The ULTIMATE turn-off

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    Aug 22, 2015 6:23 PM GMT
    You almost had me until you used one of the following or a variation:

    'I want some of that..

    • BBC
    • BBD
    • Big Black D**k

    Then everything goes limp for me. icon_sad.gif

    I could even work with 'I really like/ am into black guys'.

    At the very least you didn't bother to ask me my name - you know it is nice to be viewed as a person and not as a sexual object that fits preconceived stereotypes.

    It's my fault though. Whenever I break down and go online the sundry personalities come out. It seems online allows individuals to lose all types of social skills and decorum.

    Stay offline Gary.

    Venting session done.
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    Aug 22, 2015 6:27 PM GMT
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    Aug 22, 2015 7:24 PM GMT
    I feel like the name Gary is a turn-off
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    Aug 22, 2015 7:33 PM GMT
    ssguy69 said...

    It's my fault though. Whenever I break down and go online the sundry personalities come out.

    ...

    Venting session done.


    I've it's the same thing with this site. That is, whenever I see a post from a black guy chances are he's whining about something, race baiting, or usually both.

    The Serenity Prayer

    God grant me the serenity
    To accept the things I cannot change;
    Courage to change the things I can;
    And wisdom to know the difference.

    You can only change yourself. You can't change others, especially those you stumble across on the web.

    Ok, call me a racist. I can handle it.
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    Aug 22, 2015 7:43 PM GMT
    UndercoverMan said
    ssguy69 said...

    It's my fault though. Whenever I break down and go online the sundry personalities come out.

    ...

    Venting session done.


    I found say the same thing about this site. That is, whenever I see a post from a black guy chances are he's whining about something, race baiting, or usually both.

    The Serenity Prayer

    God grant me the serenity
    To accept the things I cannot change;
    Courage to change the things I can;
    And wisdom to know the difference.

    You can only change yourself. You can't change others, especially those you stumble across on the web.

    Ok, call me a racist. I can handle it.

    you racist.
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    Aug 22, 2015 7:49 PM GMT
    UndercoverMan said
    ssguy69 said...

    It's my fault though. Whenever I break down and go online the sundry personalities come out.

    ...

    Venting session done.


    I found say the same thing about this site. That is, whenever I see a post from a black guy chances are he's whining about something, race baiting, or usually both.

    The Serenity Prayer

    God grant me the serenity
    To accept the things I cannot change;
    Courage to change the things I can;
    And wisdom to know the difference.

    You can only change yourself. You can't change others, especially those you stumble across on the web.

    Ok, call me a racist. I can handle it.


    Nah-won't reduce myself to calling names.

    You call it whining, I call it Venting. Apples and Oranges
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    Aug 22, 2015 8:05 PM GMT
    Same rotten fruit salad.

    Why expend the energy venting over something you can't change? Seems counter productive and futile.

    And it's not like black guys don't like perpetuating the stereotype that they're all hung like mules. "We have met the enemy and he is us." - Pogo
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    Aug 22, 2015 8:10 PM GMT
    UndercoverMan saidSame rotten fruit salad.

    Why expend the energy venting over something you can't change? Seems counter productive and futile.

    And it's not like black guys don't like perpetuating the stereotype that they're all hung like mules. "We have met the enemy and he is us." - Pogo


    Venting purges and relieves.

    Can't speak for other black guys and their perpetuating.

    As usual, the dismissive guy who can't relate has a lot of feedback.
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    Aug 22, 2015 8:10 PM GMT
    It's like our black members here are either complaining that no one likes them or everyone want's their "BBC." Which is it?
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    Aug 22, 2015 8:12 PM GMT
    Radd saidIt's like our black members here are either complaining that no one likes them or everyone want's their "BBC." Which is it?


    Both and more. icon_wink.gificon_lol.gif

    The onus more so lies on the ignorant individuals whose approach leaves much to be desired.

    It's my forum and I'll vent if I want to...... .

    Actually I think it's best to leave this posting alone cause I can already see where its headed based on its contributors' responses.

    I'm Audi.
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    Aug 22, 2015 9:30 PM GMT
    Radd saidIt's like our black members here are either complaining that no one likes them or everyone want's their "BBC." Which is it?


    When I see BBC I can't help think British Broadcast Corporation. I guess I'm just a homo cracker that isn't enamored of big black cock.
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    Aug 22, 2015 9:31 PM GMT
    ssguy69 said
    Radd saidIt's like our black members here are either complaining that no one likes them or everyone want's their "BBC." Which is it?


    Both. icon_wink.gificon_lol.gif

    It's my forum and I'll vent if I want to...... .

    Actually I think it's best to leave this posting alone cause I can already see where its headed based on its contributors' responses.

    I'm Audi.


    Probably the best decision you've made today.
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    Aug 22, 2015 11:38 PM GMT
    Death is the ultimate turn-off for me. Every time it happens to me, I go totally limp.
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    Aug 24, 2015 1:53 AM GMT
    paulflexes saidDeath is the ultimate turn-off for me. Every time it happens to me, I go totally limp.


    Until the rigor mortis sets in. ;-)
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    Feb 08, 2016 7:35 AM GMT
    paulflexes saidDeath is the ultimate turn-off for me. Every time it happens to me, I go totally limp.


    I think the reincarnation bit would be a reason to get lively and excited.icon_lol.gif
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    Feb 08, 2016 7:51 AM GMT
    I know how you feel about the being seen as a sexual fetish and nothing more. When it comes to race issues my biggest turn off if the, "I've never been with a black guy before" line. I am not sure how to respond to that. Should i comfort them and tell them its not there fault, lol. In general outside of bad hygiene my biggest turn off is being told how normal, and masculine they are. Bitch I came here for the dick not your masculinity.
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    Feb 08, 2016 7:55 AM GMT
    Don't mind those three guys. They would prefer it if non white people would not bring up any racial issue because they would rather not think about it. Honestly I would rather deal with actual racist than deal with them.
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    Feb 08, 2016 8:30 AM GMT
    I am a dissenter here.

    Frankly, I do not mind being fetishised or objectified at all.icon_biggrin.gif

    If I find a dude to be attractive, I do so for a reason. Most frequent reasons so far have been:

    #1
    He is very easy on MY eyes.

    #2
    His demeanour and attitude are down-to-earth and masculine.

    #3
    He is comfortable and relaxed, and has not been trying to draw any special attention to him by any method that does not require self-discipline and personal commitment. (Translation: lean, gym body is great. Tats and piercings all over are great, too - but here I want to be generous and leave the dude to the others:winkicon_smile.gif

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    I see every reason for this other dude to have his reasons for finding me good/attractive enough for him to hit the hay with me.

    So far, here is some of what I have heard:

    'Dude, I cannot resist tall guys wearing expensive glasses.'

    'I am only into 'big' guys.'

    'I am majorly into tall, white guys with blue eyes.'

    'I figured out you must be rich...'

    'I am into dominant guys...'

    'I love the way you dress/talk/walk/hold your glass...'

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    Does any of this matter per se? Nope.

    You want to hook up with a dude for YOUR reasons, and he may be willing to hook up with you for HIS reasons. If the two of you click, we have a deal. The sun continues to rise in the east. The Pope stays catholic, and the life goes on. icon_wink.gif

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    Gary? Who the hell is Gary? Or Earnest? Or Whatever his name is?

    Is this about marrying someone, and/or planning to spend the rest of your days with him? icon_biggrin.gif

    SC
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    Feb 08, 2016 8:33 AM GMT
    When seeing yourself as a victim insinuates itself into everything you do, then you have capitulated. Loving beautiful dark skin on a man, different from one's own, does not make a man a racist. Does this work both ways? Do you think there is something wrong with black or brown men who are turned on by white or tan or yellow skin? Personally, I enjoy all the varieties humans come in, it's a beautiful rainbow and why not appreciate it.

    I like hairy guys, but I'm not that hairy. Some men of color find my white skin a huge turn on, others don't. Many find one or two shades of skin of all the various colors a turn on. Still others find small dicks and fat bodies a turn on. Men are visual, and yeah we can be shallow. Maybe a big dick, body hair, or skin color gets you in the bedroom, but then your sparkling personality will make him want to keep you around.
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    Feb 11, 2016 5:33 AM GMT
    strongbull saidWhen seeing yourself as a victim insinuates itself into everything you do, then you have capitulated. Loving beautiful dark skin on a man, different from one's own, does not make a man a racist. Does this work both ways? Do you think there is something wrong with black or brown men who are turned on by white or tan or yellow skin? Personally, I enjoy all the varieties humans come in, it's a beautiful rainbow and why not appreciate it.

    I like hairy guys, but I'm not that hairy. Some men of color find my white skin a huge turn on, others don't. Many find one or two shades of skin of all the various colors a turn on. Still others find small dicks and fat bodies a turn on. Men are visual, and yeah we can be shallow. Maybe a big dick, body hair, or skin color gets you in the bedroom, but then your sparkling personality will make him want to keep you around.


    One of the best and well thought out responses to this forum topic.
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    Feb 11, 2016 8:30 PM GMT
    Breaking wind while you are sitting on someone, happened to me twice and totally killed it, he put his clothes on and walked off in disgust, I couldn't stop laughing, mainly out of embarrassment.
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    Feb 11, 2016 8:32 PM GMT
    interestingchap saidBreaking wind while you are sitting on someone, happened to me twice and totally killed it, he put his clothes on and walked off in disgust, I couldn't stop laughing, mainly out of embarrassment.

    I think we have a winner. No wonder you're embarrassed to show your face.icon_eek.gif
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    Feb 11, 2016 8:34 PM GMT
    A penis that's thin like a stick. i didn't have this as a turn off until I ran into one. Also bad hygiene
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    Feb 11, 2016 8:42 PM GMT
    HottJoe said
    interestingchap saidBreaking wind while you are sitting on someone, happened to me twice and totally killed it, he put his clothes on and walked off in disgust, I couldn't stop laughing, mainly out of embarrassment.

    I think we have a winner. No wonder you're embarrassed to show your face.icon_eek.gif


    Absolutely, you aren't missing much LOL, his skin rippled with the vibration hahaha made a hell of a noise, as if once wasn't bad enough we eventually kissed again and then farted again, that was obviously the final straw, he told me to get off him and left pretty quick LOL
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    Feb 11, 2016 8:44 PM GMT
    interestingchap said
    HottJoe said
    interestingchap saidBreaking wind while you are sitting on someone, happened to me twice and totally killed it, he put his clothes on and walked off in disgust, I couldn't stop laughing, mainly out of embarrassment.

    I think we have a winner. No wonder you're embarrassed to show your face.icon_eek.gif


    Absolutely, you aren't missing much LOL, his skin rippled with the vibration hahaha made a hell of a noise, as if once wasn't bad enough we eventually kissed again and then farted again, that was obviously the final straw, he told me to get off him and left pretty quick LOL


    hahahahahahahahahahahahahhahahaaha.

    It never happened to me because there isn't any space for the wind to break. Know what I am saying? But once the act is done, I feel like a hurricane passing though.