Lace Men's Underwear....Could you wear it?

  • metta

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    Sep 08, 2015 3:26 PM GMT
    http://www.aussiebum.com/underwear/lace-hipster-lace/2907









    I just don't think I could do it: Even for Halloween.
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    Sep 08, 2015 3:40 PM GMT
    No lace. Not because it doesn't fit a masculine image, but because as a practical matter it doesn't stand up to a man's lifestyle. Whether gay or straight.

    I like men's clothing that is rugged, not flimsy. Not subject to easy damage, that I can wear and be rough & tumble (insofar as I still can be these days). That I can throw in the washing machine & dryer with my jeans and cargo pants, and not hafta hand wash or otherwise specially handle.

    Finally, I don't even care for lace, in any usage. Not clothing, not table linen, not curtains, not doilies, nothing. Nor do I find it becoming when worn on other men. On women, well, they can do what they like. It's their gender privilege. I'm not paying attention anyway.
  • Destinharbor

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    Sep 08, 2015 3:52 PM GMT
    I can't understand why a guy who likes guys would think that feminization of a guy is attractive to guys who like guys. About the only place I see that is on Craigslist "MWM for fem." Small subset.
  • Bunjamon

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    Sep 08, 2015 6:40 PM GMT
    Aussiebum used to be one of my favorite brands. Now there isn't a single new product that appeals to me.
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    Sep 08, 2015 6:46 PM GMT
    I'd wear it for a paid photo shoot as an underwear model, but not as everyday clothing.
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    Sep 08, 2015 7:30 PM GMT
    If it has a lining, I suppose yes. But Lace on it's own, no-way. Will cause abbrasions on your nuts and Penis. In my oppinion, lace is real good for curtains and tables. Women's underwear, so they say.
  • Crisistunity

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    Sep 09, 2015 8:44 PM GMT
    Destinharbor saidI can't understand why a guy who likes guys would think that feminization of a guy is attractive to guys who like guys. About the only place I see that is on Craigslist "MWM for fem." Small subset.



    I think there's been more feminization of lace than anything else. Clothes are not feminine or masculine, we define them through fashion.

    See skirts.

    Do you think someone would be more feminine for wearing them?

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    «Kilts are not skirts» someone could argue, but they are, and there's nothing wrong with it.

    Do you think someone would be less masculine for wearing high heels? They used to be a male only accesory.


    Same applies to lace

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  • Destinharbor

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    Sep 09, 2015 9:08 PM GMT
    ....and that^^^^ looks ridiculous. Kilts are great on certain guys. High heals on guys, no. You are right that clothing can't by definition be masculine or feminine, but lace is delicate and looks like it, thus feminine. I'm fine with some clothing designs being stolen from women's wear-- I love a deep V cut on a man's t-shirt. But lace, way too baby doll. Yuk.
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    Sep 09, 2015 9:13 PM GMT
    I'm waiting for the huge, lace ruff collars to come back in style! Tres chic.
  • Crisistunity

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    Sep 09, 2015 9:24 PM GMT
    UndercoverMan saidI'm waiting for the huge, lace ruff collars to come back in style! Tres chic.


    You can also be a man and wear whatever you want without having to wait a couple of centuries before someone tells your remains that it is ok for you to wear it.
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    Sep 09, 2015 9:31 PM GMT
    ^^I'll check the internet for a haberdasher.

    Evidently ruffs are still worn by ministers in the church of Denmark, but conversion seems a little extreme.
  • Crisistunity

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    Sep 09, 2015 10:03 PM GMT
    UndercoverMan said^^I'll check the internet for a haberdasher.

    Evidently ruffs are still worn by ministers in the church of Denmark, but conversion seems a little extreme.


    Stop asking the world for permission and be a man.
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    Sep 09, 2015 11:04 PM GMT
    Crisistunity said
    UndercoverMan said^^I'll check the internet for a haberdasher.

    Evidently ruffs are still worn by ministers in the church of Denmark, but conversion seems a little extreme.


    Stop asking the world for permission and be a man.


    I saw no indication that I was asking anyone for permission. My post are meant to be lighthearted. Get over yourself.
  • Crisistunity

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    Sep 09, 2015 11:23 PM GMT
    UndercoverMan said
    Crisistunity said
    UndercoverMan said^^I'll check the internet for a haberdasher.

    Evidently ruffs are still worn by ministers in the church of Denmark, but conversion seems a little extreme.


    Stop asking the world for permission and be a man.


    I saw no indication that I was asking anyone for permission. My post are meant to be lighthearted. Get over yourself.


    I thought it was clear I was joking.

    I'll add some girly smileys next time in order not to hurt anyone's feelings icon_redface.gificon_lol.gif
  • mattyrec

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    Sep 09, 2015 11:23 PM GMT
    Absolutely not. Take a look at the model.
    Talk about feminization of a man!
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    Sep 09, 2015 11:48 PM GMT
    And in spite of the feminine look, the model didn't give up the beard icon_lol.gif

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  • Oceans_of_Flo...

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    Sep 09, 2015 11:57 PM GMT

    Femininity has its place, but I'm not into femininity - however, I do like dichotomy and there is something so contrary about a very muscular or masculine man in lace, nylons, or a whole lingerie get up... that I condone.
  • HottJoe

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    Sep 10, 2015 7:31 PM GMT
    Crisistunity said
    UndercoverMan said
    Crisistunity said
    UndercoverMan said^^I'll check the internet for a haberdasher.

    Evidently ruffs are still worn by ministers in the church of Denmark, but conversion seems a little extreme.


    Stop asking the world for permission and be a man.


    I saw no indication that I was asking anyone for permission. My post are meant to be lighthearted. Get over yourself.


    I thought it was clear I was joking.

    I'll add some girly smileys next time in order not to hurt anyone's feelings icon_redface.gificon_lol.gif

    Who you calling girly???icon_mad.gificon_mad.gificon_cry.gificon_redface.gif
  • Crisistunity

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    Sep 11, 2015 11:35 PM GMT
    HottJoe said
    Crisistunity said
    UndercoverMan said
    Crisistunity said
    UndercoverMan said^^I'll check the internet for a haberdasher.

    Evidently ruffs are still worn by ministers in the church of Denmark, but conversion seems a little extreme.


    Stop asking the world for permission and be a man.


    I saw no indication that I was asking anyone for permission. My post are meant to be lighthearted. Get over yourself.


    I thought it was clear I was joking.

    I'll add some girly smileys next time in order not to hurt anyone's feelings icon_redface.gificon_lol.gif

    Who you calling girly???icon_mad.gificon_mad.gificon_cry.gificon_redface.gif


    My insecurities towards my sexuality force me to «act» the way I think people think I should «be» according to what it is expected of me due to some cultural prejudices that relate behaviour and attire to genitalia, even though sometimes I feel like « icon_redface.gificon_surprised.gificon_cry.gificon_lol.gificon_rolleyes.gif » I refrain myself as to not appear like the kind of macho who would do girly stuff such as sucking dick.

    Plus, if I feel like wearing a skirt, I'll call it kilt so no one would call me a poofter.
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    Sep 11, 2015 11:44 PM GMT
    mattyrec saidAbsolutely not. Take a look at the model.
    Talk about feminization of a man!


    Dang. Were you really a finalist for Mr.Croatia 2007??
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    Sep 11, 2015 11:47 PM GMT
    first I was all HELL TO THE NO.

    But there are a couple hyper-masc guys I work with that could totes pull it off. I think if I see a guy at the gym wearing them I'll be obliged to clap.
  • Crisistunity

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    Sep 12, 2015 11:50 AM GMT
    dustin_K_tx said
    mattyrec saidAbsolutely not. Take a look at the model.
    Talk about feminization of a man!


    Dang. Were you really a finalist for Mr.Croatia 2007??



    Busted. icon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gif