Black/non white men do you when

  • Matthew56

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    Aug 17, 2015 1:58 PM GMT
    You are messaging/talking to white men on Grindr or offline such as bars/clubs and they ignore you because you are black or non white. Do you feel stinged by it and feel really inferior about being non white
  • NyRuinz

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    Aug 17, 2015 2:19 PM GMT
    Honestly based on your posts, I don't know if you are trolling or dealing with serious self esteem issues. If someone is not in to you I would suggest you move along and focus on someone who is. Instead of worshipping white men, maybe you should open up your dating pool to other types of people.
  • Matthew56

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    Aug 17, 2015 2:23 PM GMT
    NyRuinz saidHonestly based on your posts, I don't know if you are trolling or dealing with serious self esteem issues. If someone is not in to you I would suggest you move along and focus on someone who is. Instead of worshipping white men, maybe you should open up your dating pool to other types of people.


    I am opened to non white men just not the majority of black men
  • 1AlanZSky

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    Aug 17, 2015 3:57 PM GMT
    Ignore this guy
  • NyRuinz

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    Aug 17, 2015 4:06 PM GMT
    1AlanZSky saidIgnore this guy


    I just put him on my ignore list.
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    Aug 17, 2015 4:13 PM GMT
    Myself as well as many other guys have tried to give this dumbass common sense advice in his earlier "please pity me because I'm black" threads. He's never once responded in a way that indicates he gets it in the least. Instead he continues to create more victim and pity-me threads. At this point, he is most likely a troll and even if he's being sincere, he's shown a strong pattern of not being open to advice or change. Let "Hott"Joe counsel him.
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  • zelon1

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    Aug 17, 2015 4:24 PM GMT
    Matthew56 saidYou are messaging/talking to white men on Grindr or offline such as bars/clubs and they ignore you because you are black or non white. Do you feel stinged by it and feel really inferior about being non white


    Nope! I could care less because I only check for other black men. I'm not self-hating and think men of my own race are beautiful.

    I pity you brothers who DESPERATELY chase down white guys only to be continuously discriminated against and smacked w/ the proverbial rejection stick. icon_lol.gif

    Poor dat. These issues I keep reading about on this message board are foreign to me because I look right past white men. I've seen some cute white guys but I would never choose one over another black man, that's for sure.
  • Matthew56

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    Aug 17, 2015 5:13 PM GMT
    zelon1 said
    Matthew56 saidYou are messaging/talking to white men on Grindr or offline such as bars/clubs and they ignore you because you are black or non white. Do you feel stinged by it and feel really inferior about being non white


    Nope! I could care less because I only check for other black men. I'm not self-hating and think men of my own race are beautiful.

    I pity you brothers who DESPERATELY chase down white guys only to be continuously discriminated against and smacked w/ the proverbial rejection stick. icon_lol.gif

    Poor dat. These issues I keep reading about on this message board are foreign to me because I look right past white men. I've seen some cute white guys but I would never choose one over another black man, that's for sure.


    Who said anything about chasing them I don't chase after any men my dignity is much more important than that. I am talking about non white men in general not me personally
  • Zigs_01

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    Aug 17, 2015 5:44 PM GMT
    Why is this specifically about black guys? I'm sure there have been instances whereas black guys don't want to date white guys. I have seen profiles whereas black guys preferred to date within their own ethnic group. An prevalent comment I always see is black guys only get rejected by white guys. However, racism works both ways.
  • zelon1

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    Aug 17, 2015 5:44 PM GMT
    Matthew56 said
    zelon1 said
    Matthew56 saidYou are messaging/talking to white men on Grindr or offline such as bars/clubs and they ignore you because you are black or non white. Do you feel stinged by it and feel really inferior about being non white


    Nope! I could care less because I only check for other black men. I'm not self-hating and think men of my own race are beautiful.

    I pity you brothers who DESPERATELY chase down white guys only to be continuously discriminated against and smacked w/ the proverbial rejection stick. icon_lol.gif

    Poor dat. These issues I keep reading about on this message board are foreign to me because I look right past white men. I've seen some cute white guys but I would never choose one over another black man, that's for sure.


    Who said anything about chasing them I don't chase after any men my dignity is much more important than that. I am talking about non white men in general not me personally


    Well, perhaps you should try to find beauty in YOURSELF and others that look like YOURSELF. If you can't love yourself, how the hell are you gonna love someone else? I've spoken to other races of gay men and they find it a turn off when black men (such as yourself) exclusively date outside their race. But you are the one who is struggling with this issue not me...I don't have problems with other races coming onto me. Whites, asians, latinos all hit me up on jack'd/grindr even though I state in my profile I'm only checking for other black men. Maybe I can send them your way instead since you want them so badly. icon_lol.gif
  • zelon1

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    Aug 17, 2015 5:46 PM GMT
    Zigs_01 saidWhy is this specifically about black guys? I'm sure there have been instances whereas black guys don't want to date white guys. I have seen profiles whereas black guys preferred to date within their own ethnic group.



    Yes, this is true. I am one of those black guys.icon_razz.gif

    So don't let this self-loathing coon (the OP) fool you into thinking all gay black men are constantly seeking out other races when it's quite the contrary.
  • AttisXVI

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    Aug 17, 2015 5:47 PM GMT
    zelon1 said
    Matthew56 saidYou are messaging/talking to white men on Grindr or offline such as bars/clubs and they ignore you because you are black or non white. Do you feel stinged by it and feel really inferior about being non white


    Nope! I could care less because I only check for other black men. I'm not self-hating and think men of my own race are beautiful.

    I pity you brothers who DESPERATELY chase down white guys only to be continuously discriminated against and smacked w/ the proverbial rejection stick. icon_lol.gif

    Poor dat. These issues I keep reading about on this message board are foreign to me because I look right past white men. I've seen some cute white guys but I would never choose one over another black man, that's for sure.


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  • Matthew56

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    Aug 17, 2015 9:24 PM GMT
    zelon1 said
    Matthew56 said
    zelon1 said
    Matthew56 saidYou are messaging/talking to white men on Grindr or offline such as bars/clubs and they ignore you because you are black or non white. Do you feel stinged by it and feel really inferior about being non white


    Nope! I could care less because I only check for other black men. I'm not self-hating and think men of my own race are beautiful.

    I pity you brothers who DESPERATELY chase down white guys only to be continuously discriminated against and smacked w/ the proverbial rejection stick. icon_lol.gif

    Poor dat. These issues I keep reading about on this message board are foreign to me because I look right past white men. I've seen some cute white guys but I would never choose one over another black man, that's for sure.


    Who said anything about chasing them I don't chase after any men my dignity is much more important than that. I am talking about non white men in general not me personally


    Well, perhaps you should try to find beauty in YOURSELF and others that look like YOURSELF. If you can't love yourself, how the hell are you gonna love someone else? I've spoken to other races of gay men and they find it a turn off when black men (such as yourself) exclusively date outside their race. But you are the one who is struggling with this issue not me...I don't have problems with other races coming onto me. Whites, asians, latinos all hit me up on jack'd/grindr even though I state in my profile I'm only checking for other black men. Maybe I can send them your way instead since you want them so badly. icon_lol.gif


    Cannot see the beauty in the majority of black men sorry black/Negroid features are not asthetically pleasing to me sorry just being real
  • 1AlanZSky

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    Aug 17, 2015 9:56 PM GMT
    Ignore this guy. Seriously. There's not an ounce of positivity about him.
  • smegnificient

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    Aug 18, 2015 6:19 AM GMT
    OP is about as black as the people who made the National Black Foot Soldiers Network (look it up)... ie, not actually black, but white nationalists trying to stir up hatred and, in this case, disgust of black people. It's like Inque v2.0

    Everyone knows RJ has plenty of bitter men who pounce on any opportunity to put other groups "in their place"
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    Aug 19, 2015 6:52 AM GMT
    Well, yes and no.

    Like when you're on a "dating" or sex app, and you get rejected? Well I couldn't care less, because it's his loss. To be honest Grindr is an "I want sex, and I want it now" type of thing. It's not dating, or friendships. Also 90% of online dating profiles are catfishes, or people experimenting not knowing what they want, plus they are hiding a deep dark secret, hence why they are online.

    But when you are at gay clubs or network functions or house parties etc. White gays act like you're invisible and you try to mingle with their circuit and they reject you or you can tell the vibe isn't right and they start muttering things under their breath. Now that shit isn't ok. Like our community if that is what you want to call it is so small as is, yet people want to pull that shit. Smh.