Gay Couples in Open Relationships

  • bkaotic

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    Sep 03, 2015 2:22 PM GMT
    My new video of the week - hope to hear some good feedback from you guys icon_smile.gif

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    Sep 03, 2015 10:25 PM GMT
    Is the next video gonna be about open-polyamorous-bisexual relationships? That's what I've been involved with for almost two years now with the same two guys, who both have girlfriends. Actually one of them has two girlfriends.

    The word "complicated" doesn't even begin to describe it. icon_lol.gif
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    Sep 03, 2015 11:21 PM GMT
    bkaotic saidMy new video of the week - hope to hear some good feedback from you guys icon_smile.gif

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    Sep 03, 2015 11:23 PM GMT
    paulflexes saidIs the next video gonna be about open-polyamorous-bisexual relationships? That's what I've been involved with for almost two years now with the same two guys, who both have girlfriends. Actually one of them has two girlfriends.

    The word "complicated" doesn't even begin to describe it. icon_lol.gif


    How many times have you swallowed?icon_cool.gif lol j/k
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    Sep 04, 2015 12:23 AM GMT
    2Bnaked said
    paulflexes saidIs the next video gonna be about open-polyamorous-bisexual relationships? That's what I've been involved with for almost two years now with the same two guys, who both have girlfriends. Actually one of them has two girlfriends.

    The word "complicated" doesn't even begin to describe it. icon_lol.gif


    How many times have you swallowed?icon_cool.gif lol j/k
    Ewwwwwwww only drag queens and awesome guys do that. icon_razz.gif
  • Oceans_of_Flo...

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    Sep 04, 2015 2:19 AM GMT

    Great video. I totally think "openness" should be talked about. Its a fixture in our community and no matter what level your relationship is at, an opening is just a decision away and those decisions have to be acknowledged.
    If I were in that position, I would more than likely play together until I got my sea legs back. I wouldn't tell him no because no means yes and once a man decides he wants to see other people, he's gonna set sail with or without you.

    OP, I like your videos. People are nasty in the comments, which is to be expected. This site is swarming with peacocks who want attention. How are you to blame because you are a budding internet sensation?

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    Sep 04, 2015 2:23 AM GMT
    Oceans_of_Flowers said
    Great video. I totally think "openness" should be talked about. Its a fixture in our community and no matter what level your relationship is at, an opening is just a decision away and those decisions have to be acknowledged.
    If I were in that position, I would more than likely play together until I got my sea legs back. I wouldn't tell him no because no means yes and once a man decides he wants to see other people, he's gonna set sail with or without you.

    OP, I like your videos. People are nasty in the comments, which is to be expected. This site is swarming with peacocks who want attention. How are you to blame because you are a budding internet sensation?



    He's rather charming for sure. But, loose is the noose. Most men in relationships, even married (gay or straight) want more. Can't they just be happy with one cock etc....? lol
    Gay, open relationships are just a convenience deal right? Have your shared living so you can both look materially fabulous and get lots of extra cock and stds on the side!! hahaha Good point.
  • Oceans_of_Flo...

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    Sep 04, 2015 2:54 AM GMT

    ^ - weren't you just at a bath house?

  • bobbobbob

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    Sep 04, 2015 2:56 AM GMT
    paulflexes saidIs the next video gonna be about open-polyamorous-bisexual relationships? That's what I've been involved with for almost two years now with the same two guys, who both have girlfriends. Actually one of them has two girlfriends.

    The word "complicated" doesn't even begin to describe it. icon_lol.gif


    LOL!!!!!!!!!
    You remind me of my chiropractor - a HAWT 38 y/o confirmed bachelor 6'4" monster stud who's having simultaneous affairs with a married cop + wife and a former short stop in pro baseball + girlfriend. And I know it's the truth because at separate times I've taken him and each of the couples out on my boat.

    He bought a boat of his own this summer and kept it at my dock. I don't think he ever took it out during the day. Just about every Friday or Saturday night between 8 and 10..... He usually calls to warn me he was coming to take some friends out...
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    Sep 04, 2015 3:01 AM GMT
    Oceans_of_Flowers said
    ^ - weren't you just at a bath house?



    Not me. I was in fact invited to go just 2 days ago by this cute 23 year old. I am just into doing that kind of show n tell in front of 250lbs walruses. I had to decline! lol
    I also hear and understand the infectious rate at these places for unwanted germs and STD'S is very high. I have a germ phobia!!! UGHHHHH
  • bobbobbob

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    Sep 04, 2015 3:20 AM GMT


    bkaotic saidMy new video of the week - hope to hear some good feedback from you guys icon_smile.gif

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    I know a few couples who've been in open relationships for more than a decade and most of them married when it became legal in Florida. They keep it discrete and out of the gossip circles and seldom discuss it except with close friends. Hardly a weekend passes here winter or summer that there's not fresh faces in town looking for hookups so it works out well I guess.

    With my 1st guy things were complicated. We became "couple" just to combine forces raising our two sons, the same age. I was getting all the sex I wanted during the week and had no real issues with him going out Friday or Saturday nights looking for something new because I knew he was always coming home.

    When the boys were 13 the four of us had been a family for over 7 years. His son was really put out with his dad going out on weekends leaving me at home. I mean it was a three or four day sulking issu every time after Steve went out. My son was caught in the role of trying to mediate between his brother and me. In retrospect and after talking it over with the boys now they're grown, my taking a neutral stand, ("there's nothing I can do about it if Steve wants to go out.") only made me seem more like a victim in their eyes and escalated things.

    It eventually got to the point Steve had to sit down and straighten it out with the boys and I stayed out of that. LOL! Finally he came outside looking dazed and said he had to stop going out unless I was going with him... His son had told him that if he was going to do that he ought to move out and get him a place of his own but he wasn't going with his dad.

    So we ended up in a GREAT totally monogamous relationship for the next eleven years thanks to a pair of sons and their expectations of their dads.

    Crazy shit happens every day on this crazy planet. When it does, roll with it.
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    Sep 04, 2015 3:25 AM GMT
    Feedback: What's the point? Watching you stand in front of a camera and talk is not very exciting.
  • Oceans_of_Flo...

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    Sep 04, 2015 3:29 AM GMT
    2bNaked, yer kind of judgy. But, whatever keeps you out of bath houses and three ways, works for me. Being the third in an open relationship is kind of like being a Dixie cup at a fraternity graduation bash and bath houses are like if last call lasted for 24 hours a day. :-( You are a smart boy, stay discerning.
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    Sep 04, 2015 3:44 AM GMT
    [quote][cite]Oceans_of_Flowers said[/cite]2bNaked, yer kind of judgy. But, whatever keeps you out of bath houses and three ways, works for me. Being the third in an open relationship is kind of like being a Dixie cup at a fraternity graduation bash and bath houses are like if last call lasted for 24 hours a day. :-( You are a smart boy, stay discerning.


    I might seem judgemental, but I really have no issues what others do. I have friends who love the night life, party and all the other gay bull. I do express my views and then hear the horror stories later. LOL

    My main preoccupation in life, is keeping my business and personal life optimal. Work hard, develop close business relationships and have good friends who you can trust and support you.

    Goals, are important and so many times they are sidetracked by frivolous things like who's getting more cock.....lol

    I like it that way....I am not a prude and hardly a bore. I am just careful!
  • Oceans_of_Flo...

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    Sep 04, 2015 3:53 AM GMT
    ^ Stay that way. I applaud you.

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  • bro4bro

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    Sep 04, 2015 4:17 AM GMT
    HikerSkier saidFeedback: What's the point? Watching you stand in front of a camera and talk is not very exciting.


    Agreed. If yer gonna stand there and lecture us, at least peel off yer shirt and play with yer nipples or somethin.

    And... try to get it all in one take. Those edits might have seemed edgy and cool eight years ago but after the 30th time they just start to get annoying. Like babysitting a kid with ADD.
  • bobbobbob

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    Sep 04, 2015 4:25 AM GMT


    2Bnaked said[quote][cite]Oceans_of_Flowers said[/cite]2bNaked, yer kind of judgy. But, whatever keeps you out of bath houses and three ways, works for me. Being the third in an open relationship is kind of like being a Dixie cup at a fraternity graduation bash and bath houses are like if last call lasted for 24 hours a day. :-( You are a smart boy, stay discerning.


    I might seem judgemental, but I really have no issues what others do. I have friends who love the night life, party and all the other gay bull. I do express my views and then hear the horror stories later. LOL

    My main preoccupation in life, is keeping my business and personal life optimal. Work hard, develop close business relationships and have good friends who you can trust and support you.

    Goals, are important and so many times they are sidetracked by frivolous things like who's getting more cock.....lol

    I like it that way....I am not a prude and hardly a bore. I am just careful!


    I'm the same way.
  • AMoonHawk

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    Sep 04, 2015 4:31 AM GMT
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