Flipping in one session

  • DBomb129

    Posts: 144

    Sep 05, 2015 1:07 AM GMT
    I'm versatile. My boyfriend is versatile. I prefer to have sex with versatile guys.

    Unfortunately, after bottoming, I can't keep it up to top.

    The only exception is if there's a brief window when I'm hard, but it goes away in five seconds. Otherwise, I recently had Cialis + a cock ring and that when very well. I'm a young guy so I don't need or want to be an ED medication and I doubt my doc would write it anyway.

    Any suggestions or similar experiences?

    *Sorry, thought I posted this in the sex section.
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    Sep 05, 2015 1:09 AM GMT
    Sorry dude, there's no hope. You're fucked.
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    Sep 05, 2015 3:27 AM GMT
    Fuck him first?
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    Sep 08, 2015 8:28 PM GMT
    Yup. Had similar experiences but maybe cause I watch too much porn. I can relate to the small window of opportunity for topping.
  • Destinharbor

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    Sep 08, 2015 9:22 PM GMT
    I'm the same way. My brain can switch to top or bottom but never in one session, I'm one or the other. In most relationships I've had, I've felt like the chemistry directed which position I took and usually we kept those positions with switching maybe 30% of the time, assuming the guy was also versatile. But never in the same session. And that chemistry was never bigger/smaller, younger/older. I've never felt the need to flip. Why worry about it? Just enjoy the moment and next time, jump on him first.