Popper and bottoming.

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    Aug 27, 2015 7:45 PM GMT
    Okay I was about to have some hot sex. I was on bottom and he was pushing in and he put some poppers in my face and i breathed in as we began to do it. But the poppers made my heart race and i was was finished before it began. I was embarrassed and mad.

    Does anyone know of something that will help me relax. So I can bottom but not make my heart jump out my chest.
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    Aug 27, 2015 11:18 PM GMT
    There are guides to bottoming you can reference online to help you out. You'll probably have to search a little more to locate ones that go beyond preparation and into performance.

    Since you have an adverse reaction to poppers (amyl nitrites), you have to learn to rely on yourself for relaxation. Take some time to get in touch with your body and learn how to consciously relax your anus and breathe. You can use your fingers, but a modestly sized dildo can also help, as will a romantic or regular casual partner.

    However you go about learning, you'll get better with practice.
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    Aug 28, 2015 3:06 AM GMT
    I was wondering if there was something else that i could use to help me relax. herbal supplement or something.

    I have bottomed before. But, as I have gotten older it is not as easy as it used to be.
  • ThatSwimmerGu...

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    Aug 28, 2015 3:10 AM GMT
    Poppers are awful for your body. Do not use them.
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    Aug 28, 2015 12:04 PM GMT
    ThatSwimmerGuy93 saidPoppers are awful for your body. Do not use them.


    do you bottom, Swimmer? how do you relax?
  • ThatSwimmerGu...

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    Aug 29, 2015 5:01 AM GMT
    krush said
    ThatSwimmerGuy93 saidPoppers are awful for your body. Do not use them.


    do you bottom, Swimmer? how do you relax?
    You relax by relaxing and taking time.
  • AMoonHawk

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    Aug 29, 2015 5:30 AM GMT
    maybe by a dildo and practice relaxing with it
  • koornang

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    Oct 26, 2015 3:00 AM GMT
    Start with your finger then work up in size...take your time! Use lots of lube and enjoy the sensations!