what kind of questions you ask on dating app to filter the right person?

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    Sep 20, 2015 3:19 AM GMT
    in general, I usually ask "are you into fun" when I met someone on dating app, I usually only interested to people who answer 'no'. If they added me on LINE, I usually can stalk their full name and crosscheck their profile on FB, if their privacy setting is poor enough, it will display their friendlist. I avoid these who added people with topless pictures.

    since I live in indonesia, I use english as the first language to communicate to ensure they are educated enough.

    what about you?
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    Sep 20, 2015 5:24 AM GMT
    ophis saidin general, I usually ask "are you into fun" when I met someone on dating app, I usually only interested to people who answer 'no'. If they added me on LINE, I usually can stalk their full name and crosscheck their profile on FB, if their privacy setting is poor enough, it will display their friendlist. I avoid these who added people with topless pictures.

    since I live in indonesia, I use english as the first language to communicate to ensure they are educated enough.

    what about you?

    I don't ask questions. If his profile is interesting, we have some common interests, and he doesn't have a horn growing out of his face, I simply say "let's meet for coffee and chat".

    For me, these apps are for finding guys. Meeting them in person is how I get to know them.
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    Sep 20, 2015 6:07 AM GMT
    I don't try to filter out online. I rattle off things I'm interested in or interested in trying and ask them for their interests. I look for things we have in common to build from there in person when we meet.

    Online apps are one dimensional at best relying on "lol" and emoji's to communicate. There have been several guys where online/text they came across as assholes but in person they were great. When you meet IN PERSON you can have much better context.
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    Sep 20, 2015 6:30 AM GMT
    Back in my single days of using dating apps, I usually read peoples profiles. If they have Open relationship, Married, Dating, Committed. I don't even read the intro of their profile I just go straight to block.

    Should they past that step I always look at key words in their profile. If they have the following words:

    Neg = has intentions of hooking up

    bottom/top = wants sex

    netflix&chill = wants sex, NEXT

    visiting = wants sex now, NEXT

    DL (down low) = Shady, don't expect anything long term with this guy, NEXT

    discreet = see term above ^

    masc = douche, Next

    men who ambiguously state their racial preference = Racist, next

    I'm pretty sure there were more that I'm missing, but you get the point. It's pretty easy decoding what men want, especially when men have to talk about themselves, it never fails.



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    Sep 20, 2015 3:14 PM GMT
    I love playing dumb to sketchy types who hit me up online.
    "PNP? What is that?"
    "Party and play? Play what? Board games?"
    "You want to give me G and T? How did you guess gin and tonic was my favorite drink?!??"
    "Tina? Who's Tina? I don't do girls."
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    Sep 20, 2015 4:16 PM GMT
    Are you top or bottom? icon_biggrin.gif
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    Sep 20, 2015 6:17 PM GMT
    rhinoceros saidAre you top or bottom? icon_biggrin.gif

    "Do you have a big dick?"   icon_twisted.gif

    Some guys remove all doubt with names like HungTop. They are probably quite busy.
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    Sep 20, 2015 8:03 PM GMT
    Lumpyoatmeal said
    rhinoceros saidAre you top or bottom? icon_biggrin.gif

    "Do you have a big dick?"   icon_twisted.gif

    Some guys remove all doubt with names like HungTop. They are probably quite busy.

    Nah. I don't believe people who tell about their dick, masculinity, str8-acting and similar. This is what I check for myself based on my own criteria. ;) So, such nicknames and writings do not impress me. Facts, measures and actions do. Preferably in person, so that writings are dismissed out of the way.
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    Sep 20, 2015 10:31 PM GMT
    If I'm on a dating app then I haven't found the right person have I?
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    Sep 22, 2015 2:13 AM GMT
    I'm surprised some of the queens on RJ haven't ripped apart OP for "slut-shaming" icon_lol.gif
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    Sep 22, 2015 11:24 AM GMT
    Wyndahoi saidI love playing dumb to sketchy types who hit me up online.
    "PNP? What is that?"
    "Party and play? Play what? Board games?"
    "You want to give me G and T? How did you guess gin and tonic was my favorite drink?!??"
    "Tina? Who's Tina? I don't do girls."


    This is so me..
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    Sep 23, 2015 4:55 PM GMT
    Wyndahoi saidI love playing dumb to sketchy types who hit me up online.
    "PNP? What is that?"
    "Party and play? Play what? Board games?"
    "You want to give me G and T? How did you guess gin and tonic was my favorite drink?!??"
    "Tina? Who's Tina? I don't do girls."


    my worst moment was when a guy asked me:

    poop on my chest