Whats the real jock etiquette when someone hot list you?

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    Jan 30, 2009 6:35 PM GMT
    Can already tell some of the answers are going to be unique, (talking about you IilTanker and Zimster)
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    Jan 30, 2009 6:45 PM GMT

    Hi Stephen,
    You know I love you and everythin' but if you don't drop the extra "i" from my handle, you may never live to see the remaining posts of your new thread. *lolS*
    Anyway, my first, almost knee-jerk reaction would be "WHYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY?!?". You can ask all those who hotlisted me since I rejoined: about 3 members.
    It would be gracious to drop them a line. And it doesn't have to be "thank you"... hahahahahahah!!!!
    Come rain or shine,
    ZiMsTeR xx
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    Jan 30, 2009 6:53 PM GMT
    I usually don't say anything in return, because most of the times people think I wanna hook up with them.
    Hot listing, however, is one thing, but I hate it when someone who doesn't know me, adds me do their buddy list or unlocks their private photos for me. Is that like a "Hey, I think you're fuc*able, but my linguistic abilities are poor, so I'll just show you my dick" ?
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    Jan 30, 2009 7:41 PM GMT
    When someone Hot Lists you, just reply with a simple "thank you". It's that easy.

    Some guys expect you to Hot List them back. But that's up to you.
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    Jan 30, 2009 8:51 PM GMT
    well generally, if there like... hot, ya know... I like... so totally jump up and down whiles wetting ma self... Den, ya know, if they have survived dat far, I'll like, ya know, open ma privates and give'em a peak, den after I hear nuffin back from'em I start worrying about there life... I fink I've killed a few jockers icon_sad.gif

    But its alll kewls, there are line tons more!!!
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    Jan 30, 2009 8:52 PM GMT
    actually I don't do anything unless there hot and then I just wanna touch'em inappropriately...

    OMG did I just say that? I at least say holla baby, maybe, sometimes, but not always..
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    Jan 30, 2009 8:56 PM GMT
    I dont know, sometimes it might be weird, usually when a guy hotlists you he also sends a hello message, that's the way it should be well unless you've had some conversation on the forum already. Usually I hotlist or buddylist guys from the forum cause i get to know the way they think and we've had some sort of interaction. But it's all up to you if you answer or not, normally if a guy hotlist you and dont say anything is cause he knows it might be really difficult to get to know you in person, cause you live too far or cause youre listed in a relationship.
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    Jan 30, 2009 9:02 PM GMT
    If the guy who hot lists me looks like my type I'll write him back and say thanks and I'll try to start a conversation. If the conversation continues from there then I'll either buddy or hot list him back. If he seems like he's just a perv then I just leave it at thank you.
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    Jan 30, 2009 9:07 PM GMT
    in my profile, you will find this line:

    '...if i've hot listed you, it's because i somehow find you inspirational.'

    no need to over-think the whole thing.
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    Jan 30, 2009 9:08 PM GMT
    I'm shy and I hardly ever use the hotlist anymore. It seems that my list has dwindled from it's peak due to the (hidden/deleted) attrition of members.

    That being said, if I hotlist someone, or they hotlist me, and no other exchange of a message occurs, then I leave it at that. I think of hotlisting as a pseudo-anonymous compliment. If it were a more sincere or deeply felt compliment, I'd do it via an email/message. That seems the way of common courtesy to me. It's not a rule I expect anyone else to follow, merely my own.
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    Jan 30, 2009 9:12 PM GMT
    LalaPaulooza said the following,
    '...if i've hot listed you, it's because i somehow find you inspirational.'

    no need to over-think the whole thing.[/quote]

    Wish I would of put that down in my profile though.

    I hot list for the same reason, not because I want to hook up. Reply if you want to, That is completely up to you.
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    Jan 30, 2009 9:15 PM GMT
    let me see..hmmmm this is a mind bender...oh I got it! Thanks!
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    Jan 30, 2009 9:19 PM GMT
    Just like someone pays you compliment in person, you say Thank you!
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    Jan 30, 2009 9:19 PM GMT
    i always send a thank you.
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    Jan 30, 2009 9:19 PM GMT
    I say thanks and sometimes try to start up a conversation to get to know them better.
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    Jan 30, 2009 9:24 PM GMT
    fulldelight saidI usually don't say anything in return, because most of the times people think I wanna hook up with them.
    Hot listing, however, is one thing, but I hate it when someone who doesn't know me, adds me do their buddy list or unlocks their private photos for me. Is that like a "Hey, I think you're fuc*able, but my linguistic abilities are poor, so I'll just show you my dick" ?


    I always respond with a "thank you" and or a "hello". It does not mean that I want to "hook up".
    Especially if some unlocks their privates photos. It is a compliment not an insult. You young kids need to lean some manners





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    Jan 30, 2009 9:29 PM GMT
    i dont do anything except view their page. if they are not in texas i immediatly click out of their profile back to the main page. nothing in common. i dont wanna talk to you. i think its stupid when people im you on here...your cute man wish i lived near you

    OK SO MOVE HERE what do you want me to say. its like howie mandel holding the case of a million in your face and saying do you want it do you want it....AWE sorry its not in the cards today.

    its retarded. but then again thats just me.
  • DCEric

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    Jan 30, 2009 10:07 PM GMT
    If they are younger than me, I decide they are little brats and do not email.
    If they are older than me, I decide they are perverts.
    If they are fatter than me, then I decide that they worship the ground I walk on.
    If they are in better shape than me I decide that they must be laughing at me.

    /now I am going have to have surgery to remove my tongue from the location it is firmly planted in my check.

    Seriously? I hot list them back if I think they are hot. Then move on. Sometimes I send an email if I notice something in the TEXT of their profile that is interesting.
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    Jan 30, 2009 10:16 PM GMT
    I NORMALLY email to say thanks and ask if they have had their optician´s a`ppointment in the last 2 years (when you get the message the night before you are due to fly somewhere ELSE and you still have to pack and print the boarding pass or whatever then thanks sometimes gets relegated to do later. Which means don´t do.

    One guy hotlisted me for the words in my profile which was rather good. It´s a compliment. Breath, in, out, in , out. Just be normal in how you respond.

    Unless it´s charlitos, in which case drool.
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    Jan 30, 2009 10:21 PM GMT
    krush said
    fulldelight saidYou young kids need to lean some manners

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    Jan 30, 2009 10:39 PM GMT
    I always think if someone is going to take the time to read my profile, and compliment me, then the least i can do is reply, thanking them and say something to them to let them know i read their profile..Even if i do not get a chance to respond right away, I will take the time at some point.. Most people like compliments and flattery.. I want to treat people the same as I would want to be treatedin return. There is always a chance you have something in common with another and not even know it.. There are crazies out there, but They get dealt with on a nut by nut basis.. I do understand both sides though, Most of the time, I just hope they are cute..icon_lol.gif
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    Jan 30, 2009 10:49 PM GMT
    Do what you like...I always say thanks!
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    Jan 30, 2009 10:57 PM GMT

    Miss. Manners addressed this very issue in her column two weeks ago. Apparently, the polite response is to reply with a brief thank you note and a courtesy "cock-shot" photo. I've hotlisted you Stephen415, and now that we've clarified the etiquette, I await your photo. icon_wink.gif

    Just kidding. I always appreciate a nice note back. I got one the other day. The guy I hotlisted had read over my profile and made some very nice remarks. It really made my night. I have decided to make an effort follow his lead. Just something simple, like "Thank you for adding me to your hot list Kinky&Fabulous1941. I really enjoyed the photos you unlocked for me. You seem very skilled with a bullwhip, and the man in the chains looked like he was having a good time. Clearly you are an excellent host." etc.
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    Jan 30, 2009 11:09 PM GMT
    UT-- you are silly... crackin me up...
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    Jan 30, 2009 11:13 PM GMT
    I always send a "thank you."

    I think about it like getting a compliment on my clothes at work. You just smile and say thank you... nothing else seems to be required. If they deserve a compliment in return I will tell them so.

    Sometimes it turns into conversation and sometimes it doesn't.