I am just so depressed about my looks/appearance

  • Matthew56

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    Aug 14, 2015 2:41 PM GMT
    It's pretty much two weeks before Manchester Pride England's biggest pride and I am no way looking like a muscle Mary my pecs are small I have a small waist still. I am black and have ugly black features and feel so shit about my looks.

    I do not know what to do I am so tired of trying to look attractive to other gay men
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    Aug 14, 2015 2:45 PM GMT
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  • Matthew56

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    Aug 14, 2015 2:58 PM GMT
    flguy57 saidUgh!!! Not this broken record AGAIN!!!icon_rolleyes.gif


    Well it's how I feel get depressed about myself at times
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    Aug 14, 2015 3:04 PM GMT
    Matthew56 said
    flguy57 saidUgh!!! Not this broken record AGAIN!!!icon_rolleyes.gif


    Well it's how I feel get depressed about myself at times


    I think most people feel depressed and disappointed with their lives from time to time. But you've started this same topic multiple times and many people have tried to give you advice. It never seems to help you. I hope you can work through your issues and find contentment in your life.
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    Aug 14, 2015 3:48 PM GMT
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    Aug 14, 2015 3:51 PM GMT
    dustin_K_tx saidtumblr_nrjbd3Hzud1t95h1uo1_400.gif


    Funny how that bitch could raise her head when she hit the pavement! icon_lol.gif
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    Aug 14, 2015 3:58 PM GMT
    https://www.psychologytoday.com/basics/resilience
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    Aug 14, 2015 5:10 PM GMT
    Go Google quotes on vanity and comparison with others. You will get a lot of advice that you need to take to heart.

    Matthew56 saidIt's pretty much two weeks before Manchester Pride England's biggest pride and I am no way looking like a muscle Mary my pecs are small I have a small waist still. I am black and have ugly black features and feel so shit about my looks.

    I do not know what to do I am so tired of trying to look attractive to other gay men
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    Aug 14, 2015 5:39 PM GMT
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  • ASHDOD

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    Aug 14, 2015 6:03 PM GMT
    you are beautifull, the only problem is that you cant see it yourself, just stop thinking about it,i said stop! [you are not listening...stop]
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    Aug 14, 2015 10:43 PM GMT
    Seems like your self esteem issues run more than skin deep. And have a persistent history.

    It's one thing to feel bad about your body. It's another to just whine about things you can't change.

    You said you don't look like a muscle mary but that's on you. If that's what you want, there are repeatable steps you can take to get there. If you start now, in 3-5 years, you'll be almost indistinguishable from the way you are now.

    There's nothing you can do about your looks but that applies to everyone. So the only thing you can do is let go of that and move on to things you actually can change.

    Or you can complain about it for a few more years before you start doing something about reaching towards the body you want. The choice is yours. The right choice is glaringly obvious.
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    Aug 14, 2015 10:48 PM GMT
    Or you could be Mrs. Cow...

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    Aug 14, 2015 11:52 PM GMT
    I am too.
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    Aug 15, 2015 12:43 AM GMT
    You need professional help man. We've been saying it for months on here bro.
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    Aug 15, 2015 12:57 AM GMT
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  • Oceans_of_Flo...

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    Aug 15, 2015 1:00 AM GMT
    The road is long, with many a winding road, which leads us to who knows when, who knows where.
    But, I am STRONG, strong enough to carry you. You ain't heavy, you're my brother.

    So ON we go. Your welfare is my concern. I've got no burden to bear.... I'll get us there.

    No, You do not encumber me. You ain't heavy; you're my brother.

    If I'm laden at all; I'm laden with sadness. That each and every heart, is not filled with gladness and love, for one another.

    It's a long, long road from which there is no return.
    While we're on the way to there; why not share?

    And the load, doesn't weigh me down at all!
    You ain't heavy, you're my brother.

  • bobbobbob

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    Aug 15, 2015 1:11 AM GMT



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    You aint kidding flyguy57. You just didn't say it right.

    flguy57 saidUgh!!! Not this broken record AGAIN!!!icon_rolleyes.gif
    flguy57 saidUgh!!! Not this broken record AGAIN!!!icon_rolleyes.gif
    flguy57 saidUgh!!! Not this broken record AGAIN!!!icon_rolleyes.gif
    flguy57 saidUgh!!! Not this broken record AGAIN!!!icon_rolleyes.gif
    flguy57 saidUgh!!! Not this broken record AGAIN!!!icon_rolleyes.gif
    flguy57 saidUgh!!! Not this broken record AGAIN!!!icon_rolleyes.gif
    flguy57 saidUgh!!! Not this broken record AGAIN!!!icon_rolleyes.gif
    flguy57 saidUgh!!! Not this broken record AGAIN!!!icon_rolleyes.gif
    flguy57 saidUgh!!! Not this broken record AGAIN!!!icon_rolleyes.gif
    flguy57 saidUgh!!! Not this broken record AGAIN!!!icon_rolleyes.gif


    I don't even take the drama queen seriously anymore. Go look at her profile and see how many threads like this she's done.
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    Aug 15, 2015 1:11 AM GMT
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    Aug 15, 2015 1:13 AM GMT
    I am just so depressed about my looks/appearance also. It just pains me to know that no matter how hard I try, I'll never be able to find anyone hotter than I am...because I'm white. icon_sad.gif
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    Aug 15, 2015 1:46 AM GMT
    why don't you save up to get some surgery done if you hate your appearance so much.

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  • bobbobbob

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    Aug 15, 2015 2:12 AM GMT
    paulflexes saidI am just so depressed about my looks/appearance also. It just pains me to know that no matter how hard I try, I'll never be able to find anyone hotter than I am...because I'm white. icon_sad.gif


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  • BTBruce

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    Aug 15, 2015 2:30 AM GMT
    Confidence is sexy ... Debbie Downers aren't. If you want to attract others, use your personality (hint: dump the negativity). I'm sure if you took a look at the world around you, you'd realize you're a very fortunate person. Are you physically healthy? Do you have the use of all your limbs and senses? Do you have a job? Do you have food and shelter? Do you live in a free society? etc ... If you answer yes to any of the above, you're more fortunate than many in the world who would gladly exchange their problems for yours.
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    Aug 15, 2015 2:47 AM GMT
    BTBruce saidConfidence is sexy ...


    you must be confident as hell
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  • mybud

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    Aug 15, 2015 2:49 AM GMT
    Bitch..yo broken record is SCRATCHED...bumbumpbumbumpbumbumpbumbump....
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    Aug 15, 2015 3:55 AM GMT
    The only unattractive thing I see is a total lack of confidence, esteem, and self-loathing. icon_rolleyes.gif

    "Ugly black features..."

    Umm speak for yourself... I love EVERY one of my features and would never change them for anything or anybody for that matter. You're alone on that one man.