Is it impossible to trust hot guys?

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    Aug 16, 2015 8:27 PM GMT
    I only ask because, and frankly it is making me very bitter, too many times they come up to me and feed me a bunch of BS. Then the next day it's odd that I am thinking I can text them and that there was potential. !!!! Ugh...
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    Aug 16, 2015 8:55 PM GMT
    Only if you're just as hot. icon_cool.gif
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    Aug 16, 2015 9:26 PM GMT
    Then why on earth were they talking to me in the first place? I'll take that as a no. Blah.
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    Aug 16, 2015 9:34 PM GMT
    ugly guys always use hot guys so hot guys do not trust ugly guys
  • HottJoe

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    Aug 16, 2015 9:39 PM GMT
    It takes at least a week to eight years to really trust a guy...
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    Aug 16, 2015 9:42 PM GMT
    HottJoe saidIt takes at least a week to eight years to really trust a guy...


    to eight years? is that number based on some kind of scientific evidence?
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    Aug 16, 2015 9:48 PM GMT
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    Just stop looking at dudes! You'll be fine.....
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    Aug 16, 2015 9:54 PM GMT
    bonaparts saidugly guys always use hot guys so hot guys do not trust ugly guys


    Haha, that's awesome.
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    Aug 16, 2015 9:57 PM GMT
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    Just stop looking at dudes! You'll be fine.....
    Exactly! Touching dudes is way more fun than looking at them. icon_razz.gif
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    Aug 16, 2015 10:00 PM GMT
    paulflexes said
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    Just stop looking at dudes! You'll be fine.....
    Exactly! Touching dudes is way more fun than looking at them. icon_razz.gif


    You should of seen what got a hold of me today! You would have passed out dead on a rock......lol icon_razz.gif
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    Aug 16, 2015 10:06 PM GMT
    paulflexes said
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    Just stop looking at dudes! You'll be fine.....
    Exactly! Touching dudes is way more fun than looking at them. icon_razz.gif


    Lol. Personally I have a weakness for good looking guys with a good posterior. Hahahah....
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    Aug 16, 2015 10:16 PM GMT
    Kosmo123 said
    paulflexes said
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    Just stop looking at dudes! You'll be fine.....
    Exactly! Touching dudes is way more fun than looking at them. icon_razz.gif


    Lol. Personally I have a weakness for good looking guys with a good posterior. Hahahah....


    I know, you see a hot sexy guy and want to take them for your new husband almost instantaniously!! I get it. It's a desirable trait really. If I could offer this.....Give it time! Get to know the individual and maybe you'll bump into them again along they way.......

    Now, I am serious, I met a guy just an hour ago that still has me speechless.....icon_redface.gif
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    Aug 16, 2015 10:41 PM GMT
    Hahahah, I am so frustrated right now. There aren't very many guys that can make me think that way so, I get extra frustrated when they hit on me and then I reciprocate. I am going to be 12 degrees worth of fucked up by the end of the night tonight's.
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    Aug 16, 2015 10:48 PM GMT
    Kosmo123 saidHahahah, I am so frustrated right now. There aren't very many guys that can make me think that way so, I get extra frustrated when they hit on me and then I reciprocate. I am going to be 12 degrees worth of fucked up by the end of the night tonight's.



    CHILL!!

    Be thankful your getting HIT ON...Look at some of these poor fools around???? Your atleast working your way to the jack-----OFF!!(POT) LOL So that's a good thing, sign. Enjoy the flirtatiousness!! In San Diego, it's one big flex, smile and turn on maze!!! LOL
  • HottJoe

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    Aug 16, 2015 11:13 PM GMT
    bonaparts said
    HottJoe saidIt takes at least a week to eight years to really trust a guy...


    to eight years? is that number based on some kind of scientific evidence?

    Yes. The seven year itch is real.icon_mad.gif
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    Aug 17, 2015 12:58 AM GMT
    Change your type to chubs. I guarantee that they will text you back.
  • SuntoryTime

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    Aug 17, 2015 4:18 AM GMT
    James_Thunder_Early saidChange your type to chubs. I guarantee that they will text you back.


    lol. Don't be so sure about that.
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    Aug 17, 2015 8:41 AM GMT
    Hot straight guy, not that impossible (unless it's an attractive woman then probably).
    A hot gay guy then quite often yes because his only mission really is to just get the hook up and move on.

    Either he has to start getting too old to pull hook ups like he used to or somehow in the midst of hooking up he finds someone he wants to actually get serious with, is generally the time they begin to stop only thinking of themselves.

    Short from that, I'd say there are actually few hot gay guys who aren't so self absorbed. Overtime they may become more of a decent person, partly I feel is because they feel they have to otherwise they'll end up being alone, but overall I wouldn't hold my breath.
    If you aren't considered attractive then they probably wouldn't even notice you, unless they are the catty type and are judging you in their mind lol.

    Of course that's just what I think, I can't provide any statistical information to back up what I just said.

    Anyway sorry it's been a bad experience for you, but as they say, the best is yet to come.
  • NyRuinz

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    Aug 17, 2015 2:15 PM GMT
    robbaker saidVery impossible especially if they're hanging out with them pretty circuit boys .plus the hot guys are all like on drugs and think that they're immortal .you're better off dating a nice frog that will turn into a prince. icon_surprised.gif


    narcissism definitely runs rampant in the gay community. Looks definitely grab my attention, but the personality is what keeps it. You don't have to be a hermit, but if you are popping your ass in the club, and hooking up with randoms on the regular I doubt you will be my type. I have had many so called "hot guys" get pissed at me because I am one of the few who are not in to them.
  • DCEric

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    Aug 17, 2015 2:24 PM GMT
    Fitting song:
  • HndsmKansan

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    Aug 17, 2015 4:30 PM GMT
    I would find your "hot guys" from a better source perhaps.. you didn't say how you meet them, but if it is off Grindr, you have to consider the source.
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    Aug 17, 2015 5:15 PM GMT
    If you are looking for a long-term relationship it is foolish to use looks as your primary criterion.
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    Aug 17, 2015 5:20 PM GMT
    It's not so much a hot guy thing as it is a how you meet thing I've found. If I'm attracted to a guy, before I do any hardcore flirting or talk sex at all, I immediately talk about things we have in common and try to meet for a beer.

    Most guys I've met have said that they could tell I was a pretty down to earth guy that wasn't looking to whore around. If sex is what they are looking for I don't try to shame them at all, I just tell them that the door is open for friendship in the future and tell them to be safe. Every so often I'll get a random text or email from some guy checking up on me months later. A few guys have turned into legit dates. But it's often takes multiple interactions to build a bond.
  • AttisXVI

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    Aug 17, 2015 6:13 PM GMT
    I think I'm pretty trustworthy, but I can't speak for -all- hot guys.
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    Aug 17, 2015 6:16 PM GMT
    You either have terrible taste in men, or you're too easy.. maybe even both.