Is anal sex a must in dating and relationships?

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    Aug 20, 2015 6:00 AM GMT
    Are there any examples of dating/relationships without it?
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    Aug 20, 2015 6:05 AM GMT
    Nope. Unless at least one of the two guys involved believes it is.icon_biggrin.gif

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    Aug 20, 2015 11:08 AM GMT
    No it's not a must. But it's a normalcy and maybe you can compromise. I don't care for anal myself, but I'm willing to do it, on the flip side my partner he can agree to things he doesn't really find as a turn on.
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    Aug 20, 2015 4:54 PM GMT
    It shouldn't be but sadly for so many it is. I saw this profile on POF from this gay dude. It was so heartfelt about how he was looking for a good man. He never even mentioned sex in the profile. I sent him a message saying I liked his profile and wished him luck. I'm not expecting anything from dating sites. His only response was if I was a top or a bottom. Out of curiosity I told him bottom and he never responded. Now if love means that much too you but you NEED a real dick up the ass, something is wrong in my opinion.
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    Aug 20, 2015 4:59 PM GMT
    Depends on the people involved. I'm addicted to A** so some form of anal activity is necessary for me. BTW, for many anal lovers, "anal" doesn't necessarily mean penetrative penile anal sex. "Anal" may include toys, rimming, fingering, touching, etc.
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    Aug 20, 2015 5:34 PM GMT
    DOMINUS saidDepends on the people involved. I'm addicted to A** so some form of anal activity is necessary for me. BTW, for many anal lovers, "anal" doesn't necessarily mean penetrative penile anal sex. "Anal" may include toys, rimming, fingering, touching, etc.


    This is what I am talking about. You are able to put your sexual life in perspective. There are many bottoms, like the dude I messaged who can not. I'm a bottom and while I would love a top, I'd be ok to marry a dude if toys, rimming, fingering... were all the anal action I got. Then you have bottoms who will complain about loneliness and you turn down anyone who can't fuck them silly.