Hiring an escort to lose my virginity?

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    Aug 19, 2015 11:15 PM GMT
    I just turned 25 and I guess I'm technically still a virgin (only received oral sex once). I'm very picky when it comes to meeting guys and I haven't had any luck on dating/hookup apps/websites. I'm pretty picky too and sometimes wonder if I'll ever find anyone I'm interested in who is interested in me in return.

    I have pretty good morals and I'd really hate to stoop down to this level, but I'm almost considering hiring an escort. I don't think I'll actually do it, because I'll probably hate myself after, but I'm wondering what some of your opinions are regarding it?

    Is it something you would ever do? What are your thoughts on people who do it?
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    Aug 19, 2015 11:21 PM GMT
    it's your prerogative, if you find someone who you like and want to do it that way, just go for it
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    Aug 19, 2015 11:25 PM GMT
    Fortunately I never had to pay for sex so I can't tell you about the experience. However I advise you to wear a condom, and if you hire prostitutes regularly consider taking preventive HIV meds as well. One would assume all prostitutes use protection due to their active sex life with different partners, but many prostitutes carry STDs including HIV, so have sex with whoever you want but protect yourself.
  • Import

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    Aug 19, 2015 11:36 PM GMT
    dude, you're not bad looking at all... How are u not able to have sex with someone? My mind is blown. You're young, relatively attractive, live in a relatively tolerant state where u could visit a bar or club and meet someone.... whats up?

    Maybe it's not that you're picky, but rather you're scared? ?
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    Aug 20, 2015 12:01 AM GMT
    I get a kick out of all the neg responses surrounding this, as though it's something bad because he's young and attractive.
    In the military it's pretty much standard protocol to hire an escort within the first year or so of service (ages 18-20). I'm surprised he's waited this long. icon_lol.gif
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    Aug 20, 2015 12:02 AM GMT
    Oh and BTW, my prices are very reasonable as long as travel, lodging, and a new Bentley are provided. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Aug 20, 2015 12:18 AM GMT
    Honey, at this point, you being a virgin is only a symptom, not the issue. You need to shove your "pretty good morals" up your pretty virgin ass and loosen up. Go have a couple of one-night stands or hook-ups to get some experience. Sex is good and sex is fun. Nobody says you have to start by getting fukced.

    Guys that value another guys "virginity" are rarer than uncooked meat
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    Aug 20, 2015 12:22 AM GMT
    bhp91126 saidHoney, at this point, you being a virgin is only a symptom, not the issue. You need to shove your "pretty good morals" up your pretty virgin ass and loosen up. Go have a couple of one-night stands or hook-ups to get some experience. Sex is good and sex is fun. Nobody says you have to start by getting fukced.

    Guys that value another guys "virginity" are rarer than uncooked meat
    Actually, hiring as escort to initiate oneself to sex is akin to hiring a professor to teach oneself about a certain subject. Very few people are as sexually experienced as escorts, and if he chooses wisely he could end up with an escort who'll forgo the sexual encounter and instead mentor him on how to make his first sexual experience momentous and really really fun.
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    Aug 20, 2015 12:34 AM GMT
    Like "Import", I find it very hard to believe that you still a virgin. But then again, its not rare to find cases like yours. Unlike "bhp91126", I don't advise the one night stand thing. With the moral fibre you say you have, it will kill you and send you to a dark place you do not want to go to.

    Though "paulflexes" has a good point with his last entry, I say rather take chances with the next guy you'll be dating.
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    Aug 20, 2015 1:35 AM GMT
    You could have sex with just about anyone you wanted. Why on Earth would you even consider such a thing? Don't you want your first time to be a somewhat meaningful experience?
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    Aug 20, 2015 1:52 AM GMT
    Some people have buyer's remorse after a hook up. If you're already feeling that way now, you're better off having that for free than for paying a fee. As for finding compatible guys.......There's no clear cut solution for that. They may be out there or maybe they wont. I remember you were the guy who had a big crush on your straight best friend. Try not to compare potential guys to him. They probably won't measure up and it'll be counter productive to your search. Good luck.
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    Aug 20, 2015 1:59 AM GMT
    100 bucks will get you a hot fuck for 60 min.....generally!icon_wink.gif

    Never,ever, kiss and tell!!!!!
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    Aug 20, 2015 2:08 AM GMT
    Don't pay for, it is really not worth it. There are plenty of guys out there who will do it for free, you just have to keep looking.
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    Aug 20, 2015 4:44 AM GMT
    Radd saidYou could have sex with just about anyone you wanted. Why on Earth would you even consider such a thing? Don't you want your first time to be a somewhat meaningful experience?


    "Anyone I wanted" sounds a bit extreme, no? Lol.

    It just so happens that most of the guys I'm attracted to don't find me attractive in return. At least I don't think so.
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    Aug 20, 2015 4:55 AM GMT
    really only two reasons to hire an escort:

    1. you're paying to have your favorite porn star.
    2. you got money like that and can afford to pay some obnoxious, stuck-up bitch for what another obnoxious, stuck-up bitch will do for free.

    otherwise it's a waste of time and money. a bunch of free hoes on grindr, and most of them are just as NSA as a pro.
  • SilverRRCloud

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    Aug 20, 2015 5:52 AM GMT
    Hiring an escort is neither here nor there. Not much will change if you do. And not much will change if you don't.

    You are 25. Easy on the eyes, and apparently have no sex life. This is what you want to work on. You want to develop ability to meet, hook up, date, buddy up, or whatever your preference here may be. Because you want to have a life.

    Hiring an escort once or twice would solve the problem, well, once or twice. More likely than not, you cannot go on hiring escorts all life longicon_lol.gif Really, not many people do.

    If you look around, you'll see that the guys ARE having fun. Some are VGL, some are GL, a few are average, and quite a few are, well, below average. And, somehow, guys, date, hook up, buddy up, befriend with benefits, etc. If they all can do it, what's stopping you?

    Whatever that's stopping you has got to go overboard.

    If you fear your lack of experience, hiring an escort may or may not help. Not every escort out there is in his tutor's mood. Unless a guy knows this ahead of time, and agrees to it, he may just want to go over to doing the business at hand, and moving on.

    Be honest to yourself, and identify your problem first...

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    Aug 20, 2015 9:13 AM GMT
    If this is something you really want to do, check out his reviews, meet up at a motel or something like that.

    Be very up front about what you want to do, and understand what he does and doesn't do.

    Be prepared to spend, a lot. Were talking a minimum of a hundred dollars an hour.

    Don't get clingy, and understand what you got yourself into.

    If you can do all of that, then go for it.

    Best of luck.
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    Aug 21, 2015 4:17 AM GMT
    ant811 said
    Radd saidYou could have sex with just about anyone you wanted. Why on Earth would you even consider such a thing? Don't you want your first time to be a somewhat meaningful experience?


    "Anyone I wanted" sounds a bit extreme, no? Lol.

    It just so happens that most of the guys I'm attracted to don't find me attractive in return. At least I don't think so.



    No, I don't think it sounds extreme at all. You're a very attractive guy. BUT.....if you're being too superficial, you will have a very difficult time finding someone regardless of how attractive you might be. Maybe start thinking about the non-physical things that you find attractive in a guy. For example, I'm a sucker for a good hearted guy with a nice manly voice. Yours might be totally different but figure out those things and start hunting for those qualities and not just physical ones.
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    Aug 21, 2015 5:17 PM GMT
    paulflexes said
    bhp91126 saidHoney, at this point, you being a virgin is only a symptom, not the issue. You need to shove your "pretty good morals" up your pretty virgin ass and loosen up. Go have a couple of one-night stands or hook-ups to get some experience. Sex is good and sex is fun. Nobody says you have to start by getting fukced.

    Guys that value another guys "virginity" are rarer than uncooked meat
    Actually, hiring as escort to initiate oneself to sex is akin to hiring a professor to teach oneself about a certain subject. Very few people are as sexually experienced as escorts, and if he chooses wisely he could end up with an escort who'll forgo the sexual encounter and instead mentor him on how to make his first sexual experience momentous and really really fun.


    I've actually heard about that. I'm lucky enough that sexuality came to me innately, but sexuality doesn't manifest as easily for everyone. Some guys have to learn how to be sexual and how to...well...actually have sex. No shame in hiring a professional. Actually I've seen reviews where people communicated why they were hiring the escort ahead of time, and the escort came mentally prepared to simulate romance.

    OP, if you think an escort is what you need, I say go for it. There's a level of trust you can have when the guy is being paid to give you what you want.

    And just to put it out there, I've never had an escort. I thought about it early in high-school when I wasn't out and overflowing with teen angst. But I'm at a point in my life where I feel like I could win guys who look that good.
  • 6packabs

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    Aug 23, 2015 7:07 PM GMT
    Some good wisdom shared with you here. My morals (Mormon) kept me virgin til age 35. You don't need to feel rushed by my standards. But oh, how I would have re-lived 25-35 being sexually active in my prime if only I would have known better. Lol.

    You'll find some good men. Don't rush it. Have a good connection and have it memorable in a good way.
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    Sep 07, 2015 1:15 AM GMT
    So I started talking to a guy on Grindr yesterday who said he's visiting from London. I didn't look at his profile until sometime after our conversation, and it turns out he is a porn star/escort. I'm considering actually doing it, but I'm nervous and not sure how I'd feel about it after.

    The only thing really stopping me is the fact that it would be my first time. Is this how I really want my first time to be? But then again, I think I'm kidding myself if I think everyone's first time is some romantic love fest.
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    Sep 07, 2015 2:13 AM GMT
    IMHO, if you're having second thoughts about it, don't do it.
    Like you said "I'll probably hate myself after.."
    Go with your "gut feeling."

    P.S. You are one handsome man, i'm sure any guy would be lucky to have you. Let your first time be with someone special.
  • mybud

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    Sep 07, 2015 3:42 AM GMT
    You're virginity is a gift, and you want to piss all over it.
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    Sep 07, 2015 4:17 AM GMT
    mybud saidYou're virginity is a gift, and you want to piss all over it.



    That'll cost ya extra.
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    Sep 07, 2015 5:00 AM GMT
    I'm in agreement with most of the other posters, don't do it, your first time most likely would not be amazing like the experience you see in porn films, it would be A. A waste of money, and B. You seem hesitant if you hadn't done it by now, which would eventually lead to regret.

    If someone like myself can bag a few guys to have fun with, I really don't understand why you can't?