1.Keep in mind grindr is a "I want sex and I want it now" app. Anyone who tells you otherwise, don't take them seriously. It is not a dating app, or a friendship app. It's mainly used by married straight guys wanting dick after their shift is over, or for guys to experiment and maybe if they had a bad day or something, they go on grindr for a quick fuck.
I'm not saying that grindr can't be used to find love or relationships, but that's not it's core purpose.
2.With number 1 in mind, guys are very upfront7 and direct with what they want to achieve on grindr. Because it is mainly a hook up app, guys don't want to waste their time with someone who they are not attracted to or want to deal with.
Unlike relationships and friendships to where you can actually be more open minded and learn more about the person as time goes on, with quick flings and hookups, there isn't time for that. Guys want what they want on grindr, and they are very thorough about it. So that's where the No asians, no blacks, no guys with blank face pics quotes come from.
3.No of course there is nothing wrong with being black. I'm black myself. Don't use grindr as emphasis on how the gay culture works. Even it was, be a maverick and step outside that. Prove the assholes wrong and don't give up.
4.It's not just the south, it's all over the globe. East and west coast united states. Canada, uk, australia. etc. This is a big issue on grindr.
5.Consider what I said previously. Don't use grindr as an example as to how the gay community works. Don't give up on yourself. Love and relationships work best when they come naturally. Take care.