Is there any point in being

  • Matthew56

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    Sep 24, 2015 11:19 PM GMT
    Gay if you are black or East Asian I mean you if you are gonna do the Gay thing you face a life of rejection feelings of unhappiness depression and also self hate

    You may feel like this is a troll topic but a lot of gay non white men who experience the scene/culture go through these feelings
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    Sep 24, 2015 11:30 PM GMT
    Yea I'm glad that you were born black so you can suffer this personal hell for the rest of your sad and pathetic life.
  • tazzari

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    Sep 24, 2015 11:31 PM GMT
    Is there any point in being tall, or talented, or anything else? You make your own point. You let other people reject you and make you unhappy - it's time to make some changes.

    I'm not Black or East Asian, but I've experienced some of the rejection you speak of. You have to create your own happiness - after all, it's your life.

    No, there's no "point" in being gay. You just are. Deal with it.
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    Sep 24, 2015 11:33 PM GMT
    suffering builds character
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    Sep 24, 2015 11:34 PM GMT
    You are rejected if they don't like you. Plain and simple.

    WHY DOES NO ONE UNDERSTAND THAT?!
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    Sep 24, 2015 11:38 PM GMT
    tazzari saidIs there any point in being tall, or talented, or anything else? You make your own point. You let other people reject you and make you unhappy - it's time to make some changes.

    I'm not Black or East Asian, but I've experienced some of the rejection you speak of. You have to create your own happiness - after all, it's your life.



    No, there's no "point" in being gay. You just are. Deal with it.


    Well all it does is make me depress and hate myself if only white men could no how it feels like to walk in this skin in the gay world
  • tj85016

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    Sep 24, 2015 11:40 PM GMT
    move to Uganda, problem solved
  • Matthew56

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    Sep 24, 2015 11:43 PM GMT
    tj85016 saidmove to Uganda, problem solved


    I do not like black men
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    Sep 24, 2015 11:44 PM GMT
    Matthew56 said
    tj85016 saidmove to Uganda, problem solved


    I do not like black men


    lol. now that's a problem
  • giodude

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    Sep 25, 2015 6:25 PM GMT
    there is no "point" in being gay. It's an aspect of being not a new year's resolution.

    Who said east asians aren't attractive? They're sooo cute. IF you want to talk about yourself then go ahead but don't be dragging other people's races into your own little dilemma
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    Sep 26, 2015 9:55 AM GMT
    Yeah there is. To prove the assholes wrong.

    Plus there are many advantages. You're two minorities so you're more likely to get hired by a company as they have the racism and homophobia card already set. lol.

    Plus there are lots of bisexual white guys who like black guys and girls so it's good.
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    Sep 26, 2015 10:12 AM GMT
    You and all of us are just fly specks on the face of humanity. Don't over think it.
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    Sep 26, 2015 7:31 PM GMT
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    Sep 26, 2015 8:17 PM GMT
    I could wonder the same thing, is there any point in being gay as a double amputee. That was (and still is) my main concern entering the gay dating world. Would anyone find me attractive w/out legs and feet?

    I recognise that my happiness does not depend on others. For those whose does, they need to work on themselves first. Only by being happy with yourself can you really go out and strive for what you want. Life sucks and people suck, don't let them get you down.
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    Sep 26, 2015 8:26 PM GMT
    ^^^

    This is besides the point, but man....

    I can't even wrap my mind around the horrific pain you must have suffered...

    All the best to you.
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    Sep 26, 2015 8:43 PM GMT
    Matthew56 said
    tj85016 saidmove to Uganda, problem solved


    I do not like black men


    ....and here you are complaining that YOU think all white people feel just like you do about black men.



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    Sep 26, 2015 8:48 PM GMT
    The existential question is: Do any of us ultimately have any real reason for being? Or is this all really just an accident?
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    Sep 26, 2015 8:58 PM GMT
    I don't think black or asin or people from any race is unattractive. We all make assumption based on stereotypes hence the lack of happiness. There are thousands of asain guys who occasionally goes to gym and are very attractive and does not fit into so called asian cuteness.
    There is always rejection if your personality is shitty. Maybe you are the problem. icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Sep 26, 2015 9:59 PM GMT
    Talon saidYea I'm glad that you were born black so you can suffer this personal hell for the rest of your sad and pathetic life.

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    Sep 27, 2015 1:05 AM GMT
    sonofyoda said
    swimjammer saidI could wonder the same thing, is there any point in being gay as a double amputee. That was (and still is) my main concern entering the gay dating world. Would anyone find me attractive w/out legs and feet?

    I recognise that my happiness does not depend on others. For those whose does, they need to work on themselves first. Only by being happy with yourself can you really go out and strive for what you want. Life sucks and people suck, don't let them get you down.


    Thank you for saying this. You have guys that are able bodied like the OP complaining about nothing.

    I just have to ask. What type of guys does the OP go after and for what reason?

    There was another member who just so happened to be Asian, Swifterchris, where he basically contradicted himself. He was objectifying white men saying that he only wanted to date them because they were white but he got upset at some guy that did the same thing to him, rejecting him because he was Asian. If you as a nonwhite person is going to date someone simply because they have white skin, then yes, you deserve to be rejected. Just because someone has white skin or European roots doesn't mean that you should judge them based off of that alone. Get to know them as a person like how you yourself want to be known as a person instead of being seen as "that black guy". That just says you genuinely don't like them. I hope you also are not saying that you would want someone to date you simply because your skin is black.


    Yoda, are you white?
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    Sep 27, 2015 4:11 AM GMT
    Talon saidYea I'm glad that you were born black so you can suffer this personal hell for the rest of your sad and pathetic life.
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    Sep 27, 2015 4:17 AM GMT
    swimjammer saidI could wonder the same thing, is there any point in being gay as a double amputee. That was (and still is) my main concern entering the gay dating world. Would anyone find me attractive w/out legs and feet?

    I recognise that my happiness does not depend on others. For those whose does, they need to work on themselves first. Only by being happy with yourself can you really go out and strive for what you want. Life sucks and people suck, don't let them get you down.


    Wow. I truly admire your strength and courage.

    I often think that many of my problems are superficial and reading this just snaps be back to earth.

    I hope others like the OP reads this and realizes how good he has it.


    Life is all what you make it. You should share your story if you haven't already. It would be more interesting than 99.9% of the threads on here...
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    Sep 27, 2015 4:21 AM GMT
    sonofyoda said
    swimjammer saidI could wonder the same thing, is there any point in being gay as a double amputee. That was (and still is) my main concern entering the gay dating world. Would anyone find me attractive w/out legs and feet?

    I recognise that my happiness does not depend on others. For those whose does, they need to work on themselves first. Only by being happy with yourself can you really go out and strive for what you want. Life sucks and people suck, don't let them get you down.


    Thank you for saying this. You have guys that are able bodied like the OP complaining about nothing.

    I just have to ask. What type of guys does the OP go after and for what reason?

    There was another member who just so happened to be Asian, Swifterchris, where he basically contradicted himself. He was objectifying white men saying that he only wanted to date them because they were white but he got upset at some guy that did the same thing to him, rejecting him because he was Asian. If you as a nonwhite person is going to date someone simply because they have white skin, then yes, you deserve to be rejected.



    You've been a member for less than 7 days and you know all this? icon_confused.gif Right.....
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    Sep 27, 2015 4:21 AM GMT
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    swimjammer saidI could wonder the same thing, is there any point in being gay as a double amputee. That was (and still is) my main concern entering the gay dating world. Would anyone find me attractive w/out legs and feet?

    I recognise that my happiness does not depend on others. For those whose does, they need to work on themselves first. Only by being happy with yourself can you really go out and strive for what you want. Life sucks and people suck, don't let them get you down.


    Wow. I truly admire your strength and courage.

    I often think that many of my problems are superficial and reading this just snaps be back to earth.

    I hope others like the OP reads this and realizes how good he has it.


    Life is all what you make it. You should share your story if you haven't already. It would be more interesting than 99.9% of the threads on here...


    +100 icon_biggrin.gif We sure shouldn't take what we have for granted.
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    Oct 09, 2015 11:44 AM GMT
    Matthew56 saidGay if you are black or East Asian I mean you if you are gonna do the Gay thing you face a life of rejection feelings of unhappiness depression and also self hate

    You may feel like this is a troll topic but a lot of gay non white men who experience the scene/culture go through these feelings


    You don't like black guys so what makes you think anyone else would?