Showing your man you love him.

  • oxdr

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    Jan 31, 2009 12:43 PM GMT
    I really want to show my man that I love him. We had a horrible arguement lastnight and I just want to do something special. We have two boys and limited together time. Any suggestions????
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    Jan 31, 2009 12:46 PM GMT
    I've never gone wrong with a great big cuddle and a gently whispered "I love you" when the shit had hit the fan before hand..
  • GQjock

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    Jan 31, 2009 12:49 PM GMT
    Something little like a note in his briefcase
    or a call to his VM saying you love him

    or go big and make him a special dinner
    or reservations at his favorite restaurant

    Always remember the best sex is make up sex icon_razz.gif
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    Jan 31, 2009 1:17 PM GMT
    My partner and I have only gone to bed really mad at each other once. We always make up to each other with some TLC. icon_wink.gif
  • oxdr

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    Jan 31, 2009 1:19 PM GMT
    Thank you guys.

    What I need is a really fun date. One that says BAM babe. Any ideas?
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    Jan 31, 2009 4:38 PM GMT
    ah... you moved on. You can show your man you love him by doing things he particularly enjoys, even if its stuff you're not interested it. He loves horror flicks and you don't... well take him to one. He enjoys rock concerts but you don't... the summer concert season is coming up...

    it'll show him that you are still very much interested in him and truly in love with him cuz even if its stuff you may not like to do, as long as you're doing it with your guy then that's what truly matters... that you're together.
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    Jan 31, 2009 4:49 PM GMT
    yo_mamali saidYou can show your man you love him by doing things he particularly enjoys, even if its stuff you're not interested it.

    Yeah, exactly what I do, though fortunately the need doesn't arise too often. I do something to pamper & please him exclusively as you suggest, not something taken from my own likes & dislikes. And since my hubby knows what those things are, he appreciates the gesture more.

    And really, maybe that's something we should all occasionally do anyway. It's appropriate to compromise regarding conflicting likes & dislikes, but that can also mean we each never get to do something we really want. Nice to have a "hubby day" every now and then, when his preferences rule, or yours, sort of like being the birthday boy.
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    Jan 31, 2009 5:03 PM GMT



    Ok don't laugh, oxdr, but Bill and I usually do something that makes the other, er, sob a little. This can be a favourite pic hand-framed or a card, yes, hand made. Something about that...

    Sometimes it's symbolic. One occassion we bought a picture together of a light house - black and white 17th century etching. We bought it together. Bill looked at it and said,
    "Our love can weather any storm." I completely lost it in public.

    -Doug

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    Jan 31, 2009 8:48 PM GMT
    prove your love with coffee or sex