Has you're taste in men changed over the years

  • Matthew56

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    Aug 23, 2015 6:20 AM GMT
    So as you get older have you noticed any changes in terms of preferences towards men changing? Are you now becoming attracted to men that you were not in you're younger years
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    Aug 23, 2015 6:26 AM GMT
    Yeah, they've gotten older. And are just as sexy...icon_wink.gif
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    Aug 23, 2015 6:34 AM GMT
    Quite a lot. In terms of aesthetic, I was under the impression I am attracted to only hairy men, guys with facial hair, and certain body type, which isn't the case anymore. I was also under the impression that I am only into bear and similar guys even though most of the guys I met or hooked up were nothing like the bears. Now, I like hairy, smooth and everything in-between.
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    Aug 23, 2015 6:59 AM GMT
    Men ...who needs them
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    Aug 23, 2015 7:07 AM GMT
    physically no, I still go for masculine looking built but not insanely built types. Personality wise yes. I no longer find hyper masculine men attractive. Prefer soft or feminine guys. Not as feminine as me because a bitch better not out giggle me. Feminine enough that I would feel comfortable being soft and vulnerable without being called weak, sensitive...
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    Aug 23, 2015 7:12 AM GMT
    Yes it has changed, at first I didn't even like them (sexually) and now I do icon_exclaim.gif
  • Import

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    Aug 23, 2015 7:16 AM GMT
    Yeah, it's evolved over the years, but there's still that basic foundatiion that you're always attracted to. But it changes. You become more open-minded? What was once considered "old" and gross is now like "oh ok, he still looks good"
  • AMoonHawk

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    Aug 23, 2015 7:17 AM GMT
    I find I am more particular. Sure I always find good looking men attractive and delightful to oggle, just like a beautiful piece of art, but, attraction goes deeper than that. Just because a guy is really good looking, doesn't mean he is worth my time to get to know.
  • Crisistunity

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    Aug 24, 2015 11:52 AM GMT
    I've always had a taste for good spelling and irony.
  • Kalifornicati...

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    Aug 24, 2015 1:41 PM GMT
    I like guys around my age. Maybe 5 years younger but the 40 plus crowd is my definite category. I love men who are masculine but not afraid to embrace their feminine side. I've always like a bit of muscle and dark hair. Not really into blondes. Oh and confident well dressed man who dresses appropriately for his age with a bit of a wild streak is so hot.
  • Nhlakz

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    Aug 24, 2015 3:46 PM GMT
    Yes..must in a similar age gap as me and hv similar interest..yet wen i was younger...i only liked men with a penis and know his way around the bedroom..guess it has to do with personal growth
  • Sam_mas

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    Aug 24, 2015 3:58 PM GMT
    Me too! was always under the impression that as pure bot I should have been all about submissive, jocks, and bulges. never thought Id be into the concept of liking ass. Now I am. once or twice I caught cute guys with their butts tight on their pants. feel naughty at first then suddenly feels like its okay to do kyler moss. icon_cool.gif
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    Aug 24, 2015 4:29 PM GMT
    A number of things have changed in terms of physical tastes - but I'm still drawn to guys with a sharp sense of humor and a somewhat-to-very intellectual side. They should also know their way around a gym or have some regular physical routines.

    Physically I was initially drawn to blue/blonde types, but over time I got into more dark/dark features. Past two years I've had a particular leaning toward Asian and mixed-asian guys. Not exclusively - but mostly. icon_cool.gif

    Not sure why that is or where it comes from, but I'm going with it.
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    Aug 24, 2015 5:01 PM GMT
    I still go for the variety pack.

    Only when I was younger I went after this
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    and now it's more this
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  • HottJoe

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    Aug 24, 2015 5:54 PM GMT
    bon_pan saidYeah, they've gotten older. And are just as sexy...icon_wink.gif

    This.

    Which was a pleasant surprise, since when I was sixteen I was led to believe otherwise.
  • FitBlackCuddl...

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    Aug 24, 2015 6:10 PM GMT
    Matthew56 saidSo as you get older have you noticed any changes in terms of preferences towards men changing? Are you now becoming attracted to men that you were not in you're younger years


    During that era from teens into my early thirties, I gravitated to a spectrum: those of similar age, some who were "preppy" because they had a "neat" appearance and tended to be witty/funny and others (of similar age) who were easygoing and athletically-inclined.

    Now, *ON PAPER*, I seek the company of people over 40, low-maintenance, athletic, as mentioned in my bio. All the more so because I attract A LOT of kids, which I do not like.

    But, when there is face to face contact with strangers during a day, IT IS ALL DIFFERENT. I see/hear the personality, the body-language, all of the nuances that an online photo can't convey. So I know that despite what I like visually, the reality of a "complete package" is likely to be something altogether new.
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    Aug 24, 2015 6:23 PM GMT
    Not really. I still am attracted to any man with body hair anywhere on his body icon_smile.gif
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    Aug 24, 2015 6:41 PM GMT
    Big dicks never go out of style.
  • joeisawesome1

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    Aug 24, 2015 10:21 PM GMT
    i've gotten more pickier over the years icon_razz.gif but I like white men in their 30s/40s who are slim/willowy or athletic built
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    Aug 25, 2015 1:33 AM GMT
    Yeah, I have for sure. I used to be mostly attracted to shy guys and really smart guys. Now I am actually way more attracted to more outgoing guys and care more about their people skills than their intelligence.
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    Aug 25, 2015 2:22 AM GMT
    No, not at all. I just keep the age range appropriate as I age. No more guys under 21. Haha....
  • dreamcock

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    Aug 25, 2015 2:56 AM GMT
    even when i was younger i was attracted to sexy in shape older guys now that im in that same age range i still am.i was never attracted to immature drama driven youngsters. 35 and up has always been my preference so no i suppose im still attracted to the same guys i always was
  • BBBBuilder

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    Aug 25, 2015 4:51 AM GMT
    Maybe ... I'm not sure. Back when I was around 18, pretty much any guy bigger than I was would be a huge turn on for me. These days, I still find big, strong men incredibly attractive but if they don't pack brains with all that brawn then my interest drifts away just as quick as it came.

    I've always been attracted to men older than me, specially if they were built like an ox. I still am, but generally any guy that keeps himself fit pings on my radar whether he's around 18s or 70s.
  • HottJoe

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    Aug 25, 2015 4:56 AM GMT
    BBBBuilder saidMaybe ... I'm not sure. Back when I was around 18, pretty much any guy bigger than I was would be a huge turn on for me. These days, I still find big, strong men incredibly attractive but if they don't pack brains with all that brawn then my interest drifts away just as quick as it came.

    I've always been attracted to men older than me, specially if they were built like an ox. I still am, but generally any guy that keeps himself fit pings on my radar whether he's around 18s or 70s.

    Oh so you won't date anyone over 70?

    What a prick!icon_rolleyes.gif
  • ATLANTIS7

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    Aug 25, 2015 5:49 AM GMT
    No still like a pretty face...