grandfathers with Twinks can it work?

  • MartinMPL

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    Sep 08, 2015 8:50 PM GMT
    See what i and the founder of GSA Gay Sydney Australia thoughts on this

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    Sep 08, 2015 9:01 PM GMT
    MartinMPL saidgrandfathers with Twinks can it work?
    Until the grandfathers run out of money, sure. icon_razz.gif
  • bobbobbob

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    Sep 08, 2015 9:13 PM GMT

    Too much drama for me.

    I don't hurt for companionship. My gay grandson and his BF live with me. I'm really quite content 'being alone" for the first appreciable period of my adult life. I've been in three relationships that span from ages 24 to 65. Give me a break. LOL. Finally my dogs can get on the bed and not be pushed off during the night.

    I'd rather sleep alone for good reasons than sleep with someone for the wrong ones.

    As for the money aspect of dating younger guys - that's a real turn off. I do get approached by younger guys expecting me to buy them drinks but if they start talking about dating app relationship drama or the results of voting in the last episode of Dancing With the Stars there's no chance in hell they'll get a coke.
  • MartinMPL

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    Sep 08, 2015 9:21 PM GMT
    paulflexes said
    MartinMPL saidgrandfathers with Twinks can it work?
    Until the grandfathers run out of money, sure. icon_razz.gif


    HAHAHA
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    Sep 08, 2015 9:52 PM GMT
    must be board, actually watched it.

    Glad he brought up how predatory the young guys are.
  • NursePractiti...

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    Sep 09, 2015 5:50 PM GMT
    I have two friends who have been together for four years. One just turned 69 the other 30. So far so good.
  • HottJoe

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    Sep 09, 2015 7:10 PM GMT
    nursemuscle saidI have two friends who have been together for four years. One just turned 69 the other 30. So far so good.

    That's the norm with gay couples these days. Now that I'm 36 I just can't decide between 18 year olds and 72 year olds. One thing I know is that I would never sink to wasting my time with someone my own age. That would be so self hating.
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    Sep 09, 2015 9:57 PM GMT
    it's like seeing a little woman with an average size guy. you like to think people are people and love is love, but it looks a bit twisted and pervy.

    nursemuscle saidI have two friends who have been together for four years. One just turned 69 the other 30. So far so good.


    that's kind of creepy. he was almost 40 when his bf was a newborn. icon_surprised.gif

    HottJoe saidThat's the norm with gay couples these days. Now that I'm 36 I just can't decide between 18 year olds and 72 year olds. One thing I know is that I would never sink to wasting my time with someone my own age. That would be so self hating.


    that's interesting. do you think a lot of gay men have daddy issues (or in these cases, granddaddy issues)?
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    Sep 10, 2015 4:18 AM GMT
    nursemuscle saidI have two friends who have been together for four years. One just turned 69 the other 30. So far so good.


    Intergenerational "success stories" are getting pretty sloppy around here. No one's gonna buy a used car based on "so far so good" lol.
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    Sep 10, 2015 4:22 AM GMT
    bobbobbob said... I do get approached by younger guys expecting me to buy them drinks but if they start talking about dating app relationship drama or the results of voting in the last episode of Dancing With the Stars there's no chance in hell they'll get MY coke.
    Fixed
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    Sep 10, 2015 4:58 AM GMT
    If what the older guy in the video said was all true, I should just find myself a rich sugar daddy. icon_lol.gif
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    Sep 10, 2015 5:11 AM GMT
    I like to buy lavish gifts, have fun and go to dinner. Age is not an issue. If you like each other, you both find ways to contribute to the relationship!!! icon_wink.gif
  • HottJoe

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    Sep 10, 2015 6:37 PM GMT
    CODY4U saidit's like seeing a little woman with an average size guy. you like to think people are people and love is love, but it looks a bit twisted and pervy.

    nursemuscle saidI have two friends who have been together for four years. One just turned 69 the other 30. So far so good.


    that's kind of creepy. he was almost 40 when his bf was a newborn. icon_surprised.gif

    HottJoe saidThat's the norm with gay couples these days. Now that I'm 36 I just can't decide between 18 year olds and 72 year olds. One thing I know is that I would never sink to wasting my time with someone my own age. That would be so self hating.


    that's interesting. do you think a lot of gay men have daddy issues (or in these cases, granddaddy issues)?

    I think a lot of gay men grow up without positive gay role models. A positive gay role model would be someone who is not trying to sleep with them but is instead helping them towards a path of making wise decisions in all areas of life, including hopefully finding someone who they can grow with in a relationship.
  • HottJoe

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    Sep 10, 2015 6:39 PM GMT
    2Bnaked saidI like to buy lavish gifts, have fun and go to dinner. Age is not an issue. If you like each other, you both find ways to contribute to the relationship!!! icon_wink.gif

    When you say age is not an issue, does that mean you would date someone your own age, or does it mean you want a younger guy who will not have an issue with dating someone quite a bit older?
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    Sep 10, 2015 11:14 PM GMT
    This almost ALWAYS works. At least for me:

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    Sep 10, 2015 11:25 PM GMT
    mmm he is a hot daddy
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    bobbobbob said
    Too much drama for me.

    As for the money aspect of dating younger guys - that's a real turn off. I do get approached by younger guys expecting me to buy them drinks but if they start talking about dating app relationship drama or the results of voting in the last episode of Dancing With the Stars there's no chance in hell they'll get a coke.


    icon_lol.gif Great tip. Next time I hit on a Daddy I'll be sure to keep away from the commentary. icon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gif
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    Sep 11, 2015 12:32 AM GMT
    HottJoe said
    nursemuscle saidI have two friends who have been together for four years. One just turned 69 the other 30. So far so good.

    That's the norm with gay couples these days. Now that I'm 36 I just can't decide between 18 year olds and 72 year olds. One thing I know is that I would never sink to wasting my time with someone my own age. That would be so self hating.


    Why do you think its self hating?
  • ChicagoSteve

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    Sep 11, 2015 12:41 AM GMT
    Simx said
    HottJoe said
    nursemuscle saidI have two friends who have been together for four years. One just turned 69 the other 30. So far so good.

    That's the norm with gay couples these days. Now that I'm 36 I just can't decide between 18 year olds and 72 year olds. One thing I know is that I would never sink to wasting my time with someone my own age. That would be so self hating.


    Why do you think its self hating?


    Simx, don't even bother asking, you will never win this argument with HottJoe, he is being sarcastic,it's pointless. I have given up.
  • HottJoe

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    Sep 11, 2015 2:26 PM GMT
    Simx said
    HottJoe said
    nursemuscle saidI have two friends who have been together for four years. One just turned 69 the other 30. So far so good.

    That's the norm with gay couples these days. Now that I'm 36 I just can't decide between 18 year olds and 72 year olds. One thing I know is that I would never sink to wasting my time with someone my own age. That would be so self hating.


    Why do you think its self hating?

    I was being sarcastic. I actually think men who refuse guys their own age are foolish, if not self hating.
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    Sep 11, 2015 2:55 PM GMT
    We create our own intimacy rules and no one ought to dictate whom we should love. If you're a young guy and you like dads/granddads (or the reverse), embrace it and be happy. Life is too short to worry about societal expectations.
  • HottJoe

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    Sep 11, 2015 3:34 PM GMT
    DOMINUS saidWe create our own intimacy rules and no one ought to dictate whom we should love. If you're a young guy and you like dads/granddads (or the reverse), embrace it and be happy. Life is too short to worry about societal expectations.

    I think the people trying to dictate here are the older guys who want guys who are much younger, as it's becoming apparent in recent days that there's quite a contingent of older gay men who have expectations of being able to date a much younger guy and have their lust reciprocated. But the reality is that the vast majority of young guys would rather be with someone their own age, not to mention it's probably much better for them to be with someone their own age.

    I came out young, and all of my peers when I was young were subject to unwelcome advances from older men. It seemed at the time that older gay guys never dated each other, yet they expected young guys could be bought. I'm so glad that I didn't become one of them when I got older. I'm grateful to be loved by a man who is my equal. I feel sorry for guys who chase after younger guys. It's pathetic that they refuse to look for a man their own age.
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    Sep 11, 2015 11:27 PM GMT
    HottJoe said
    DOMINUS saidWe create our own intimacy rules and no one ought to dictate whom we should love. If you're a young guy and you like dads/granddads (or the reverse), embrace it and be happy. Life is too short to worry about societal expectations.

    I think the people trying to dictate here are the older guys who want guys who are much younger, as it's becoming apparent in recent days that there's quite a contingent of older gay men who have expectations of being able to date a much younger guy and have their lust reciprocated. But the reality is that the vast majority of young guys would rather be with someone their own age, not to mention it's probably much better for them to be with someone their own age.

    I came out young, and all of my peers when I was young were subject to unwelcome advances from older men. It seemed at the time that older gay guys never dated each other, yet they expected young guys could be bought. I'm so glad that I didn't become one of them when I got older. I'm grateful to be loved by a man who is my equal. I feel sorry for guys who chase after younger guys. It's pathetic that they refuse to look for a man their own age.


    Thank you for your input Dr. Ruth, I had no idea you were such an expert in psychology. I'm really done with this whole topic and have grown very tired of wasting my breath on it, so I'll just add one final thought. I find it very interesting HottJoe how much this topic bothers you. I mean it really bothers you right down to your core. Which frankly I don't understand, considering you have a husband and are taken. Why do you possibly care so much what happens between older and younger gay men? it's almost irrational. And as someone else pointed out, life is short. If two people agree what is best for them and what makes them happy, who are you to say that's wrong? Who appointed you God?
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    2Bnaked saidI like to buy lavish gifts, have fun and go to dinner. Age is not an issue. If you like each other, you both find ways to contribute to the relationship!!! icon_wink.gif

    When you say age is not an issue, does that mean you would date someone your own age, or does it mean you want a younger guy who will not have an issue with dating someone quite a bit older?


    Either or! It's not a big deal. There are a lot of sexy men in both age groups!
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    Sep 12, 2015 12:09 AM GMT
    Why do people take other people's opinions so much into their hearts. What one believes is their own right. Don't find offense where there isn't. If you disagree, disagree respectfully. Having or not having a husband doesn't close the individual from having opinions on a topic.

    Really men, just chill and read.