HOT GAY GUYS VS HOT STRAIGHT GUYS

  • supreme_fit

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    Sep 30, 2015 6:47 PM GMT
    why are the majority (majority being the operative word) of good looking gay guys so cocky, arrogant, pompous, full of themselves, and all too aware of their good looks- yet the majority of really hot straight guys (and usually much hotter than the hottest of gay men) seem to be completely unaware of how hot they are -- which in turn makes them all the hotter? it befuddles me to no end.

    I know some really cute humble down to earth straight guys who can't get laid, a girlfriend, or a date to save their lives. these very same guys would be getting ass left n rght if they ever vacationed on DUDE island. one of my straight buddies is a personal trainer at LA fitness. he's really humble, absolutely gorgeous, 6'4, fit (obviously), white and movie star handsome- but most of the women he dates look like a Walmart cashier version of Kate Hudson. he's single more often than he's paired up.

    Whenever he hits a straight club, he does get a few looks from the ladies, but just like every other guy in the club (ugly and good looking alike) he's going out of his way to get the females attention- buying drinks, "spittin game" to these entitled spoiled attention starved women. when he hits a gay club with me, of course he's the main attraction. the red carpet is practically rolled out for him. guys are gawking at him, buying him drinks, and chatting him up as if he were a hot chick in a straight club. I can tell he really revels in it. He would NEVER experience this in a straight environment, unless he were a celebrity or something.

    so again, my question is why are hot straight guys typically more humble and unware of their looks than good looking gay men?
  • HottJoe

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    Sep 30, 2015 7:24 PM GMT
    Sucks to be straight.
  • supreme_fit

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    Sep 30, 2015 8:36 PM GMT
    HottJoe saidSucks to be straight.
    unless you're a hot straight chick.
  • HottJoe

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    Sep 30, 2015 8:38 PM GMT
    supreme_fit said
    HottJoe saidSucks to be straight.
    unless you're a hot straight chick.

    I thought you said your hot straight friend can't get a chick. If I was a hot straight chick I probably wouldn't want the refuse either. Girls are picky, lol!
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    Sep 30, 2015 8:43 PM GMT
    ??Again
    did you just cut and paste the same OP?
    Did you not learn anything in "Reparative Therapy?"
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    Oct 01, 2015 12:47 AM GMT
    Funny, how you're answering your own question before even asking it.

    If you want to talk/have sex/be friends with the hot gay guys, you need to be one yourself.
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    Oct 01, 2015 1:22 AM GMT
    Men

    "Hungry?"
    Yeah. Let's eat.

    "Bored?"
    Yeah. Let's do something.

    "Horny?"
    Yeah. Let's fuck.

    Women

    "Hungry?"
    Well...not really... (I'm fucking starving)

    "Bored?"
    I'm totally fine like this! (Fuck I'm so bored)

    "Horny?"
    Ohmygod! What? lol (I need dick so bad...)

    Sometimes women don't make sense...
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    Oct 01, 2015 12:14 PM GMT
    You must not run in the same circles I do. Of my hot friends I can say only one knows and acts on his hotness. The rest concede that they are muscular but deny that they are hot.
    And as far as the straight guys go? I see plenty if stuck up body perfect guys who know who they are in that respect. And a few who are a touch delusional too.
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    Oct 01, 2015 1:09 PM GMT
    supreme_fit saidyet the majority of really hot straight guys (and usually much hotter than the hottest of gay men)


    This seems like some internalised homophobia bullsh*t to me. I think you have a serious bias.

    There are arrogant hot guys of both gay and straight.
  • Sincityfan

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    Oct 01, 2015 4:00 PM GMT
    dustin_K_tx said??Again
    did you just cut and paste the same OP?
    Did you not learn anything in "Reparative Therapy?"


    HOT GAY GUYS VS HOT STRAIGHT GUYS on Sep 30, 2015 at 1:36 PM
    Has anyone ever wondered what it would be like to be straight? on Sep 11, 2015 at 3:01 PM
    Dating a much bigger/stronger guy on Sep 08, 2015 at 5:02 PM
    How shallow are you when it comes to men on Aug 27, 2015 at 3:42 PM
    Who actually believes that gay men are hotter than straight men? on Aug 24, 2015 at 12:54 PM
    GAY GUYS ARE UGLY! on Sep 01, 2015 at 9:58 AM
    Why are straight men way hotter than gay men? on Jul 15, 2015 at 8:34 PM
    Have you ever felt like allowing your boyfriend to hook up with other guys? on Jul 15, 2015 at 6:23 PM
    Magic Mike on Jul 13, 2015 at 2:29 PM
    Bottom Shaming on Jul 08, 2015 at 2:34 PM
    ARE WE MORE SHALLOW THAN STRAIGHT MEN? on Jul 08, 2015 at 10:58 PM
    I AM JEALOUS OF WOMEN. ARE YOU? on May 13, 2015 at 10:17 AM

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  • giodude

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    Oct 01, 2015 5:07 PM GMT
    ^ I didn't take the time to look at this guy's list of posts but I could recognise his self-loathing and need for validation from attractive WHITE men from a mile away

    1) Not only white men are attractive

    2) hot gays know they're hot because they're attracted to other men and can therefore accurately measure their hotness

    3) there are straight guys who are absolutely aware of how hot they are and are total douschbags about it. They may not direct their douschbaggery at you because you're not the intended target of their attractiveness, but they treat girls like crap.

    4) attractiveness is not everything.
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    Oct 01, 2015 6:09 PM GMT
    Sincityfan said
    dustin_K_tx said??Again
    did you just cut and paste the same OP?
    Did you not learn anything in "Reparative Therapy?"


    HOT GAY GUYS VS HOT STRAIGHT GUYS on Sep 30, 2015 at 1:36 PM
    Has anyone ever wondered what it would be like to be straight? on Sep 11, 2015 at 3:01 PM
    Dating a much bigger/stronger guy on Sep 08, 2015 at 5:02 PM
    How shallow are you when it comes to men on Aug 27, 2015 at 3:42 PM
    Who actually believes that gay men are hotter than straight men? on Aug 24, 2015 at 12:54 PM
    GAY GUYS ARE UGLY! on Sep 01, 2015 at 9:58 AM
    Why are straight men way hotter than gay men? on Jul 15, 2015 at 8:34 PM
    Have you ever felt like allowing your boyfriend to hook up with other guys? on Jul 15, 2015 at 6:23 PM
    Magic Mike on Jul 13, 2015 at 2:29 PM
    Bottom Shaming on Jul 08, 2015 at 2:34 PM
    ARE WE MORE SHALLOW THAN STRAIGHT MEN? on Jul 08, 2015 at 10:58 PM
    I AM JEALOUS OF WOMEN. ARE YOU? on May 13, 2015 at 10:17 AM

    Next Thread:

    WHY DON'T STRAIGHT (WHITE) GUYS EVER HIT ON ME?


    Lmaoo

    Pathetic
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    Oct 01, 2015 6:23 PM GMT
    how about you suck some straight dick and get it over with OP?
    In the mean time, you might also enjoy some thrashing from some homophobic straight dude.
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    Oct 01, 2015 8:33 PM GMT
    Because vanity is not a core value to them like it is with a gay guy. Check
    back in 10 years when he is fat and going bald and he is wearing same clothes as he wore ten years ago to prove my point.
  • roadbikeRob

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    Oct 01, 2015 11:26 PM GMT
    robbaker saidthese gay forum topics are the worst you gays can come up with . next topic who's dick is bigger the black gay man who's uncut or they white straight jock who's cuticon_rolleyes.gif
    Dont you ever get tired of making a complete idiot of yourself posting all that anti gay hyperboleicon_mad.gificon_question.gif
  • LJay

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    Oct 02, 2015 2:59 AM GMT
    I once asked this question of a bartender who was in a position to do a lot of observing. Her answer: Because they have so many choices.
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    Oct 02, 2015 10:11 AM GMT
    supreme_fit saidso again, my question is why are hot straight guys typically more humble and unware of their looks than good looking gay men?



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    Oct 02, 2015 3:37 PM GMT
    I disagree with the OP , i have a straight mate who for sure is truly handsome , and believe me he is not oblivious to it ..hahaha
    In comparison , i have gay mates who are as handsome and are totally oblivious to it ...
    It depends of the personality of the individual ...
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    Oct 02, 2015 7:34 PM GMT

    so again, my question is why are hot straight guys typically more humble and unware of their looks than good looking gay men? [/quote]

    Guy are supposed to be the aggressive ones, the chasers so no matter how good looking a guy is he knows he has to work to get a girl to like him.

    Men see other men as competitors. We were always taught that as kids. Also a lot of gay men are mean to other gay because they look at themselves with disgust. In the back of their minds they have this insecurity being gay is something weak and silly.

    Compound both ways of thinking and you have the nasty attitude you have come across. It's not just the good-looking gay guys it's a lot of the ugly ones too. Just imagine Peewee Herman thinking he's Tom Cruise, yup that's the typical gay attitude you come across in bars and clubs.
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    Oct 03, 2015 2:24 AM GMT
    supreme_fit saidwhy are the majority (majority being the operative word) of good looking gay guys so cocky, arrogant, pompous, full of themselves, and all too aware of their good looks- yet the majority of really hot straight guys (and usually much hotter than the hottest of gay men) seem to be completely unaware of how hot they are -- which in turn makes them all the hotter? it befuddles me to no end.


    I don't know what straight guys you know, but the hot straight guys I know know they are hot and flaunt it any chance they get.
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    Oct 03, 2015 2:32 AM GMT
    Generalizations. OP is full of them. icon_lol.gif
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    Oct 04, 2015 11:09 AM GMT
    to the op you should just kill yourself now, maybe in your next life you will be born with a vagina so you can just be a do nothing bitch where your whole purpose in life is just to get fucked by a straight men.
  • supreme_fit

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    Nov 03, 2015 8:01 PM GMT
    Talon saidto the op you should just kill yourself now, maybe in your next life you will be born with a vagina so you can just be a do nothing bitch where your whole purpose in life is just to get fucked by a straight men.


    Someone is a Ronda Rousey fan I see. Come up with your own witty retorts instead of high jacking quotes you see online. Also, Having a vagina wouldn't automatically make me a "do nothing bitch" as you say, but it'd definitely save me from having to deal with worthless, girly, emotionally unbalanced sissies, like yourself.
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    Nov 05, 2015 4:23 PM GMT
    Gay men compete with each other. A straight guy wouldn't be in competition with a woman, so their dynamic is obviously less competitive and less hostile. With hot guys that date average to fugly girls (which is definitely a thing), the girl will do any and everything to keep him and he knows it. The mild-but-not-too-needy desperation is a total turn on for straight guys. Hot women with gross men is a thing too, and they're probably treated like queens by those toads.
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    Nov 20, 2015 8:43 PM GMT
    giodude said^ I didn't take the time to look at this guy's list of posts but I could recognise his self-loathing and need for validation from attractive WHITE men from a mile away

    1) Not only white men are attractive

    2) hot gays know they're hot because they're attracted to other men and can therefore accurately measure their hotness

    3) there are straight guys who are absolutely aware of how hot they are and are total douschbags about it. They may not direct their douschbaggery at you because you're not the intended target of their attractiveness, but they treat girls like crap.

    4) attractiveness is not everything.