact that straight men engage in homosexual sex while in prison and deprived of intimacy with females and return to hetero sex when released and have access to women.
  • Oceans_of_Flo...

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    Aug 10, 2015 3:51 AM GMT

    If all of the gays leave, who is going to suck your dicks, straight men!? - Kelly Osborn.
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    Aug 10, 2015 4:07 AM GMT
    UndercoverMan said
    David666k saidIf a guy gets hard thinking of a man then he's not straight icon_cool.gif


    Thankfully, you've never been to prison for a long stretch. However, if a man is not in prison, then I agree with your statement.



    That's a myth about straight guys having gay sex in prison. There are millions of straight inmates that are in for life sentences that never touch another man. What keeps this myth going is that there are plenty of closeted men who are in denial who use prison as a convenient excuse to have gay sex for the first time. And guess what? Once they get out of prison, they continue to have gay sex.
  • mar0302

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    Aug 10, 2015 4:47 AM GMT
    My 2p... sexuality is on a pendulum.. 100% straight to 100% gay.. most people are in the middle somewhere.. society pushes people to one side or the other... I'm not sure why we have to label everything... it's not so important in the end as long as what people are doing isn't hypocritical or bigoted..