How personal are you on RJ?

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    Aug 27, 2015 2:50 AM GMT
    From my time here I notice that some posters are pretty open about their life.(dating,sex,daily issues, etc) Some people are a bit more distant and keeps things impersonal. For the people who are more personal, Why? What do you gain? and have you found it worthwhile? For those a bit more distant, Same questions lol

    As for me, I think it's pretty clear where I fall on that spectrum so I won't bore you all with my answer. Disuss lol.
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    Aug 27, 2015 2:52 AM GMT
    I'm not personal at all. Nobody on RJ knows me. I'd never meet an RJer in real life cause they could be a cereal killer, and that's exactly what made me fat a long time ago!
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    Aug 27, 2015 3:50 AM GMT
    I am open as long as it wont compromise my life. I can tell major events and info without giving much details.

    I tend to ignore people who are completly hermetic, that wont say where they live or what they do. You can say that without discosing personal data.
  • HottJoe

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    Aug 27, 2015 4:07 AM GMT
    I've probably been an open book over the years.
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    Aug 27, 2015 4:10 AM GMT
    HottJoe saidI've probably been an open book over the years.
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    Aug 27, 2015 4:27 AM GMT
    HottJoe saidI've probably been an open book over the years.

    Im after you Joe...
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    Aug 27, 2015 4:40 AM GMT
    paulflexes saidI'm not personal at all. Nobody on RJ knows me. I'd never meet an RJer in real life cause they could be a cereal killer, and that's exactly what made me fat a long time ago!

    Wait a serial killer from RJ made you a long time ago?
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    Aug 27, 2015 4:44 AM GMT
    I don't get personal, because i really know no one on here. ( well one, and he knows all about my life). While there are some great guys on here, and some i chat with from time to time, I don't divulge anything really personal.. hell, not even with real time people i know well.. icon_lol.gif
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    Aug 27, 2015 4:46 AM GMT
    MrFuscle said
    paulflexes saidI'm not personal at all. Nobody on RJ knows me. I'd never meet an RJer in real life cause they could be a cereal killer, and that's exactly what made me fat a long time ago!

    Wait a serial killer from RJ made you a long time ago?
    You misspelled cereal.
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    Aug 27, 2015 4:47 AM GMT
    paulflexes saidI'm not personal at all. Nobody on RJ knows me. I'd never meet an RJer in real life cause they could be a cereal killer, and that's exactly what made me fat a long time ago!

    Well, I've been known to kill a bowl of cereal, leaving no evidence behind.

    And of course when I meet RJers I'm in the form of a hologram projection, so I guess that's not real life.
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    Aug 27, 2015 4:48 AM GMT
    I'm very open because that's how I live my real life. Everyone in my life knows who I am so I don't really see the point of secrets online.
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    Aug 27, 2015 4:50 AM GMT
    Art_Deco said
    paulflexes saidI'm not personal at all. Nobody on RJ knows me. I'd never meet an RJer in real life cause they could be a cereal killer, and that's exactly what made me fat a long time ago!

    Well, I've been known to kill a bowl of cereal, leaving no evidence behind.
    OMG you're a cereal killer!!!!1!!11!!!!!!11!!!!!!
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    Aug 27, 2015 5:12 AM GMT
    Yes Yes I am very open icon_lol.gif
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    Aug 27, 2015 5:19 AM GMT
    bonaparts saidYes Yes I am very open icon_lol.gif



    No one asked about your asshole. icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Aug 27, 2015 5:21 AM GMT
    Radd said
    bonaparts saidYes Yes I am very open icon_lol.gif



    No one asked about your asshole. icon_rolleyes.gif


    stop thinking about my asshole icon_rolleyes.gif
    it's creepy
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    Aug 27, 2015 6:24 AM GMT
    bonaparts said... I often do things without telling anyone what I do.
    Nobody knew what I was actually up to, but I definitely acted a little different.

    Then one day, as I was gathering up my books to go to class, my mom asked "Paul, what are you doing and where are you going?"

    My reply: "It's time for class. I've been in college for a month now. You just now noticed?"
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    Aug 27, 2015 11:00 AM GMT
    MuchMoreThanMuscle saidWhy hide? Regardless of whatever medium I use to communicate with others I conduct myself the same way I do in person as I do online. I'll show you respect but the moment you shit all over me I will gladly return the favor.

    Some people here like to hide behind images of flowers, birds or cartoons or cut off their face in their pics and yet, not surprisingly, those posters tend to be the most disapproving, disparaging members of the site. We've all seen and read the lame excuses as to their claims about requiring anonymity but they're not fooling anyone.


    My OP isn't about whether you hide. It's more about how open you are on the forum.

    I'm more of a distant person in general. That's just how i've been since I was younger. I'm very introverted so if I do choose to interact with someone, i'm pretty picky based on the vibe I get from them.
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    Aug 27, 2015 6:54 PM GMT
    paulflexes saidI'm not personal at all. Nobody on RJ knows me. I'd never meet an RJer in real life cause they could be a cereal killer, and that's exactly what made me fat a long time ago!

    Huh? We've met but you didn't bring any cereal. icon_neutral.gif
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    Aug 27, 2015 7:37 PM GMT
    bonaparts said
    Radd said
    bonaparts saidYes Yes I am very open icon_lol.gif



    No one asked about your asshole. icon_rolleyes.gif


    stop thinking about my asshole icon_rolleyes.gif
    it's creepy



    I know it's creepy but maybe you can get that anal plastic surgery you've been wanting. It should be slightly less creepy then.
  • Destinharbor

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    Aug 27, 2015 9:03 PM GMT
    I see no reason to not be open about my life. Though some here will attack if they feel my life or my thoughts threaten them. But some people are just angry at the world. While there are some things about my life I would change if I could revisit the past with the knowledge I now have, I'm pretty happy with the way things have turned out so I don't mind offering up the backstory to an opinion. I think it gives others a perspective that might be useful. I know I've gained some insight on some issues by listening to opinions of people coming from backgrounds that are quite different from anything I've experienced.
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    Aug 27, 2015 9:24 PM GMT
    xrichx said
    paulflexes saidI'm not personal at all. Nobody on RJ knows me. I'd never meet an RJer in real life cause they could be a cereal killer, and that's exactly what made me fat a long time ago!

    Huh? We've met but you didn't bring any cereal. icon_neutral.gif
    The potential killer was already in our presence, so I didn't wanna push it over the top. icon_lol.gif

  • Aug 27, 2015 9:44 PM GMT
    My mom always told me that honesty is the best policy.
    I'm willing to share as much as I need to for people to understand me and why I am the way I am.