Making out in public

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    Sep 23, 2015 5:27 AM GMT
    Does making out in public by either a 'Man or Woman' or 'Two Guys', make you think, "Hey get a room"? Or, does it make you cringe? Or, is it sort of a turn on? The overly, groping, kissing, etc. On a park bench or at a Restaurant table or in a motor vehicle? What are your views?
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    Sep 23, 2015 5:34 AM GMT
    If by making out you mean a grope session then yes, I think to myself they need to get a room. PDAs of short duration are fine. Public grope sessions are tacky.
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    Sep 23, 2015 6:02 AM GMT
    My boyfriend and I sometimes do just a quick peck on the lips but never full frontal make out sessions. You have to respect other people around you. Sometimes people just don't want to see that.
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    Sep 23, 2015 11:07 AM GMT
    Talon saidMy boyfriend and I sometimes do just a quick peck on the lips but never full frontal make out sessions. You have to respect other people around you. Sometimes people just don't want to see that.

    This sounds about right. My guy and I are not overly demonstrative in public... but it wasn't too long ago as we were walking to work, we got to my office first and I as I was saying "See you after work" i instinctively kissed him good-bye... and that was really the first PDA we've done... caught us both a little by surprise.

    I think PDA is fine, as it's titled... Public Display of *Affection*. Simple kisses, holding hands while walking, simple little affectionate displays.

    Public Displays of Lust, however, should be avoided. No one wants to see how far your tongue can go down someone's throat, or your hand creeping under someone's waistband in public.
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    Sep 23, 2015 11:37 AM GMT
    Quick peck is good. Full make out is awkward but a fredo kiss is the worst. That's just being a douche lol
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    Sep 23, 2015 2:03 PM GMT
    If it's a kiss made out of admiration for one another, it's fine, but if it's evolving into something sexual and long, then it's disgusting. But if you happen to see two people who are trying to be discrete and are kissing in a mostly private area outside where most people won't notice you, then it's okay....the complexity of PDA...
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    Sep 23, 2015 3:24 PM GMT
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    Sep 23, 2015 5:43 PM GMT
    My husband and I were out walking our dog in the French Quarter a few weeks ago and saw two guys fucking on a balcony. One guy was bent over the patio table and the other guy was behind him going at it like they were in the privacy of their bedroom. On our return from walking the dog we passed the same balcony and they were still at it! The best part is that it wasn't Mardi Gras, Southern Decadence or the weekend, and they knew we saw them but weren't in the least concerned.

    I know some people get off on public sex and part of the thrill is having someone spy on you but these two guys weren't in the least bit discreet at all.
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    Sep 23, 2015 5:48 PM GMT
    I actually find it heart warming to see any couple showing affection in public. It always makes me smile. It's not the Victorian era anymore and I think if someone is offended by affection, they might need to look at themselves a little deeper.
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    Sep 23, 2015 6:00 PM GMT
    Fine_Young_Cannibal saidDoes making out in public by either a 'Man or Woman' or 'Two Guys', make you think, "Hey get a room"? Or, does it make you cringe? Or, is it sort of a turn on? The overly, groping, kissing, etc. On a park bench or at a Restaurant table or in a motor vehicle? What are your views?


    Too often, these are just sexual displays, especially with the 13-22 year old set. Response is a mix of annoyance and "hey, get a room".
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    Sep 23, 2015 6:01 PM GMT
    Radd saidI actually find it heart warming to see any couple showing affection in public. It always makes me smile. It's not the Victorian era anymore and I think if someone is offended by affection, they might need to look at themselves a little deeper.


    There is a difference between shared affection and a face-sucking display...
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    Sep 23, 2015 6:07 PM GMT
    FitBlackCuddler said
    Radd saidI actually find it heart warming to see any couple showing affection in public. It always makes me smile. It's not the Victorian era anymore and I think if someone is offended by affection, they might need to look at themselves a little deeper.


    There is a difference between shared affection and a face-sucking display...



    How does two people kissing affect the quality of your life? I think it's sweet.
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    Sep 23, 2015 6:10 PM GMT
    UndercoverMan saidIf by making out you mean a grope session then yes, I think to myself they need to get a room. PDAs of short duration are fine. Public grope sessions are tacky.





    THIS.


    Extended groping and swapping spit in public, be you str8 or gay, is just plain ol' common and tacky.
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    Sep 23, 2015 6:21 PM GMT
    Common was one of my grandmother's favorite words. It needs to be brought back into vogue.

    As another poster said I don't have a problem if two people are being discrete about sucking face; for example, in a darkened doorway or some other place out of the way of prying eyes - that's romantic, but definitely not in a more public place like a theater, club, or restaurant - that's just common.
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    Sep 23, 2015 6:25 PM GMT
    A simple kiss is fine, but making out like you are the only people around is ridiculous.
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    Sep 23, 2015 7:39 PM GMT
    I've seen straight couples just mack public like no one is around. If I can hear that shit from a few yards away, then get a room. Then they get all made when other people are staring/laughing/jacking off to them. icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Sep 23, 2015 8:08 PM GMT
    If I don't like what I'm seeing I just look somewhere else. icon_rolleyes.gif
  • Webster666

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    Sep 23, 2015 8:43 PM GMT
    My opinion is that it's highly inappropriate, in public.
    A kiss or a hug when you greet someone, or when departing, is fine.
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    Sep 23, 2015 10:38 PM GMT
    Sometimes you can't help it..I'm very passionate..it happens
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    Sep 23, 2015 10:48 PM GMT
    "Mommy/Daddy.. why are those people eating each other's faces??"
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    Sep 23, 2015 10:49 PM GMT
    xrichx said"Mommy/Daddy.. why are those people eating each other's faces??"


    "They're zombies dear" - mommy
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    Sep 23, 2015 10:50 PM GMT
    Talon said
    xrichx said"Mommy/Daddy.. why are those people eating each other's faces??"


    "They're zombies dear" - mommy

    Lol.
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    Sep 23, 2015 10:51 PM GMT
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    Sep 23, 2015 11:51 PM GMT
    Radd said
    FitBlackCuddler said
    Radd saidI actually find it heart warming to see any couple showing affection in public. It always makes me smile. It's not the Victorian era anymore and I think if someone is offended by affection, they might need to look at themselves a little deeper.


    There is a difference between shared affection and a face-sucking display...



    How does two people kissing affect the quality of your life? I think it's sweet.


    Just keep adding up all the snide remarks, Radd. What goes around, comes around.
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    Sep 23, 2015 11:56 PM GMT
    I think a quick peck, holding hands, and embracing while walking are all acceptable. Anything more and get a room!