Jan 30, 2009 9:17 PM GMT
I just noticed a pattern of behavior with me lately. No matter how much I am drawn to someone I find sexually attractive, I just end up befriending that person... this is the case offline and well, online. For fear that jumping on the romantic wagon may be too risky.
This way, by being friends, they just become their real selves. And I reckon you get to know a person more when they are relaxed and with their defenses down. Isn't that the point of it all? How many of you have taken that one-way friendship road (without showing any trace of romantic inclination towards the other person) for thinking it's the only way to keep him safely, if you know he's a really a keeper?
I ask this 'cos it's beginning to hurt already. Right, Paul?