Why can't gay men be more like Mormon men?

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    Aug 26, 2015 1:24 PM GMT
    Why can't gay men be more like Mormon men?

    Mormon men do not have sex before they are married and they do not even watch porn. I have been talking to some and they even come up with cool ways to ask girls out on date. Some of them make a big deal about it.

    When I get hit on, it is alway for sex: on websites or at clubs in person. In France one guy try to pull me out on my pants on the dance floor. Yeah that happened. In Rome one really hot guy got mad at me for not wanting to have sex with him in a dark room. Yeah I would not even do that for Zac Efron. In Houston I get a lot of weird black guys just following me and trying to get me in their cars.

    Guys email me nake pictures and say come give me that black dick And when I am like, let go to the movies or a date they are like I am busy or just stop talking to me.

    I have had like only 3 real dates in Houston and two of the guys turned out to be really weird.

    Why can't I meet a guy like Luke Nelson?
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    Why can't gay men be like him ? He saved a kid's life and he is just so bad ass. I watched a show about him. He is how all men should be like.

    Where is the romance in the gay world?
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    Aug 26, 2015 2:03 PM GMT
    btb900 saidWhy can't gay men be more like Mormon men?

    Mormon men do not have sex before they are married and they do not even watch porn.
    I used to do porn with a Mormon guy.
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    Aug 26, 2015 2:16 PM GMT
    paulflexes said
    btb900 saidWhy can't gay men be more like Mormon men?

    Mormon men do not have sex before they are married and they do not even watch porn.
    I used to do porn with a Mormon guy.


    He was not active... Like I know a lot of catholic that was baptized as kids but that never go to a catholic like my cousins .

    But I should have said why can't gay guys be more like actives Mormon men.


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    Aug 26, 2015 4:12 PM GMT
    I haven't been on this website in like a month and now I know why...this post doesn't even make sense. If you want to find a Mormon dude go to some LGBT Mormon dating website or something. You're probably not gonna find one because a lot of Mormons are homophobic but wtvr icon_smile.gif

    And um there are Gay and Bi men that do wait until they're married to have sex. Maybe you just only attract a certain type of people. I don't know.

    This post is so stupid omg this forum is so stupid I remember why I stopped coming on here now
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    Aug 26, 2015 4:30 PM GMT
    NYC_BOI saidI haven't been on this website in like a month and now I know why...this post doesn't even make sense. If you want to find a Mormon dude go to some LGBT Mormon dating website or something. You're probably not gonna find one because a lot of Mormons are homophobic but wtvr icon_smile.gif

    And um there are Gay and Bi men that do wait until they're married to have sex. Maybe you just only attract a certain type of people. I don't know.

    This post is so stupid omg this forum is so stupid I remember why I stopped coming on here now



    The OP never said he wanted a Mormon guy. He was basically saying he likes how they behave and present themselves. He wants a more wholesome guy.

    To the OP: I was having the same problem as you until I realized the problem was actually with me. Once I set clear boundaries I attracted a different type of guy entirely. For example, my Scruff profile is very clear I am interested in DATES.....not hookups. It's also clear that if you send me butt-hole pics and the like you're going to get blocked. And it also sounds like you're going to the wrong places too. What are you doing in a dark back room of a bar to begin with?
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    Aug 26, 2015 4:52 PM GMT
    Radd said
    NYC_BOI saidI haven't been on this website in like a month and now I know why...this post doesn't even make sense. If you want to find a Mormon dude go to some LGBT Mormon dating website or something. You're probably not gonna find one because a lot of Mormons are homophobic but wtvr icon_smile.gif

    And um there are Gay and Bi men that do wait until they're married to have sex. Maybe you just only attract a certain type of people. I don't know.

    This post is so stupid omg this forum is so stupid I remember why I stopped coming on here now



    The OP never said he wanted a Mormon guy. He was basically saying he likes how they behave and present themselves. He wants a more wholesome guy.

    To the OP: I was having the same problem as you until I realized the problem was actually with me. Once I set clear boundaries I attracted a different type of guy entirely. For example, my Scruff profile is very clear I am interested in DATES.....not hookups. It's also clear that if you send me butt-hole pics and the like you're going to get blocked. And it also sounds like you're going to the wrong places too. What are you doing in a dark back room of a bar to begin with?



    it was my 1st time in Rome and I was just checking out a gay club. I had no idea that there were a dark room just in a club like that . It was a normal gay club that just had a dark room. In Houston it is not like that. So I just did not know.
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    Aug 26, 2015 4:54 PM GMT
    pellaz what is with that ? Not cool man, is there a way to blook him from this theard?
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    Aug 26, 2015 5:00 PM GMT
    NYC_BOI saidI haven't been on this website in like a month and now I know why...this post doesn't even make sense. If you want to find a Mormon dude go to some LGBT Mormon dating website or something. You're probably not gonna find one because a lot of Mormons are homophobic but wtvr icon_smile.gif

    And um there are Gay and Bi men that do wait until they're married to have sex. Maybe you just only attract a certain type of people. I don't know.

    This post is so stupid omg this forum is so stupid I remember why I stopped coming on here now


    I am not looking for a Mormon, unless Luke Nelson want to leave his wife for me...lol
    But I do want a nice guy that likes to go on dates and not just want to have sex.
    I am in the south, so many of straight friends and coeworkers are happily married ... And none of them have " open marriages" and I can't even get a date ... Only sex offers...
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    Aug 26, 2015 5:00 PM GMT
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    paulflexes said
    btb900 saidWhy can't gay men be more like Mormon men?

    Mormon men do not have sex before they are married and they do not even watch porn.
    I used to do porn with a Mormon guy.


    He was not active... Like I know a lot of catholic that was baptized as kids but that never go to a catholic like my cousins .

    But I should have said why can't gay guys be more like actives Mormon men.


    Actually yes he was, every Sunday. That's why we did porn on Fridays and Saturdays...so he could go get forgiveness on Sunday. icon_lol.gif
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    Aug 26, 2015 5:01 PM GMT
    btb900 said

    Where is the romance in the gay world?


    There is romance out there in the world for gay men. I feel you have to be built to be able to have a romantic love life. Because if all you're looking for is a hot piece of meat to love then chances are, you'll never find it.

  • HottJoe

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    Aug 26, 2015 5:15 PM GMT
    Closeted gay men are often a lot like Mormon men. Therein lies the problem.
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    Aug 26, 2015 5:36 PM GMT
    paulflexes said
    btb900 said
    paulflexes said
    btb900 saidWhy can't gay men be more like Mormon men?

    Mormon men do not have sex before they are married and they do not even watch porn.
    I used to do porn with a Mormon guy.


    He was not active... Like I know a lot of catholic that was baptized as kids but that never go to a catholic like my cousins .

    But I should have said why can't gay guys be more like actives Mormon men.


    Actually yes he was, every Sunday. That's why we did porn on Fridays and Saturdays...so he could go get forgiveness on Sunday. icon_lol.gif


    There is no way that guy is active.
  • MarvelBoy23

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    Aug 26, 2015 7:51 PM GMT
    btb900 said In Rome one really hot guy got mad at me for not wanting to have sex with him in a dark room. Yeah I would not even do that for Zac Efron.




    I'd just like to note, on the off chance that Zac reads this icon_rolleyes.gificon_redface.gificon_lol.gif that he can do WHATEVER he wants to me, in any room any where for all eternity....


    But only Zac hah.


    I hear you on the more romance. I have similar experiences. Then I think of myself when I was younger, and how I was, and realize, they just aren't in the right place, and I am. No big deal, the wonderful thing about living our lives, is we get to live it how we want. RADD is right tho, set those clear boundaries.
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    Aug 26, 2015 7:58 PM GMT
    who the fuck are you who will tell how the gay men should be?
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    Aug 26, 2015 8:39 PM GMT
    bonaparts saidwho the fuck are you who will tell how the gay men should be?

    I gay man that shows his face that is who.
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    Aug 26, 2015 8:39 PM GMT
    btb900 saidpellaz what is with that ? Not cool man, is there a way to blook him from this theard?

    He's a closet size queen jonesing for bbc.   icon_twisted.gif
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    Aug 26, 2015 10:03 PM GMT
    MarvelBoy23 saidRADD is right tho, set those clear boundaries.


    I do and have in my profile here. And MAN OH MAN did I get hammered for it. icon_exclaim.gif
  • gymnerd

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    Aug 26, 2015 10:09 PM GMT
    The Book of Mormon equates blackness with sin and white skin with virtue, Mormon leaders used to practice polygamy, and the Mormon Church currently opposes gay rights (marriage).

    Are you SURE you want gay men to be more like that...?

    I think you might be confusing one Mormon you admire with the group as a whole.
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    Aug 26, 2015 10:55 PM GMT
    gymnerd saidThe Book of Mormon equates blackness with sin and white skin with virtue, Mormon leaders used to practice polygamy, and the Mormon Church currently opposes gay rights (marriage).

    Are you SURE you want gay men to be more like that...?

    I think you might be confusing one Mormon you admire with the group as a whole.


    You are not viewing those things right:
    1) the Book of Mormon does not equate blackness with sin. Also if I remember my history correctly the catholic did / still does and I know a lot of black catholic.

    2)That is true but more people in the bible did the same thing, so I really do not see a different.

    3) Mormons on are fighting for what they believe in, you might not agree with it but it is what they believe. I feel gay marriage should be legal but that what I believe ...No one should put me down for what I believe and you should not try to pull Mormons down for what they believe.

    There are a lot of in the closet gay men but you do not hear about Mormon men hiding what they are. Mormon elders get physically attacked a lot.

    I wish I could find a gay guy that wanted more than just sex. I wish I could find someone that would came up with a cool way to ask me out on a date. I wish I could find some one that was passionate enough to want to go to another country and fight for gay right, I wish I could find someone would stop a grow man from beating his son up with a bike lock. I also wish I could date a guy and never have to worry about if he has HIV Or kids . Believe it on not I have been hit on by a few men with kids...
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    Aug 26, 2015 11:58 PM GMT
    If only you just labeled the thread "why can't gay men be more like mormom men, in regards to not being so hyper focused on sex", this thread may have turned out differently. Unfortunately men are just conditioned to express themselves mainly through sex...yeah, it's pretty annoying...w/e
  • HottJoe

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    Aug 27, 2015 12:43 AM GMT
    I often wonder why more Mormon men can't be gay.icon_razz.gif
  • LJay

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    Aug 27, 2015 12:52 AM GMT
    Joe, they probably have a quota system.

    OP, you need to hang out at bicycle shops.
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    Aug 27, 2015 1:06 AM GMT
    HottJoe saidCloseted gay men are often a lot like Mormon men. Therein lies the problem.
    +1
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    Aug 27, 2015 3:38 AM GMT
    paulflexes said
    HottJoe saidCloseted gay men are often a lot like Mormon men. Therein lies the problem.
    +1


    What does that even mean?
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    Aug 27, 2015 3:45 AM GMT
    https://www.mormonchannel.org/watch/series/two-brothers-two-1/two-brothers-two-teaching-the-gospel-in-cambodia


    how can you watch this and not want to marry this guy? Or want a guy like him?