How to seduce a guy on the gym?

  • Dominican20

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    Sep 20, 2015 1:13 PM GMT
    So I've been going to the gym over a year ago and have always found every kind of muscular toned and masculine guys. I am very discreet and try my best not to show interest as we can say M2M.

    I really am attracted to very masculine guys and can't resist on going to talk to them or interact a little but I don't do it (Shy/Scared of what they could say or think). I hope I find people that feels the same way as me and could help me on some advices.

    How do you do to make the first step without letting them know that you're interested to them?

    Looking forward to have replies thank you in advance icon_cool.gif
  • Oceans_of_Flo...

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    Sep 20, 2015 6:58 PM GMT
    Don't be that guy trying to go to the gym to seduce people. People don't necessarily go there to be picked up. Your loophole as a sexy young guy is to eat right, find a good muscle building routine, commit to it and get so hot that guys come over and try to spot you or ask if you're using the bench to your right when you're already sitting on a bench, or ask you questions about your routine. Build it and they will come to seduce you. You're twenty and have a ways to go, get trucking.

    In the meantime, its so easy to show an interest - go over and compliment him on his hard work, ask if he needs a spot, if he wants to give a spot, or if you can work in on his machine, etc. Gyms are easy. I wrote however, what I wrote first, because its better to be sought after that way so you can pick from guys who constantly approach you instead of pouncing on the first poor guy who pays you a compliment or tries to spot you.
  • Dominican20

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    Sep 20, 2015 7:40 PM GMT
    I truly understand your point. It's true everything you said. Well enough thanks man .
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    Sep 20, 2015 8:10 PM GMT
    Lol be careful man. I've seen people cruise in the gym before and they usually just had this creepy stalker vibe going on. I don't know if they thought they were being sexy but if so they failed big time.
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    Sep 20, 2015 8:32 PM GMT
    The gym is not the place for that. For the most part guys are actually there to workout believe it or not.
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    Sep 20, 2015 11:03 PM GMT
    Seriously, don't do it. I hate it when guys stare at me, trying to get my attention. It's fucking creepy. It's even worse when we've seen each other on a gay app, so it's obvious that I'm gay and you know what I'm interested in.