Gay Couples

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    Sep 07, 2015 7:50 PM GMT
    Do you look with disgust or suspicion on gay couples that are on dating sites who are looking for sex with other guys or ''friends''? I always ignore the messages if they ever contact me, because why would I be interested in a couple that just want pretty much a sex toy or what? Like what's in it for me? I hate those kind of couples especially if you write down youa r enot interested in couples

    at least they should be blunt and offer money for spending time with them
  • HottJoe

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    Sep 07, 2015 8:09 PM GMT
    I don't feel suspicious, because I know exactly what they're up to. Monogamy isn't satisfactory anymore, or maybe it never was. It's like an overcooked steak, and now they're turning to the side dishes. They're more like best friends w benefits: loyal to each other, but if you're the third wheel you're lower on the hierarchy.

    I'm not sure what's in it for the third person unless they just want threesomes for the pleasure of being in the middle. I think most of the time they're boarding a sinking ship. And, yes, they should ask for payment up front.

    As for couples contemplating being open, if it doesn't shatter your heart to give up your husband to another guy then maybe your heart isn't in it.
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    Sep 07, 2015 8:20 PM GMT
    bonaparts saidwhy would I be interested in a couple that just want pretty much a sex toy or what? Like what's in it for me?

    You get to be used and abused to your heart's content, with no danger of a relationship forming.
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    Sep 07, 2015 9:13 PM GMT
    HottJoe saidI don't feel suspicious, because I know exactly what they're up to. Monogamy isn't satisfactory anymore, or maybe it never was. It's like an overcooked steak, and now they're turning to the side dishes. They're more like best friends w benefits: loyal to each other, but if you're the third wheel you're lower on the hierarchy.

    I'm not sure what's in it for the third person unless they just want threesomes for the pleasure of being in the middle. I think most of the time they're boarding a sinking ship. And, yes, they should ask for payment up front.

    As for couples contemplating being open, if it doesn't shatter your heart to give up your husband to another guy then maybe your heart isn't in it.


    Thanks, that's what I thought
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    Sep 07, 2015 9:14 PM GMT
    Ahh yes, Men's greed at it's finest. Foul.
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    Sep 07, 2015 9:14 PM GMT
    Puppenjunge said
    bonaparts saidwhy would I be interested in a couple that just want pretty much a sex toy or what? Like what's in it for me?

    You get to be used and abused to your heart's content, with no danger of a relationship forming.


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    Sep 07, 2015 9:15 PM GMT
    Varus saidAhh yes, Men's greed at it's finest. Foul.



    explain please
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    Sep 07, 2015 9:52 PM GMT
    bonaparts said
    Varus saidAhh yes, Men's greed at it's finest. Foul.



    please clarify


    It's never a surprise when gay men feel the need to always want more when they have something substantial already. Men now a days (I feel) feel like they are entitled to happiness regardless of who they bring into their sick twisted games.
  • Scalese89

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    Sep 11, 2015 12:37 AM GMT
    Never surprises me really.