Aug 19, 2015 12:52 AM GMT
I've messed around with a guy several times over the past few months. I'm bi, not out, and just exploring. I told him that eventually I would still want to marry a girl and have kids. He just got out of a relationship, wasn't ready for a new one, so he said I was perfect for him. He said he doesn't like guys in the closet, but for play..... He only came inside me once (with protection) as he doesn't always end by cumming. While I was laying there on my belly and him still on top of me, holding hands, he said I love you. I wasn't sure what to say and he repeated it again after a few seconds. During one of our last post-sex cuddling, he asked, "so you want a fwb?". I said that would be ideal, although we've already talked about this at the very beginning. I suck at picking up signals. We haven't seen each other for a month and he finally told me that he's dating a guy right now so can't play, but hiking is cool (which is how we started). It was then when I realized that I have developed feelings for him, and looking back it seemed like he might have done the same at one point (or I'm just overthinking). A quick google search shows that this is rather common, and yes I know I broke all of the fwb rules. I almost want to say that we like each other, I would be willing to out myself. I really want some honest answers from him, but now that he's dating, it's probably not a good time. I don't want to ruin the remaining friendship that we have. Honesty can be a double-edged sword. We did agree to hike again in a few weeks. I know I'm not going to find answers about that here on a forum, but I would like to ask, is it normal to say I love you to your fwb while you're in the moment?